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TheKeatingFive · 17/12/2024 11:23

Flapjacka · 17/12/2024 10:35

Transphobes get a life challenge

Ffs, is this just pure trolling?

HaddyAbrams · 17/12/2024 11:27

Geordiebabe85 · 17/12/2024 11:22

If you want to be a woman, at least have a shave!

Can we please stop the rhetoric that women never have stubble. As one with PCOS who could grow a full beard if i wished, I find it very upsetting.

And yes, that article is definitely about a man. But stubble isnt what makes him one.

Geordiebabe85 · 17/12/2024 11:28

HaddyAbrams · 17/12/2024 11:27

Can we please stop the rhetoric that women never have stubble. As one with PCOS who could grow a full beard if i wished, I find it very upsetting.

And yes, that article is definitely about a man. But stubble isnt what makes him one.

Apologies for any offence caused.

HaddyAbrams · 17/12/2024 11:30

Geordiebabe85 · 17/12/2024 11:28

Apologies for any offence caused.

Thank you. I know you didn't mean to cause any, but so often I see comments about transwomens failure to remove all stubble. And it can also be a very female issue!

HumanBurrito · 17/12/2024 11:30

Agree that the definitions are probably clouding the issue a bit. I think the 5-6 instances is an underestimate: https://eu.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2023/03/27/female-mass-shooters-nashville-rare/11550575002/ gives the figure of 101 women for 4,025 cases since 2013. So women are clearly a tiny minority but I am not so sure transmen and women are over-represented.

Why women mass shooters are a rare occurrence

Female mass shooters are exceptionally rare, as experts say the average mass shooter is male and in his 20s.

https://eu.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2023/03/27/female-mass-shooters-nashville-rare/11550575002

JohnTheRevelator · 17/12/2024 11:30

FancyNewt · 16/12/2024 22:15

Let's just hope he doesn't get sent to a woman's prison.

I'm not holding my breath.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2024 11:34

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2024 11:18

I think it also depends how you define a "mass shooting" statistically. So maybe "most" wasn't the best term. But they are a significant proportion of female mass shootings and I think should be paid attention to.

This is a report carried out by the US Secret Service into mass attacks on US soil.

Page 19 shows demographics. I can't copy and paste but it says nearly all were male, there were 5 females and 3 of the whole sample were FTM transgender. It implies they were not included in either the 172 males or the 5 females but in a separate trans category. So this is all the known trans people in the sample.

www.secretservice.gov/sites/default/files/reports/2023-01/usss-ntac-maps-2016-2020.pdf

WhatUSeeIsWhatUGet · 17/12/2024 11:37

I would laugh it it wasn't so darn insulting. Not our crimes. When will this collective delusion end?!

Do you think "journalists" at newspapers who publish these are believers or just cynical?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2024 11:37

MTF trans people don't appear to be underrepresented in other types of violence, given their small population.

It's interesting that they are in this type, and female transgender people are definitely overrepresented proportionally to their numbers in the population, whichever way you slice it.

HumanBurrito · 17/12/2024 11:39

Yes I think we are talking about the threshold for what counts as a mass shooting. There are far more than 5 or 6 instances of extrafamilial gun violence involving women but a large majority (including this one so far) remain under the threshold.

edit: agree this is a derail and will stop here.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2024 11:39

Anyway this is a bit of a derail. This male has committed a violent sex crime and was reported as a "woman".

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2024 11:41

The best evidence is the Secret Service report I've linked for the period 2016-2020, which explains all the limitations of the data and the criteria etc. it's a PDF so I can't copy and paste but will read it in full.

ArabellaScott · 17/12/2024 12:14

Wittow · 17/12/2024 09:59

It made me so angry that he has called himself "Angel". It feels like absolute madness that he may actually go to a women's prison depending on how far he has gone with "transitioning".

I fear any action events about VAWG are now infiltrated by hostile trans activists and our right to protest about this shit is even being compromised.

Yes, this is a big part of the problem. See the recent 'Women's March' for January - booting out any women with 'gender critical' views, talking about how they want to 'belt' 'terfs', etc.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5228413-the-womens-march-thats-all-about-the-men

ArabellaScott · 17/12/2024 12:17

TheKeatingFive · 17/12/2024 11:23

Ffs, is this just pure trolling?

Yes, a poster telling women upset/outraged about rape/sexual assault that they should 'get a life' is probably a troll.

EasternStandard · 17/12/2024 12:58

This is madness

Dangerous anti women system

VegTrug · 17/12/2024 14:08

Whilst I completely agree with you, that's not what gaslighting means. This is just plain lies!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2024 14:18

I think it's a valid use of the term. It's societal gaslighting by the authorities and media.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2024 14:20

Just saying it's a lie doesn't cover it. There is a lot invested in pretending that only a few people disbelieve in gender identity ideology.

UniqueOP · 17/12/2024 14:23

@QueenGalbraith Oh, I thought the whole thing about the Bourne production was that they were all men, women excluded. I stand corrected. I note that women can't be swans, though. Yet another example of men taking things away from women.

Zestylemo · 17/12/2024 14:30

They said this would never happen
They told us to be kind
They told us to deny material reality
They told us we are transphobes if we didn't deny reality

What next? All mixed sex prisons because the stats show women also rape and commit VAWG?

What next? Mixed sex toilets because some men are women so there's no need to have anything single sex.

What next? All mixed sex sports because the stats show some women (aka men) have the same biology as men (of course they do, the are men)

What next? Mixed sex hospital wards because some men are women and therefore no segregation is needed

What next? No quotas for boards of directors because after all men are women and women are men.

Wittow · 17/12/2024 15:25

VegTrug · 17/12/2024 14:08

Whilst I completely agree with you, that's not what gaslighting means. This is just plain lies!

I think its an entirely appropriate use of the word. Please see screenshot from wiki

This is NOT a woman!
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MobilityCat · 17/12/2024 18:08

forgotmyusername1 · 17/12/2024 08:12

If women hadn't started making a noise and fighting back this individual would be on their way to a woman's prison as that is the way things were going. We need to continue to expose sunlight on these cases and continue to push back. Hold the line ladies, hold the line

Absolutely! I've been fighting since Women's Lib in the seventies and we're stronger than ever before.

Slidingdowntherainbow · 17/12/2024 18:40

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 17/12/2024 09:31

I’m so sick of these trans crimes.

There’s crimes in all aspects of life yet trans issues seem to be the only ones to crop up with as much frequency.

These are VERY rare instances.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2024 18:42

These are VERY rare instances.

Male trans people commit violence as much as other male people. So they are as rare/common statistically as any violent males.

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