Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

We need to throw out this concept of "consent".

It keeps to focus on the wrong place.

All those men lining up to (ab) use those women.

If they truly believe in consent makes it ok, why did they all hide their faces?

Oh they just don't want to be seen doing it, they know it's seedy.

But it is consensual. No one is holding a gun to BBs head. Can we stop with the 'if money's involved it's not consensual' thing. BB is consenting to all of this let's not pretend she isn't.

Anonymity does bring a certain level of freedom to behave in ways that would cause censure in everyday life. I voice opinions on here regularly that my line manager might take issue with.

I do wonder if it’s part of the appeal for fans though. A woman giving herself over to a faceless mob. They could be anyone, it could be you. Anonymous and free from consequence what would you do to her type fantasies.

Obviously NAMALT but I think that a lot of men like to hurt and abuse women and get off on watching it. Which explains a lot of the porn industry.

I find this statement from her recent interview interesting.

'You can sit there watching this thinking "Oh my God, you're disgusting", but I'm not asking you to do it nor are you hot enough to do it. So, you stay at home looking the way you do,' she insisted'.

Does she really think men are doing this because she's attractive? Most of those lining up wouldn't give a shit if she had a bin bag on her head. Horrendous to say, but to them she's a hole. A kink. It's nothing to do with attractiveness. The men lining up would fuck anything.

Yes I noticed that. What an odd statement - " hot enough" 🙄

Meanwhile in Turkey ...

tribune.com.pk/story/2523096/turkish-onlyfans-creator-azra-ay-vandan-arrested-for-attempting-to-sleep-with-100-men-in-24-hours?amp=1

She’s certainly no beauty queen but that’s besides the point. She should call herself The Hole and Lily The Hole 2. It’s ALL about money and fame.

She's done several interviews where she's basically said she's hotter than the average woman and she can snare any woman's husband. She seems to think because a few married men are happy to shag her, they all are. Can't decide who she's trying to convince more, the viewers or herself.

Shes an arrogant dog with a very short shelf life.

I couldn't figure out if she is rage baiting or genuinely think this? She doesn't seem stupid, so I'd be surprised if she genuinely thinks the men lining up for these stunts do it because she's "hot". Maybe is delusion, maybe it's a way of convincing herself that doing that is empowering? I certainly don't think she's ugly, but there are plenty of women who are as or more attractive who think what she is doing is morally wrong or disgusting. She seems to really think it's jealousy, which I suppose again is delusional or justification. Looking at the footage taken of her line up of men waiting for their go, she's attracted the kind of men who haven't got any options, not a stream of happy husbands she's "stolen". You couldn't give most of those away.

So it seems validation is her motivation then? To feel desired. Maybe at some point in her life she was called otherwise or felt otherwise or both. Trying to rip others down under the disguise of defending yourself is a tactic used by those who are very insecure

Looking at the footage taken of her line up of men waiting for their go, she's attracted the kind of men who haven't got any options, not a stream of happy husbands she's "stolen". You couldn't give most of those away.

Yes exactly. There's a certain demographic she attracts, and it's not the demographic most of us would want in all honesty.

Yes precisely. They mostly looked like they were just having a day off their fleshlights tbh

It never fails to amaze me that some women think any attention from men even the lowest common denominator sleaze bag most women wouldn't touch with a bargepole = good.
Usually it's very young women who don't get this, I see the girls from the local comp walking to school in the mornings with their skirts right up to their bum cheeks for 'male attention' I presume, not realising until older (if at all) that it's not a good thing. Same thing as some women think being cat called is a positive.

BB did worry me though describing one of her 'gang bangs' where she had 3 men and thought they were cool, so let her security leave, they then had rough sex with her in a way she didn't describe in positive terms... I don't know if you could call it rape as such.. but I bet if she'd wanted them to stop they wouldn't have. One thing to invite any old rando to have sex, quite another to assume they are all decent and send her security home. Mind boggling.

Does this look like an enjoyable experience? Does it look empowering ? The stuff of vile nightmares if you ask me .

As for the description-
"Bonnie revealed that for the first three or four hours she was just having group sex with between 15 to 20 men at a time.
She admitted: 'I was like on my back, all positions, everyone was just on me all the time which I absolutely loved, but after about four hours of not seeing any light because everyone was on top of me I said I need it to like stagger out.'
She says that she then had sex with groups of five, and then 'one on ones'."

The whole thing just looks horrible and awful. Can’t see how it would be much fun for anyone involved really.

The mystery is why we are all getting to hear about it. I look at reels mostly exercise ones and funny comedians but keep seeing this odd girl and her depressing gang bangs. I have no wish to be informed of the habits of these unsavoury types why is this leaking into the mainstream? Would be interested to know.

The men look like very thick down and out types or educationally challenged teens.

Honestly I think the government needs to crackdown on Onlyfans. Selling mucky pictures is one thing but prostitution is another thing.

Yes this pushing of hard core porn into the mainstream is not appropriate or healthy . Those who are that way inclined and over age can seek it out it if they wish it should not be shoved in the faces of normal people and even worse kids.

but then thats the main stream media, that did that otherwise no one would have heard of bonnie unless you use only fans

She even said the first man of the 1057 went in "raw" 🤮. So basically some absolute stranger who could have who knows what has removed his condom. She is covered in bruises and has a bite mark on her thigh. How is that empowering? That's not men fancying her good looks, that's a load of degenerates sticking their dicks in an available hole. She's kidding herself if she thinks there wouldn't be an equally long line for ANY women willing to degrade herself to that level, whatever their age, looks or body type.

Just read that these two girls are vying with each other now and Lily is now going to be doing a " back door challenge" with " as many guys as possible". Yes this is splashed all over SM.

i think it’s perfectly possible, and like a grim production line! Besides, it’s all apparently streamed on her OF, so I’m sure plenty of people would have screamed fraud!

12 hours = 720 minutes = 43,200 seconds.

She apparently had sex 1,057 people so that’s one every 41 seconds.

So long as each guy was restricted to 30 seconds each - presumably most didn’t finish - and there was a 5 second for the change between them, with the other 6 seconds combining to add up to a short break every hour.

I can’t see how this conveyor belt could
be enjoyable for anyone!

Definitely possible as having watched one her interviews, it was a gang bang set up so she wasn't just having conventional sex but as he put it "busy with her mouth and hands". I think it was groups of 20 to start with. Horrendous.