Comment on Facebook by Office Manager

[ByOliveWriter]

I was in a job a few years ago and there was an issue with the heating. It gets really hot in the office, 26 degrees in winter which is really drying and I was going home with head aches. Raised this with managers who didn't do anything and than health and safety guy. I should be this ill from working in an office.

He said he would follow it up and agreed it was hot. The operations manager contacted the office manager to see how the temp was in the office - to which it was said I was wearing a coat (there are two people with the same name in the office but she shortens her name). The director of HR was CC and anyway I got a job with a £5k pay increase a few weeks later as it got way out of hand.

Anyway I was surfing Facebook and the office manager has made a comment about it on her facebook and tagged my manager and the person who sits next to me. The comment was brief along the lines of "what do I have to deal with".

Aibu in thinking that's not right?

Yes it’s Facebook stalking, very well known term and has been for 15+ years. You were Facebook stalking.

@ByOliveWriter your being abit prickly, I’m only trying to make sense of your post then I and other posters can ‘answer’ you properly. Facebook ‘stalking’ is a term used frequently- really no need to upset yourself about it.

You really ought to get a life if you’re worrying about this trivial shite. I can’t even understand your post.

No ‘most people’ didn’t. And no it hasn’t. It’s still huge and widely used

So in a three year old post someone from a prior employer expressed frustration about their job and you’re assuming it was about you and you’re upset? Were you named?

It's stating behaviour that is apparently not allowed.... Which is weird

If it was made three years ago, your response should be Haha Fuckers, I'm Well Shot of you. The End.

Why have you posted in aibu if you don't want to be told you are being unreasonable?
You clearly don't know how mumsnet works.

Ok 👍🏼

Aibu in thinking that's not right

Everyone is replying saying that it was three years ago and not worth getting annoyed over. But you are being arsey and rude in your replies. If you're not prepared to consider that you might be unreasonable, why bother posting?

I might like the post and delete them of social media

Do that. That will show them.

Because why are people gate keeping what I'm bothered about? They don't live my life.

Lol

I've no idea what this whole thread is about, what have they actually said that is maligning you (three years ago)?

Because you asked for opinions.

The point of this forum is to ask people whether you are being unreasonable. If you view people telling you that you are being unreasonable as "gatekeeping" then this was probably not the right place to post.

I’m surprised you have managed to get a job because you don’t seem to be able to communicate very well

Odd

How are you sure it was about you and this specific incident?

Stalking is unwanted. People are adults and know what they put on the internet can be seen by all. They have their full name etc.

Would someone looking at your LinkedIn profile be "stalking".

Become accountable and stop comparing someone looking at your Facebook to that of a stalker which is a criminal offence.

Exact date it happened. I don't think the time shows on posts. It's my manager who was tagged.

Yabu

@yeshimabet

From what I can work out (possibly wrongly ) the OP made a complaint at work 3 years ago and someone asked her manager and colleague on Facebook was she a PITA or rather a post that could be read that way