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Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

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Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 15:54

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

OP posts:
SwerveCity · 15/01/2025 22:58

There’s no way Bonnie is in her early 20’s. She looks late 30’s at least, but with work done.

Pussycat22 · 15/01/2025 23:29

Sampler · 15/01/2025 15:57

I don’t think it really matters, money is her god and her fanny must be destroyed by now. Her choice and a sad reflection of society, but someone always does it and uses whatever they have to make a few bucks.

Still the oldest profession in the world!!!

Thelnebriati · 15/01/2025 23:32

Midwifery is the worlds oldest profession.

Pussycat22 · 15/01/2025 23:58

Thelnebriati · 15/01/2025 23:32

Midwifery is the worlds oldest profession.

Someone had to get pregnant first by the oldest profession in the world !!!😂😂😂

RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 23:59

Pussycat22 · 15/01/2025 23:58

Someone had to get pregnant first by the oldest profession in the world !!!😂😂😂

Flintstone style

Coolasfeck · 16/01/2025 00:38

It’s late stage capitalism in full effect. At one end we have Musk peddling online loser gladiator fights through disinformation and at the other end you have sad women who sell themselves online and ruin any chance of a healthy future for a couple million which we know won’t last them.

Even if they quit this life today they’ll be doxed, there’s no escape. They’ll end up slinging puss for smack to cope. No matter how much they try to sell this as a lifestyle, no young women will aspire to this kind of life.

So back to your question OP, no she’s not a genius.

Lavenderandbrown · 16/01/2025 00:41

I believe both Lilly and Bonnie will die by suicide.

RobinMcfly · 16/01/2025 00:55

Coolasfeck · 16/01/2025 00:38

It’s late stage capitalism in full effect. At one end we have Musk peddling online loser gladiator fights through disinformation and at the other end you have sad women who sell themselves online and ruin any chance of a healthy future for a couple million which we know won’t last them.

Even if they quit this life today they’ll be doxed, there’s no escape. They’ll end up slinging puss for smack to cope. No matter how much they try to sell this as a lifestyle, no young women will aspire to this kind of life.

So back to your question OP, no she’s not a genius.

to be fair, and not justifing what they do, but people can be respectable and still get stuck with an asshole for a relationship, so some would argue its better to be rich even if infamous, rather than be respectable

ThejoyofNC · 16/01/2025 06:23

Lavenderandbrown · 16/01/2025 00:41

I believe both Lilly and Bonnie will die by suicide.

What a disgraceful thing to say.

louddumpernoise · 16/01/2025 06:50

StrawberryDream24 · 15/01/2025 18:58

You're helping people.

You can have pride in your work

You can be honest about your work.

Your work, when people know about it, doesn't mean they will be shocked/uncomfortable/think it reflects your morality, self esteem, attitude to human relationships etc.

How do you think either woman will be treated at the school gates if they have kids?

What do you think people's attitudes will be to them and unfortunately, by default, their children)?

You don't have to worry about your kids or other relatives finding out what you've done. You don't have to worry about your kids finding or being sent videos of what you've done, beng bullied and wound up your "work" for years.

Edited

Yes perhaps but none of that pays the rent, food, energy or provides a pension, it will also lead to physical harm such as back injury and any compensation will be a months wages or nothing at all.

People also look down on carers, no matter what they say otherwise, its not a job you want for your kids is it? if it were, society would be willing to pay more to carers but we are not, raise taxes like Labour have done to pay for better public services and we all scream Labour have ruined the economy.

After 10 or 15 years, a name change. new back story and a move away from her home town, no one would have a clue what she used to do.

Season0fthesticks · 16/01/2025 07:14

Canyoudigityesyoucan · 15/01/2025 20:00

Lily Phillips is worse than Bonnie.

Bonnie seems like she has her head screwed on to a degree and more sensible. Her porn is very “lightweight” (for want of a better word) and I’m actually not sure she’s actually DOING what she says she is…. It all seems clever marketing and media.

Lily seems younger, more naive, more desperate for money and fame. She’s trying to constantly one-up Bonnie and now she’s just announced a meet up next week for unlimited men to have anal sex. This is mind blowing to me- dangerous beyond belief. Genuinely concerned for her physical wellbeing, simply cannot be healthy.

