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Should she replace it? Part 3

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Langarg · 02/01/2025 19:09

I can’t believe we have a part 3 🤣 this has provided some lighthearted entertainment at a time where I’m feeling really let down by someone I considered a good friend. So thank you! I have posted an update on thread 2, will post it here also.

I have sent the following text message ‘Having reflected on what you have said, how the airwrap was lost/broken or otherwise is irrelevant. I considered asking you for pictures of the broken airwrap or asking to speak to your sister to ask her what happened but it will get us nowhere. All that matters is I am down a Dyson airwrap and I want a new replacement. You’ll need to either transfer me the £399 tonight to pay for this or purchase it yourself from boots and send me the email receipt this evening. You can then sort out with your sister whether she is going to contribute to the cost of it. We can then put this behind us’

I have no interest in maintaining the friendship after this for obvious reasons. I am worried that she’s seen the thread (how can she not have 🤣) and knows this fine well so will have no intention of replacing it sadly.

I don’t think I’ll ever get the truth (was there even a wedding at this rate?! 🤣) all that matters to me now is getting a replacement airwrap!!!!

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Tricho · 02/01/2025 19:58

How bizarre that the radt of posters against the OP have all appeared at once!

Total co incidence I'm sure

So strange

mumda · 02/01/2025 19:59

@Langarg ignore the mad people who think you should put up with this nonsense.

Your former friend should be thoroughly ashamed of herself. Truth costs nothing even if the replacement does have a cost.

MJconfessions · 02/01/2025 19:59

Eldermillennial2024 · 02/01/2025 19:55

I somehow missed this first two threads but just read up (only OP posts). How annoying for OP. I can understand why you'd lend it to her for her wedding but in my experience even people who seem trustworthy can let you down. She was so wrong to lend it to her sister. I really hope you get the money for a new one.

Re the hotel when I read thread 1 I was going to say it is possible the hotel messed up as I left an iPhone charger at a hotel last month. I know it was in the room as I saw it plugged in before I left the to (but thought DH would bring it after he finished charging his phone) and they couldn't find it later that day or two weeks later. If staff are willing to steal a charger then they're willing to steal an air wrap!

Obviously that's not what's happened to you.

I doubt your charger got stolen, people leaving their chargers in hotel rooms must happen quite often for staff not to see it as remarkable or desirable. It’s probably been misplaced or binned.

CoverMySoul · 02/01/2025 19:59

Tricho · 02/01/2025 19:58

How bizarre that the radt of posters against the OP have all appeared at once!

Total co incidence I'm sure

So strange

Yep. After two full threads, a bus load all turn up at once. Funny that Grin

Lostworlds · 02/01/2025 20:00

Don’t understand the sudden hate, the friend should have been honest from the beginning but she messed op around. Op is entitled to feel hurt and annoyed about this.

surreygirl1987 · 02/01/2025 20:00

Great response. And actually the woman will get £60 of points on Advantage Card for buying it from Boots so ahe'll gey something back.

SassK · 02/01/2025 20:00

What would be the value of a second hand air wrap? I can't think it'd be of sufficient value for the small claims court (to be worthwhile). Your friend's lies are ridiculous, she should've just owned up. Ultimately though, if you lend something you're taking the risk of it being damaged/lost. I think you'll need to just chalk this one up to experience.

dapsnotplimsolls · 02/01/2025 20:00

CF friend has got all her rellies on the case!

mumda · 02/01/2025 20:00

MJconfessions · 02/01/2025 19:59

I doubt your charger got stolen, people leaving their chargers in hotel rooms must happen quite often for staff not to see it as remarkable or desirable. It’s probably been misplaced or binned.

I've left more chargers at hotels and air BnB than I probably should have done. I've got them all back.

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 02/01/2025 20:00

We're on the third thread, and I've just realised I don't actually know what an air wrap is! Is it like a fancy hair dryer?

Pickledpoppetpickle · 02/01/2025 20:02

Lostworlds · 02/01/2025 20:00

Don’t understand the sudden hate, the friend should have been honest from the beginning but she messed op around. Op is entitled to feel hurt and annoyed about this.

there's feeling hurt and annoyed and there's milking it to an incredibly high level.

Pinkrinse · 02/01/2025 20:02

Place marking! There’s not much excitement in my life at the memoent! 😂

AlexisP90 · 02/01/2025 20:02

I'm literally here again to see the OP get a new hair wrap

MJconfessions · 02/01/2025 20:02

mumda · 02/01/2025 20:00

I've left more chargers at hotels and air BnB than I probably should have done. I've got them all back.

Good for you. Doesn’t make chargers any more desirable to steal.

Ilovemyshed · 02/01/2025 20:02

kkloo · 02/01/2025 19:36

She was cheeky but I personally wouldn't throw away a friendship over this, or even I didn't want to be friends anymore I wouldn't make this all the worse by posting everything on MN, you're coming across as very childish and petty here all for the sake of getting a little dopamine boost from some randoms on MN that you don't even know.

