Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

522 replies

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 15:54

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

OP posts:
tolerable · 15/01/2025 20:45

GooseMoose2 · 15/01/2025 20:27

It’s a thing

a popular thing...

DreamW3aver · 15/01/2025 20:45

butterpuffed · 15/01/2025 18:34

It's going to come back to bite her if she ever wants a normal partner/children.

I doubt she'll find one and even if she does , they would soon leave when they discover her history , which they're bound to .
.

She's already married although I don't know if she and her husband are still together

PigInAHouse · 15/01/2025 20:49

DreamW3aver · 15/01/2025 20:45

She's already married although I don't know if she and her husband are still together

As far as I know (I mentioned above that I vaguely know the family), they are still together.

tolerable · 15/01/2025 20:52

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

DreamW3aver · 15/01/2025 20:52

username299 · 15/01/2025 18:23

That's silly of me. I thought other people could read threads as it's a public forum. National newspapers create content from threads. I doubt the forum has ever been used to promote anything before. You're quite right.

You misunderstand, my point is that the area of overlap on a venn diagram of people who haven't already heard of BB and would want to sign up to her only fans and Mumsnet users is going to be so small as to be in invisible to the naked eye

She's not getting extra revenue from anyone reading this thread imo

MeltingSky · 15/01/2025 20:57

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Say what?

Cattery · 15/01/2025 21:07

Who used to be a man?

username299 · 15/01/2025 21:08

DreamW3aver · 15/01/2025 20:52

You misunderstand, my point is that the area of overlap on a venn diagram of people who haven't already heard of BB and would want to sign up to her only fans and Mumsnet users is going to be so small as to be in invisible to the naked eye

She's not getting extra revenue from anyone reading this thread imo

I agreed with you.

tolerable · 15/01/2025 21:10

Cattery · 15/01/2025 21:07

Who used to be a man?

bonnie

PigInAHouse · 15/01/2025 21:12

tolerable · 15/01/2025 21:10

bonnie

No she didn’t.

PigInAHouse · 15/01/2025 21:13

tolerable · 15/01/2025 21:10

bonnie

Are you mistaking her for this person?

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14114215/amp/onlyfans-star-transgender-high-school-leavers-sex.html

Cattery · 15/01/2025 21:17

tolerable · 15/01/2025 21:10

bonnie

I said she looked masculine n an earlier post. That sheds new light really. Deff got something to prove imo

tolerable · 15/01/2025 21:18

no.i lied..i think.... it struck me as vaguely amusing THAT would show em all....thing is -no it probbly wuldnt -as i said.do you think you could find 1000 women who would quein circles for turn about at one man..? im guess she erns her only fnd £s.... everyone slag her and her faannee off...1000 men.one aafter other.nameless/shameless.very charitable of them.
its annoying me because i m thinking things like that...at all.i dont even think i want to understand

Beetlebumz · 15/01/2025 21:29

Genius? Nope. sad little girl who disgusts me frankly. I wouldn’t live her life for all the money in the world.

tolerable · 15/01/2025 21:32

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Beetlebumz · 15/01/2025 21:36

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Beetlebumz · 15/01/2025 21:37

I also heard she used to be a man..

GiraffesAtThePark · 15/01/2025 21:41

valentinka31 · 15/01/2025 18:57

I remember an interview with Lily where she said 'what people are forgetting here is that this is also my fantasy'. She does love the guys lining up desperate to f... her.

I don't think they are particularly damaged. I think they are just hyped up on fame, attention and the money. It's just another version of a viral hook. It's short-sighted short-lived notoriety, but yes it's making them very rich.

Even though I've been defrauded out of the best part of a million pounds myself, I still wouldn't earn it back like this. I'd find another way. I feel my body, and my sexual energy, are kind of precious and not for general consumption.

What she says doesn’t necessarily line up with her actions. On the documentary she talks about dissociating and seems like she’s about to cry after doing the 100 men. That’s not generally how people act after living a fantasy.

Willyoujustbequiet · 15/01/2025 21:44

She's clearly got mental health issues. Perhaps she was abused.

Beetlebumz · 15/01/2025 21:47

Money is the new god. People seem to think anything, no matter how disgusting, is ok as long as you’re making lots of money. Take this thread asking if she’s a genius?! Wtf!!!

MermaidEyes · 15/01/2025 21:49

As far as I know (I mentioned above that I vaguely know the family), they are still together.

I read a news article on her that they moved to Australia, she started camming and they split up. Could be false though.

DerekFaker · 15/01/2025 22:03

Dominoeffecter · 15/01/2025 19:21

Any ‘thing’ 😱

Cars, trees, holes in the ground...you name it...

Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 22:23

Beetlebumz · 15/01/2025 21:47

Money is the new god. People seem to think anything, no matter how disgusting, is ok as long as you’re making lots of money. Take this thread asking if she’s a genius?! Wtf!!!

It's not ok. But people make money in all sorts of moral and corrupt ways. If you look at how a lot of people made their millions they've probably harmed a lot of people along the way.

When I say genius. What I mean is if she's made a lot of money very quickly and is able to detach from the seediness of it all then it might have been worth it for her.

OP posts:
tolerable · 15/01/2025 22:26

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

tolerable · 15/01/2025 22:29

wnder if/hw mny she would ever recognise again?are they all called jim?do i care