I just read that Lily Philips next challenge is to sleep with the whole British military 🤨

wriggleigglepiggle · 16/01/2025 08:08

Bonnie's real name is Tia Billinger, she didn't used to be a man ffs

No33 · 16/01/2025 08:11

Season0fthesticks · 16/01/2025 07:14

I just read that Lily Philips next challenge is to sleep with the whole British military 🤨

Do they get to consent to this?

I very much doubt respectable military men would go there.

theworriermum · 16/01/2025 09:07

NRFT so not sure if this has been asked but when she said she started with 'gangbangs' what does that mean exactly? How is that different to a conveyor belt of men queuing up and going one after another?

MeltingSky · 16/01/2025 09:08

Season0fthesticks · 16/01/2025 07:14

I just read that Lily Philips next challenge is to sleep with the whole British military 🤨

Even the females?

louddumpernoise · 16/01/2025 09:09

Season0fthesticks · 16/01/2025 07:14

I just read that Lily Philips next challenge is to sleep with the whole British military 🤨

Really? all TEN of them?

theworriermum · 16/01/2025 09:28

NameChangedForThis1985 · 15/01/2025 20:09

I have had a very very promiscuous past. A combination of childhood trauma, undiagnosed autism, and a response to coming out of a controlling relationship where I was controlled and abused for years, including sexually.

I'm older than these girls (39) and of course prostitution existed, however, given my time again yes I would probably be at least on OFs. I'm not sure if I'd go as far as these girls, although the financial security would be tempting given that a huge lifetime fear of mine is not having enough money to live how I like to...

I've slept with many people that I didn't like or even in some cases find attractive, so being paid for it might have been a small bonus.

(Oh and I'm actually celibate now so not sure there's much in the market for that!)

So at 39 do you regret any of it? What if you were in a different generation..... would you regret the OF content you may have put out there?

MermaidEyes · 16/01/2025 09:36

What a disgraceful thing to say.

Unfortunately that poster has a point, seeing as huge numbers of porn actresses have died by suicide or drugs overdoses in the last 40 odd years.

SabreIsMyFave · 16/01/2025 09:41

Season0fthesticks · 16/01/2025 07:14

I just read that Lily Philips next challenge is to sleep with the whole British military 🤨

And what makes her think that 'the whole British Military' will want to sleep with her? 🤢 The woman is utterly deranged, and delusional.

SabreIsMyFave · 16/01/2025 09:43

SwerveCity · 15/01/2025 22:58

There’s no way Bonnie is in her early 20’s. She looks late 30’s at least, but with work done.

Edited

Yeah I thought that. She looks like she's knocking on the door of 40. Like hell is she 4-5 years out of her teens.

Moonshinebaby · 16/01/2025 10:17

SabreIsMyFave · 16/01/2025 09:43

Yeah I thought that. She looks like she's knocking on the door of 40. Like hell is she 4-5 years out of her teens.

I wonder about this, too

I will be 38 iN February, with 3 small kids, sleep deprived. I still look younger than her.

Her skin looks old for a woman in her 20s.

But if she isn't in her 20s, wouldn't she have been outed by now?

Cattery · 16/01/2025 10:22

Beetlebumz · 15/01/2025 21:47

Money is the new god. People seem to think anything, no matter how disgusting, is ok as long as you’re making lots of money. Take this thread asking if she’s a genius?! Wtf!!!

I know!! It’s actually unbelievable. Ok there have always been women who sell their bodies for money but to plaster this all over the internet is a whole new low

Emilyisherenow · 16/01/2025 10:24

I thought she might be lying about her age and who her mum is but she has a Facebook page from when she was a teenager and it all looks to be true.

There are videos on tik tok and X of the men queuing and it looks so seedy. They are all standing in their boxers and socks. They're literally randoms.

She has some very warped views of relationships. Lots of talking about middle aged women moaning and expecting the house to be clean and the bills to be paid but they're not 'servicing' their men.

But one it all just for attention. She's got to be extreme because the industry is saturated.

OP posts:
Cattery · 16/01/2025 10:25

She’s got life all wrong

NameChangedForThis1985 · 16/01/2025 10:54

theworriermum · 16/01/2025 09:28

So at 39 do you regret any of it? What if you were in a different generation..... would you regret the OF content you may have put out there?

Yes I absolutely regret it but there's no way of taking it back. If it was the 'classic' OF stuff then no I probably wouldn't - I was a glamour model too many years ago so there are photos of me out there already (just underwear/bikini though)