Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

She isn't 'having sex'; the men buying the use of her body are the ones having sex.
It affects the rest of us because its public behaviour that's having a negative effect on men's expectations of women and their behaviour towards us. Its having a negative effect on the social contract.

And the timing is suspect. The grooming gangs scandal had just finally broken into public consciousness, and here we are discussing this mess instead.

I have seen a lot of threads on FB about this. The difference in the comments from men and women, are what really struck me.

Most women show care and concern for the long term affects on Bonnie Blue.

The men rarely show any concern and seem to revel in the subject matter, and enjoy adding comments along the lines of : "like throwing a sausage up an alley" or "had more pricks than a dart board". On and on it goes, all egging each other on, with more and more disgusting analogies filling up the feed.

So, whilst these men arguably aren't as bad as the men who actually queued up to have sex with Bonnie Blue, they do show a very nasty misogynistic side to themselves. It's really given me pause for thought, tbh.

If the men are having sex, so is she

One of the more sadder things Phillips said was she wanted to please the men queuing up for her and bring them off if she could... she clearly sees her role as her being an object for their pleasure, she hasn't created this narrative, it was there all along.

Something said decades ago: "My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom"

These expectations are nothing new, sad but who brings up their sons? if men have these twisted views, then we share the blame.

Blondiebeachbabe

.that's interesting because the main difference that I have seen is that many women are trying to take away this woman's agency and make it seem like she was forced to do it or badly advised into doing it.

1. She is having sex
2. Her behaviour does not impact us. Men’s misogyny impacts us as do women like you who make women responsible for the way men choose to behave.
3. If a man has expectations of me because of how a completely different woman chooses to behave then he is, quite frankly, too stupid to live.

She is not having sex any more than an actress would be having sex in a sex scene; prostituted women don't kiss their clients, only their lovers.

They are only doing it for shock factor and for money . Their parents are cashing in on this disgusting thing . The less interest in them the better, makes me so annoyed when I think of all the young women struggling hard studying and in jobs to pave their way in the world and then you get the likes of these two who boast about making money be their disgusting behaviour .

And who would want to kiss her mouth now - you don't know where it's been! Literally!

Was reading an article yesterday about a guy who went there. He was saying he thought it was a line up and go in turn but when he got there it was about 20 odd guys gathered around having a go at her intermittently. How revolting .

"'There were around 30 or 40 guys around her at any one time all taking turns. She was surrounded by guys.
'There were so many guys there and I'm quite shy. I've never been involved in anything like that so I didn't get involved.'

absolute nonsense. She is disgusting.

It is revolting. Really bad.

what if to some people , they just see sex as sex, eg when i was at uni some people were more academic about sex, and the psychological analysis of it all, but others just saw it as either pleasure, or a way to go clubbing pull a guy and have free drinks etc for the night,

im not sure the point im making, other than what if to some sex = easy £ but to others its the whole think of others etc

I'd say Women today have far more self belief to lay down the ground rules of any sexual activity than any previous generation.

While obviously not what you would do, she also has autonomy over her own decisions. Appears to be working for herself, with her in charge of the operation.

I'd challenge all the ones saying it is wrong, would they have the same sense of outrage if it were a gay man having sex with a large number of men during a short length of time. I suspect not.

You'd suspect wrong. Stop making up scenarios to 'prove' how awful your opponents are and try to engage with the points being made.

There is something wrong in taking advantage of an individual who is self harming, no matter how that manifests. When it becomes a public, group activity it affects all of us.

Were you a part of the group having sex with Bonnie Blue? If not, it really does not affect you.

It really does affect society, the social contract is changing, men's attitudes and behaviour are changing. Not for the better.

but with that i can agree, but when you look at eg the swinging sixties, etc as an example , it seems society has been more kinky in the past, just that modern media has it around the world of the kinks people do ?

I don't believe it is. Women are far more confident in refusing or reporting bad male behaviour than they were a decade ago, go back further and it was even worse.

We are certainly more sexually accepting of different things today. But that needn't be a bad thing, providing it is all consensual. After all it isn't that long since being homosexual would get you battered at school or in the wrong pub.

How do the men get boners in these situations? It’s hardly erotic is it.

Are men that easily aroused!

Could you not use that word please.

Depending on age...yes we are! 😂Ask any teenage boy and if he is honest, just a glimpse of a bra strap can set us off. 😆

I think there's a certain amount of 'limbering up'

Also the most degenerate ( and they are all degenerate) probably get off on the whole seediness aspect

Oh you’re male. That explains your posts.

I see it works out at 40 seconds per male 🤷‍♀️