Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

I have seen a few women (famous-ish, like reality tv/love island 'stars') who are 20 to 25, and they have their face stuffed with botox and fillers (and have been doing this for some 5-7 years at times,) and they look a clear decade older. So this woman could be 25. It just seems unbelievable because she looks nearly 40.

Ironic isn't it, how these women have fillers and botox to try and defy ageing/to look younger, and it does the opposite. It makes them look much older!

It’s possibly harsh but lots of sex workers end up committing suicide either quickly or slowly with expensive drug habits.

Whether that's true or not, predicting that someone will commit suicide based on absolutely no facts at all is extremely distasteful.

this is what some people seem to dismis, bills dont pay themselves, and for the amout various companies pay vs your hours and efforts etc that you have to put in, to some it makes certain other prospects more appealing, (rightly or wrongly or morally etc, but for some a few hours and $$$ or hours and hours for $

She's 100% the age she say she is, I know someone whose child was in the same year as her at school

She does look older but shes not lying about her age

She looks older because she pumps her face full of Botox and fillers at such a young age.

The youngsters start far too early and are afraid of a single crease plus want to distort their faces how they wish (more chizzled jaw, defined chin, bigger lips, more volume on cheekbones/under eyes). At 25 she really doesn't need a frozen face like that. Completely ages her, as does the bleached hair.

Botox is best when done subtly, all of these frozen faces which are also shiny like hers make them look so much older.

@NameChangedForThis1985 you raise an interesting angle there. Times have changed. Is OF the new glamour model. Is Bonnie Blue the modern day 'Jordan' and will she reinvent herself as squeaky clean in a few years a la Katie Price. Mind you, look how KP has ended up!

She is neither a genius nor damaged. She is just promiscuous. And has found a way to monetise that.

It’s not for me but shrugs.

Why do people assume every promiscuous woman is damaged?

Why would her “fanny be destroyed”? Why would brief sex with 1000 men once, destroy a fanny but not sex 1000 times with one man?

100% not in her 20s. I was shocked when I heard she was claiming that!

What % of sex workers do that?

She is.

Yes I have seen orher comments. Jees Louise she is ageing like milk.

It's just one of those made up 'facts' that seem to perpetuate in certain corners of the internet. Girls working on the street, yes I'm confident drugs will take their lives early sadly. Escorts working off websites or agencies, No credence is ever given that they have likely made an educated decision that escort work is vastly better paid than many other jobs they could have.

As far as these two women are concerned, I think they are extremely savy in marketing themselves. Even the post event video showing one of them upset, I suspect was calculated to gain sympathy. The 'competition' between them is likely being orchestrated by themselves, as they know their shelf life is relatively short. Make a ton of money over a couple of years, invest sensibly and they are set for life.

Will future partners look down on what they have done? I think most attractive women like them will have no problems in that department.

It's easy enough to find evidence online that she's the age she says. The text is small on this article but she was clearly a child in 2011.

Given it's where babies come out of and the fact women recover from that, make that a nonsense statement.

I agree.
There doesn't have to be anything behind her behaviour. She's likes money and sex.

@ARealitycheck that's what I'm beginning to think.

Certainly not saying it's a good idea or that it's right. You've got to be a certain type of person to be able to even have the stomach for it.

But thinking back to being young. There were plenty of young women sleeping around and shagging all kinds of gross men for free.

It's quite extreme though isn't it?

Thinking of the extremely promiscuous women I've known (and the men). Most were troubled.

Even though on the outside they came across as confident.

Do you not think to get intimate with someone who you completely do not like at all is tough psychologically?

It's the way her mum and stepdad are all over it too.

Could anyone here imagine supporting their daughter in son and even making signs and handing out condoms?

There’s an article in the DM from one of the men who queued up for his 45 seconds with her and it makes pretty grim reading.

I think a lot of people get confused because of average differences bwtween the sexes.

They insist Blue and Philips MUST be be damaged because they cannot fathom a woman choosing to act this way. Because many / most of us wouldn’t.

Do I want to read it….oooh goodness let me check it out. Blue or Phillips?

I was an EXCEPTIONALLY promiscuous women when younger and am not troubled in the slightest. I just liked sex and variety in my male partners (I liked committed partnerships too) . Then one day it held no interest for me so I stopped.

Why do you think most of the promiscuous men and women you knew were troubled? Did they tell you that?

With 8bn on the planet why is variety in human behaviour something you find hard to accept?

She maybe troubled, or she may just be very different to you (or me).

I know so many women who spent years shagging fairly gross men, some they barely liked, some whose names they barely knew and other women that would baulk at even so much as sex outside of marriage.

Nothing surprises me anymore.

that i am puzzled with, there is bound to be some people that want to be rich and use any means to achieve it (yes morally its not great but its a way to make $$$)

@Emilyisherenow

Could anyone here imagine supporting their daughter in son and even making signs and handing out condoms?

I would not but then if I was a sex worker I could never tell my parents whereas I have sex worker friends one of whom is very open with her parents about what they do.

There is a vast degree of variety in humanity. My parents would not even let me swear or smoke a cigarette in front of them whereas other friends have otherwise solid parents who they experimented either drugs and let their boyfriend/sleep over in their room as teens.

Just because it’s not what you would do - does not make the person especially damaged.