Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

I'd be hugely worried about the cancer risk. The hpv vaccine doesn't protect against all strains and condoms don't avoid it.

Oh, my word! Whatever has the world come to?!?!

(I will shuffle off clutching my pearls)

I’m not saying random people searching her will cause issues. I am saying people connected to her, may take issue with her reputation - like her own kids or in laws or whatever. Or if she’s seeking work/other financial opportunities, those contacts may search her. Those sorts of things could have a reasonable impact to her day to day life.

I agree that randoms searching her are likely not going to impact her much. But I would be surprised if she got a job in a school or as a carer, considering the articles online say she likes “barely legal and barely breathing” people to have sex with.

Also I think the lady you know, isn’t as notorious as Bonnie Blue. Like she has pretty much gone viral, but it sounds like the lady you know kept things somewhat discreet?

You have to pay a subscription to view only fans ..thats where the cash comes from!

Ha ha ha ha ha....thank YOU for cheering me up. I've had a shitty few days and this made for lol for the first time in ages 😅 🙃. Ps...I agree with every word 👏

They’re porn stars. None of this is new. The only difference is that, in replacing the word “porn” with “OnlyFans”, it sanitises and normalises porn in our society.

But make no mistake, women in porn have been doing egregiously harmful and damaging things for money (and status, and attention) for decades, it’s just that wider society weren’t aware of it.

Exactly and we wonder where the damage begins...thats not parenting in any shape or form to me. I cannot imagine sitting down with my parents and explaining my career choice and would they help facillitate that ?!! Mine would have me sectioned!!

I'm sure you didn't literally mean genius because obviously if she were a genius (or even moderately bright), she'd find a far less damaging and dignified to earn a million?

Yes, not new. But the new bit is that OnlyFans is supposed to be 'empowering' because " feminism is about choices".

Funny how all the empowering choices for women benefit men.

Isn’t Bonnie well over 30 already? Possibly over 40?

its terribly sad that any person values their own body so little to do something this extreme.

I can’t imagine being ok mentally prior or after doing something so physically traumatic to my body.

Seeing the comments here have made me sad, she’s been called really derogatory names and had her looks ripped to pieces, yet the 1000 willing participants who lined up to have sex with someone who must have no respect for themselves to the extent I’d worry it’s a vulnerability, have managed to remained nameless and faceless and devoid of any blame for ruining society.

She’ll be a casualty of her own actions one day warning a younger woman in ten years planning to have sex with 2000 men in 24 hours or whatever the new extreme is, telling her how much it’s fucked her life up.

No matter what you think about her, her looks aren’t relevant, we’re forever saying women don’t owe anyone pretty so why does she?

I hope she’s resting with a ice pack on her vagina being brought cups of tea and digestives and someone is getting some good therapy sorted for her.

25, real name is Tia Billinger, her fb account from when she was at school is still up

The 'mum' is also supposedly another adult actress and not her real mum ????? Not sure if that's true but quite a few people saying it

That’s really sad she’s only 25 and she looks so much older, and not in a wrinkly kind of way just an empty and sad aged look? I wonder if she had other options for a career and somehow lost her sense of self worth somewhere. It’s very sad

Quite!

Really not sure what her angle is either (aside from pimping her wares for her OF account obviously) as I read that she doesn’t charge for the hundreds of 45sec sessions.

Is it empowering women to have a conveyor belt of teens and their Dad’s queuing up to empty their load in you like you’re a real life sex doll?

They’re all disgusting specimens. Can you imagine the smell after a few of them, let alone over a thousand in 12 hours!

A million quid wouldn't even cover the therapy bill. That Onlyfans is even a thing is beyond grim.
If I were Tim Berners Lee I'd want my internet back.

Why are you even bothered by this filth?

More pricks than a second hand dartboard!

when they try to turn their reputation around, have kids etc, i think they will be a bit embarrassed at what theyve done. Moneys not everything.

I think they're clever. Like Katie Hopkins they're generating outrage to make money.

I don't think either of them slept with 100 men in a day. They're claiming that as a publicity stunt, obviously, and everyone is eating it up

Just found her FB account.

I think it actually is her mum. I assumed it was an actor but it's the same woman as in her childhood photos.

I'll be very, very surprised if in a year or more down the line it doesn't come out that she's experiencing some sort of mania. She looks too detached from the whole thing, even accepting degradation on the street but doesn't even seem to register this fully? Something's off.

If I'm wrong though and she's totally 100 per cent then... I hope she's thought it through. I try not to shame sex workers, but no one comes out of this looking well. The 1000+ men queuing up for hours just makes me feel a bit ill.

I don’t think they are lying about that because they posted footage. However it’s a publicity stunt for sure.

Because I find it extraordinary.

Yes it is grotesque. I find human behaviour fascinating.

The vast majority of people wouldn't entertain doing anything like this and I'm intrigued.

I'd be very interested to see the long term outcome.

I imagine that they have cocaine addiction. They would be very unlikely to have a good relationship long term and their future children will be massively messed up.