Hi CF ex-friend, is that you ?! 👀👀

AlexisP90 · 02/01/2025 20:03

Tricho · 02/01/2025 19:58

How bizarre that the radt of posters against the OP have all appeared at once!

Total co incidence I'm sure

So strange

Someone went and got their army of alt email address cough sorry I mean friends

Londonismyjam · 02/01/2025 20:04

Pickledpoppetpickle · 02/01/2025 19:55

There is something really distasteful about some of your posts,OP. I mean in relation to your believing your friend will likely have seen all of this and your assumption is that she will now make the decision not to pay. You have listened to strangers, rather than trusting in your friendship, and have been happy to accuse her of every awful thing possible in relation to this airwrap.

She did a stupid thing - she knows that. Maybe she tried to 'get away with it' but I think we can all agree, she's had her compuance in abudance. You got confirmation of how right you are in the first thread. Now it feels like you're just bashing her because you can, safe in the knowledge that the internet backs you. It makes me itch and it's bullying.

I hope she refunds you the money and as much as you feel the need to step back from the relationship because what might have happened, if she has seen these threads, she would be equally right to step back from you, regardless of how in the wrong she might have been. This is mumsnet at it's worst, I think. The pile on is horrible and is happening all the more because posters believe the woman concerned can see this.

With friends like you, who needs enemies, eh?

And here’s the friend ….

Eldermillennial2024 · 02/01/2025 20:04

MJconfessions · 02/01/2025 19:59

I doubt your charger got stolen, people leaving their chargers in hotel rooms must happen quite often for staff not to see it as remarkable or desirable. It’s probably been misplaced or binned.

I think it's more likely someone would pocket a brand new iPhone charger than put it in the bin personally.

Foxylass · 02/01/2025 20:04

Well done Op for standing up for yourself. Your friend did not respect your property, is the basics of the thing, so she should replace it.
She tried hiding the truth from you, which was silly, she should have just been honest, and fast with it.

I hope you get a replacement (and not a 2nd hand older model).

Tortielady · 02/01/2025 20:04

Roysieboy · 02/01/2025 19:46

Btw in also looking at hir wraps, didnt know what one was before 😂

Nor did I. This saga has been quite the learning curve. Hairstyling systems don't interest me in themselves, but consumables do and I've got a MacBook Air, another desirable item people argue about. MacBooks and AirWraps compare quite well; both expensive of their kind, with many fervent advocates and detractors and they both have a cute capital letter mid-name 😁Not that I was planning to lend my lovely laptop out anyway, but having followed this epic tale of @Langarg and the AirWrap v CF I'm all the more decided that it will not leave my hands.

Incakewetrust · 02/01/2025 20:05

Hopefully this thread will see the return of the airwrap 🤞🤞🤞

Couldyounot · 02/01/2025 20:05

Ignore the "oooo your been mean" brigade, OP. You've handled this well. She's still spinning you a yarn though. My money is on "flogged it and pocketed the cash".

Bettyspants · 02/01/2025 20:06

kkloo · 02/01/2025 19:36

She was cheeky but I personally wouldn't throw away a friendship over this, or even I didn't want to be friends anymore I wouldn't make this all the worse by posting everything on MN, you're coming across as very childish and petty here all for the sake of getting a little dopamine boost from some randoms on MN that you don't even know.

’Friend ‘ has been awful but the glee in updating the hoards of us watching seems a little too dramatic. Initially I was horrified for OP but my sympathy has waned !

SassK · 02/01/2025 20:07

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 02/01/2025 20:00

We're on the third thread, and I've just realised I don't actually know what an air wrap is! Is it like a fancy hair dryer?

It's a fiddly, fussy, over complicated and over priced (because it has Dyson stamped on it) way of drying and/or curling your hair.

StrikeForever · 02/01/2025 20:07

Langarg · 02/01/2025 19:55

It seem a few people think I’m being petty, childlike and ‘piling on’ my friend. Of course you’re entitled to your opinion. You’ve only seen a snippet of the interactions but ultimately my friend massively took the p*ss out of me by telling lie after lie. She has form for being a bit of a rubbish friend so whilst some may feel that it’s a bad thing that I’ve been ‘goaded on’ by other mumsnetters, it’s actually been nice to have the backing and support of so many people when I can be a bit of a people pleaser at times. It’s given me the balls to be direct in my responses rather than allowing myself to be guilt tripped in to letting this go

How anyone can criticise you for being assertive with your ‘friend’ when she borrowed a £400 product from you, didn’t return it, lied about what happened to it and declined to replace it, is beyond me. I can only think those posters empathise with the ‘friend’ because they would behave like her!

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