To say your engagement ring goes on your finger first and THEN your wedding ring?

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So, just that. As you'd have your engagement ring on already at the altar and then your wedding ring goes on, surely?

A quick glance around shows others have it the other way around

I wear my engagement ring first and the wedding band underneath to keep it secure x

*wouldn't

What you’ve stated in your op is just your own opinion. How we all wear them is actual tradition. You’re under no obligation to follow tradition if you choose not to, there’s no law that says you have to.

Your finger is supposed to be bare before the wedding ring is placed.

You decide which you think looks nicer. I personally think traditional tends to look nicer, but it also depends on the style of your rings

I wear mine in different orders depending on if I wear the eternity ring.
I think wear how YOU like best.
Sod tradition.

Who cares!?

No. You don't wear your engagement ring on that finger during the ceremony. It's often put on the other hand

The whole point is you are changing from engaged to married.

Even though most people wear them the traditional way?

No, on your wedding day you wear your engagement ring on the right hand until your wedding ring is on- then you move it over and place it on your left hand.

Your engagement ring should always be closest to your nail, the wedding ring closest to your heart.

Wear it how you like it. Traditionally, it is wedding band then engagement ring.

I wear mine wedding band, engagement ring, eternity ring. I like the solitaire sandwiched between the bands.

It's tradition and in all honesty I don't think I've ever seen it the other way round

Wedding ring first. Engagement ring on top. That’s how I wear mine.

I prefer my engagement ring on first, it feels more comfortable and I can see my wedding ring better. Having said that none of them fit me anymore as I’ve put on some weight! I don’t think I took my engagement ring off on my wedding day, but then I got married on a beach in America so I would not have risked taking it off or leaving it in the hotel room.

Once your wedding ring is on you are not meant to remove it but you might take your engagement ring off for anything messy (I take both off). Your finger should be bare at the altar.

Wedding ring first, so it's closer to your heart, and then you don't ever have to take it off. Then engagement ring.

I would never notice how other people wear their rings, it never occurred to me before reading this that there even was a 'right' way.
When I wear my engagement ring it's on my right hand, I prefer them not stacked.

I have my engagement ring then wedding ring then eternity ring, to me it makes sense.

Nope. Wedding ring bottom, then engagement ring, then eternity ring.

Did ye fuck hate it. You still quite possibly hold the record pencil-up-arse brigade living to point it out, though.

nope, other way around. on your wedding day move your engagement ring temporarily to your other hand.

Are you in the uk. How can you possibly not know this.

Pretty easily! I’m not sure I believe there’s a ‘right’ way to wear your rings, surely it’s personal preference. I’ve certainly never noticed the order of rings on anyone’s finger.

I wear it like you do because the rings sit together better that way, but I'm aware that it's not the traditional way to wear the rings.

Won't make much of a difference after he's left me for his secretary 15 years down the line.

I think you should wear them in whatever order looks best on your finger. Or however you prefer, swap them around daily if you like. It really doesn't matter a jot.

I agree. But I don’t think many do agree with us.
to me it makes sense and I think my rings look better that way.