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Think ive upset my neighbour

186 replies

KazMeddy · 05/01/2025 20:38

Sorry name changed as I’m mortified.

I was having a clear out for the new year and gathered four bags of clothes and toys etc for charity shop.

Last night I started taking the bags to the shed and heard noise coming from next doors garden and I was worried that someone was in there that shouldn’t be so I stood on a patio chair to look over the fence. Neighbour was in the hot tub with a man I didn’t recognise (I thought she was single!). The bloke looked up and saw me and I didn’t know what to say so when neighbour looked up I asked her if she would take the bags to charity shop for me. I have no idea why I said that, even as the words were coming out I was mortified at what I was saying. She looked a bit confused but said she’d do it so I asked her if I should bring them around and she said “well, not now” and gestured towards the man. He started laughing and she then said “just leave them in your shed for now?”

im beyond embarrassed, I just can’t believe I said that to her not to mention the embarrassment of being seen peering over the bloody fence.

please tell me I’m over thinking it. I’ve felt sick all day just thinking about it.

OP posts:
SleeplikeababyTonight · 11/01/2025 12:04

BettyBardMacDonald · 10/01/2025 21:36

Yes, we need an update, please!

Op did give an update a little while ago. Click on her name to see all of her posts together.

BettyBardMacDonald · 11/01/2025 12:07

@SleeplikeababyTonight

Can you quote it, please? Because i only see two posts by OP, no updates. Thank you.

SleeplikeababyTonight · 11/01/2025 12:16

@BettyBardMacDonald ahh sorry, I got this one mixed up with the neighbour Christmas card poster thread. A lot of disgruntled neighbours atm 😂

So yes, update please!!

CrayonCritic5 · 11/01/2025 16:03

SleeplikeababyTonight · 11/01/2025 12:04

Op did give an update a little while ago. Click on her name to see all of her posts together.

Hmm i’m confused. I can’t see an update of any significance and you can’t click on a name unless I’m missing something.

CrayonCritic5 · 11/01/2025 16:04

SleeplikeababyTonight · 11/01/2025 12:16

@BettyBardMacDonald ahh sorry, I got this one mixed up with the neighbour Christmas card poster thread. A lot of disgruntled neighbours atm 😂

So yes, update please!!

Oh ok 😆

GillianCarole · 12/01/2025 09:00

All the more reason to go round - I'm sure you'll feel much better. We've all done things where we wanted to disappear into a hole!

Darkstarrheart · 12/01/2025 14:56

Funniest thing I've ever read on here! 🤣

ParsonBrown · 12/01/2025 15:26

This is hilarious 😂

Umidontknow · 13/10/2025 21:18

😆😆

Axolotyls · 20/10/2025 20:43

OP hope you’re still here! I’ve just found this thread and wondered if you ever spoke to said neighbour again 😂😂😂 also, was the neighbour post on this thread real? One of you come back, so funny 😂

dimension2025 · 22/10/2025 19:05

I know I wish for an update !

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