Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

[Emilyisherenow]

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

"Being an angel and someone still finding fault " are not in the same universe as being a notorious online sex worker and porn actress who competes in records to be fucked by the most men standing in a line (of hundreds of thousands).

fair point,

I think to me the most abnormal thing is that their mothers support them and play instrumental parts in the operation.

I think Lilly Phillips mother is her accountant.

What kind of parent would participate in whoring their child out? Put their children at risk of STDs and severe emotional damage,

Despite my views on this, I also see this point of view. If I was young and hot enough and if I could somehow remain unidentifiable, I would definitely be thinking about pictures/ underwear images on an OF account.

And I know that's in complete contradiction to my view in some ways.

There was no security and no vetting of the men at all. Nobody seems to be looking out for her welfare.

Its bad enough without making things up.
From the other threads on this there was security and those that were not vetted, were not vetted because they had to be found at the last minute due to not enough men wanting to take part.

Someone made a really good point about OMG men, eg absolute arseholes. Looking at all the examples on here where so many are stuck with one.

Well it’s her body I guess she can do what she likes with it. However surely sleeping with 1000 men in 12 hours is impossible. Some men get there quicker than others. They’d have to literally cum straight away and even then 1000 in 12 hours is very very far fetched. Also what about the clean up time I assume she’s cleaning herself up between each one. Not only that but I also assume and hope she’s getting them to use protection and with 1000 men how long does that take.
I believe she may have slept with 1000 men but not within 12 hours.

Any ‘thing’ 😱

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

I guess it could be both. Personally, I’d rather be skint, retain my self-respect and not feel responsible for encouraging men to see women as sex objects.

But to each their own. Being rich means so much to some people, they’ll put themselves through all sorts for it. Whether wealth (and infamy) makes them happy is a matter of debate.

I guess the same debate could be had about all women in the porn industry and indeed all sex workers. Are they savvy businesswomen, getting rich by commodifying sex. Or are they being exploited, abused and degraded by men?

I haven't followed BB quite as much but I did watch an episode on YouTube filmed by a blogger who met Lily just before she had sex with 100 men (or however many!) and immediately after.

It was painful to see how emotional fraught she was immediately after, clear that she hadn't been able to detach from the physical act (understandably) and she seemed really vulnerable and sad.

Then the next day or so she announced she was going to do it again but this time with more men... it's totally bizarre and concerning that someone so young would want to put herself through this.

What’s the point in not reading my comment at all and then quoting it? 🧐

Money has always made the world go round but greed nowadays is off the scale if things like this are going on and wallies are paying to make vain idiots rich. It actually beggars belief. The internet can be an invaluable tool but my God it’s also an open sewer

Well apparently she was married to a privately educated lad from a well off family 🤷🏻‍♀️

Lily Phillips is worse than Bonnie.

Bonnie seems like she has her head screwed on to a degree and more sensible. Her porn is very “lightweight” (for want of a better word) and I’m actually not sure she’s actually DOING what she says she is…. It all seems clever marketing and media.

Lily seems younger, more naive, more desperate for money and fame. She’s trying to constantly one-up Bonnie and now she’s just announced a meet up next week for unlimited men to have anal sex. This is mind blowing to me- dangerous beyond belief. Genuinely concerned for her physical wellbeing, simply cannot be healthy.

The blokes must’ve been stood in a big long line all wanking to get hard for their few seconds of penetration. Wonder if they thought it was worth it.

In asking this question you assume that men and women are equal in how they react to promiscuity. They are really not. Evolution has ensured that, and no amount of wanting the sexes to be equal will make it so.

Christ almighty, that’s a fast track to a colostomy bag if ever I heard one.

False teachers. The Bible warns of them.

I have had a very very promiscuous past. A combination of childhood trauma, undiagnosed autism, and a response to coming out of a controlling relationship where I was controlled and abused for years, including sexually.

I'm older than these girls (39) and of course prostitution existed, however, given my time again yes I would probably be at least on OFs. I'm not sure if I'd go as far as these girls, although the financial security would be tempting given that a huge lifetime fear of mine is not having enough money to live how I like to...

I've slept with many people that I didn't like or even in some cases find attractive, so being paid for it might have been a small bonus.

(Oh and I'm actually celibate now so not sure there's much in the market for that!)

It’s a thing

With Lily she had fluffers

I don’t know if BB had the same

fluffers ??

fluffers = women who get the men 'nearly there' while they're waiting

Curious if they got paid too or did it for the love of it

There's definitely some kind of competition / one up manship between the two women. By the end of the year they'll both be walking like John Wayne. It won't end well and I fear Lily will come off worse.

Im not sure you can compare regretting working in tesco until you retire to prostituting yourself on the internet for the whole world to see, and the evidence will be around forever.