Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

In a world where drug dealers and arms traders exist it’s odd to me that this way of making money is where people draw the line and question the mentality and morality of the individual! 😄

Do you not think to get intimate with someone who you completely do not like at all is tough psychologically?

Depends on the person, couple of fiends i know are quite horny and just want a jump so to speak, without any strings with randoms they meet in clubs etc

very true words, and or how some people think that all people would choose working 10hr a day shifts in eg amazon warehouse vs getting rich via doing the business etc

Your last paragraph is so true. I think people massively underestimate what men will overlook if they have a chance to have a pretty young woman on their arm.

Yea a lot of men would be put off but two conventionally attractive young thin blonde women are not going to struggle to find male partnership.

@JHound lots of good points made.

I suppose thinking to people I knew personally that were 'sleeping around' there was generally drugs or alcohol involved. Or they'd been abused or mistreated in some way. Or they were putting themselves into risky situations. Or they were pick me girls who believed a man was the ultimate prize and would do anything to please a man.

I can believe that some people are just horny too. I mean there are couples who are swingers aren't there.

That's the side of it that makes me think she's just really smart. She can stand doing it and maybe even enjoys it and it making money most could only dream of.

'Now they're so supportive, it's changed their life completely for the better. They go on lovely holidays. They have no money problems.
'They don't work and they don't have a mortgage. My mum works for me. My mum makes signs for me to hold on camera and books my appointments. She was even handing out condoms to students for marketing.'

From that article pp just mentioned.
No wonder her parents are so supportive 🙄
Also anyone read it and thought the guy was extremely naive to turn up to an event where he knew there would be 1000 men lining up and he was somehow under the impression he'd be getting quality one on one time with her?!

Just because there is drugs and alcohol involved doesn’t make somebody damaged though? You can do drugs and alcohol and enthusiastically consent to casual sex.

How many primiscuous people do you personally know that regaled you about their history of abuse?

(I hear you about risky situations but they probably did not see them that way particular because they have not been raised to particularly fear the opposite sex.)

to be honest and if the people could pick the clients and if society was not as judgemental as it is, i wonder what percentage of people would rather get paid for the business so to speak

That's assuming that that woman was a prostitute....which is a pretty weird assumption.

Unfortunately, we live in a country where 1 in 4 women will be sexually assaulted/raped by men in their lifetime. Men assault and rape to have control over women and objectify women.

We got rid of page three because we know that objectification of women in print rolls into attitudes towards women in real life. And here we are!

I do not support their choices when they have a detrimental effect on my sex class.

We have an example of a woman who's done this before - Annabelle Chong - and she's still alive and kicking, I believe.

No one can have sex 1000 times with one man in 12 hours. So you’re not comparing like for like. It’s the extreme act in constantly having sex for so long to beat a record. It’s not about how many men a woman has slept with overall. And where do they go from here? It’s just more extreme sex acts which if it hasn’t could cause damage. Even in the documentary Lily says it will be painful.

Yeah, you could have 1000 instances of penetrative sex with a man (or men) but you wouldn't be doing it back to back, continuously for however long.

The previous sex worker who did this - Annabelle Chong - was in horrendous pain by the end of her record.

People seem to have forgotten about her. Or the younger generation don't know anything about it. It's almost funny how the internet is chock full of talk and videos about this ...as if it's new; it's been done before (though not a claim of 1000).

I think it's terribly sad for both of them and yes I know it was by choice but what a choice to make,it's not normal and there will be a reason/reasons behind what they've done and it will be about a lot more than just money.

As for the men that went along with it,sadly lots of them will no doubt be fans of the misogynistic twat that's been mentioned on here a lot and the rest will have their own issues their dealing with.

If "Lily" truly is going to attempt a record for anal sex; then she is definitely risking injury/harm.

At least the vagina is evolved for sex. Gynaecologists etc have been warning about the physical risks of anal sex for women; who are apparently more prone to injury/damage etc. than men.

In this world you do not get to dictate who has consensual sex with who and how many.

I agree wholeheartedly. I hope she reconsiders this. I suspect it is more of a marketing ploy though, and unlikely to happen.

I would be so ashamed if a son of mine took part

It massively reduces your dating pool though.

Many men wouldn't bring a Bonnie Blue home to meet their parents.

Most parents would be at best surprised and many shocked if they knew exactly what their offspring got up to. 😂

thats also true, the amout of uni stories etc omg

Why? i presume most parents were also young once or have they forgotten?

The former porn actress i knew wasn't damaged in anyway, she said "i was screwing around most weekends and holidays, so i thought i may as well get paid for it"

I think you would be surprised at how many young men would. Especially now that attitudes towards young women having sex are changing.

Look at Julio Iglesias who was considered a catch among ladies of a certain age worldwide despite having the reputation of having slept with thousands of women.

because most parents presume mostly there offspring are angels or x would not behave like that etc

It was a reply to the post about a mothers disgust if her son had took part. But yes, I do think there are some parents who were either saintly as youngsters, or conveniently forget their own misdemeanours.