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Mearabade · 04/12/2024 22:10

I've watched a bit of it over the years.

I was watching a couple of this year's episodes, and I just thought that the trials have gotten so much worse.

Yesterday they had Oti mabuse, one of the contestants, stand in a sarcophagus. They poured sand into it, up to her neck, so her whole body was covered in sand, and she couldn't move at all.

She had a tiny head space for air. Then they filled that head space with giant cockraches, ants and large worms.

I was watching it and thinking,

"When did watching people being completely tortured on TV become acceptable."

Is it not going too far?

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RedRiverShore5 · 05/12/2024 12:33

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 12:31

Dont make shit up. I never wrote anywhere on this thread that I have watched any of this year's episodes.

I said that i saw Oti and recap videos, on instagram

Still watched it though haven't you, doesn't matter where, does it

Persephonegoddess · 05/12/2024 12:33

On the children point, it is on after the watershed at 9pm which means children should only be watching with parental consent. So no unless a parent is useless children shouldn't be watching it.

midlifeattheoasis · 05/12/2024 12:36

@Mearabade

I think you're talking nonsense. The show has been running for something like 20 years now and without exception the "celebs" know what they're signing up for and get a huge fee to boot.

As others have said you can in no way compare it to torture.

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 12:36

RedRiverShore5 · 05/12/2024 12:33

Still watched it though haven't you, doesn't matter where, does it

I never said I didn't watch clips. I said that I did.

What's your point?

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Mearabade · 05/12/2024 12:37

midlifeattheoasis · 05/12/2024 12:36

@Mearabade

I think you're talking nonsense. The show has been running for something like 20 years now and without exception the "celebs" know what they're signing up for and get a huge fee to boot.

As others have said you can in no way compare it to torture.

So what's your thoughts on the Asian tv reality shoes that are more extreme torture.

People on this thread have said that they're very very bad.

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midlifeattheoasis · 05/12/2024 12:41

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 12:37

So what's your thoughts on the Asian tv reality shoes that are more extreme torture.

People on this thread have said that they're very very bad.

TBH I have never watched these other shows, but people know what they are signing up for and if they are stupid enough to do them, then more fool them.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 05/12/2024 12:45

BIossomtoes · 05/12/2024 12:18

For someone who objects to this programme so strongly, you seem oddly over invested @Mearabade. Maybe give it a swerve if it offends you.

This! ^

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 05/12/2024 12:49

tilypu · 05/12/2024 07:26

I'm from the UK. I'm in my mid 50s. I have used the word all my living memory.

It is in use in the UK. Just not everywhere.

And how bizarre to claim it's 'not a word'. A word is a word. Jugador is a word. It's not an English word, but it's still a word.

'Jugador?' That's Spanish though, not English. We could go on all day bringing up words from another language!

Also, 'gotten' is a word yes, but it's not an English one, it's American.

I'm not bothered if people use it, I probably use Americanisms myself some days, but let's not pretend it's English, because it's not.

BakedBeansforabrain · 05/12/2024 13:05

Mearabade · 04/12/2024 22:41

Gotten is a word.

Only in the USA

In British English, the past participle of the verb get is got. In American English, people say gotten.

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 13:25

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 05/12/2024 12:49

'Jugador?' That's Spanish though, not English. We could go on all day bringing up words from another language!

Also, 'gotten' is a word yes, but it's not an English one, it's American.

I'm not bothered if people use it, I probably use Americanisms myself some days, but let's not pretend it's English, because it's not.

It’s an older form of English that has persisted in America.

What some English people don’t seem to realise is that it has also persisted in parts of England, as well as in Scotland and in Ireland. It didn’t die out on this side of the Atlantic. Depending on where you live you’ll be familiar with it or not in everyday speech.

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 13:26

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 05/12/2024 12:49

'Jugador?' That's Spanish though, not English. We could go on all day bringing up words from another language!

Also, 'gotten' is a word yes, but it's not an English one, it's American.

I'm not bothered if people use it, I probably use Americanisms myself some days, but let's not pretend it's English, because it's not.

If you look up the history of the word,

Gotten was used in the UK, actually.

It just went out of popularity a bit.

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Mearabade · 05/12/2024 13:28

BakedBeansforabrain · 05/12/2024 13:05

Only in the USA

In British English, the past participle of the verb get is got. In American English, people say gotten.

The past participle of Got also used to be gotten in the UK.

It just faded out of popularity a bit, and some people now use the shorter, "got".

Look up the history of the word.

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tilypu · 05/12/2024 16:04

BakedBeansforabrain · 05/12/2024 13:05

Only in the USA

In British English, the past participle of the verb get is got. In American English, people say gotten.

That's not true.

I've already said it has been in common use in certain areas of the UK all my living memory, and I'm over a half century old. It's in the king James bible. It's used by Shakespeare. Just because it has fallen out of use in some areas doesn't make it not an English word used in the UK.

tilypu · 05/12/2024 16:07

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 05/12/2024 12:49

'Jugador?' That's Spanish though, not English. We could go on all day bringing up words from another language!

Also, 'gotten' is a word yes, but it's not an English one, it's American.

I'm not bothered if people use it, I probably use Americanisms myself some days, but let's not pretend it's English, because it's not.

Good job on missing my point entirely!!

And yes, gotten is English. Some people seem to think it's American English, but it never died out in some areas of the UK.

Was Shakespeare pretending when he used it?

BIossomtoes · 05/12/2024 16:24

Shakespeare’s been dead for 400 years. It’s not in contemporary use in the vast majority of the UK.

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 16:41

I’m in ROI and It’s widely used here and not a new thing.

Regarding the UK, as far as I know it’s used in NI, parts of Scotland and parts of Northern England.

It’s a useful word to have. It’s not used in quite the same way as ‘got’ is and it’s useful to be able to make that distinction in speech.

BIossomtoes · 05/12/2024 16:44

Not in any part of northern England I know and not by my bloke’s extensive family in N Ireland. I’ve literally never heard it spoken by a British person except in the context of “ill gotten gains”.

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 16:49

BIossomtoes · 05/12/2024 16:24

Shakespeare’s been dead for 400 years. It’s not in contemporary use in the vast majority of the UK.

Do you know everyone in the UK then?

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PottedPlantCrazy · 05/12/2024 16:54

May I ask why you’ve tuned in over the years?

if you’ve been thoroughly disgusted and not entertained in the slightest, have you done anything productive about it? Ofcom? Contacted ITV? Etc.

(Apologies if this reads as rude, genuinely asking) x

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 16:55

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 16:41

I’m in ROI and It’s widely used here and not a new thing.

Regarding the UK, as far as I know it’s used in NI, parts of Scotland and parts of Northern England.

It’s a useful word to have. It’s not used in quite the same way as ‘got’ is and it’s useful to be able to make that distinction in speech.

#teamgotten

:)

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Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 16:56

BIossomtoes · 05/12/2024 16:44

Not in any part of northern England I know and not by my bloke’s extensive family in N Ireland. I’ve literally never heard it spoken by a British person except in the context of “ill gotten gains”.

These threads come up regularly and people from Scotland, NI and N England always come on to say things like their granny has always used it. You could do a search if you want. You’ll find British people saying it hasn’t died out in their region, I know you will.

BIossomtoes · 05/12/2024 16:57

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 16:49

Do you know everyone in the UK then?

Look, love, I’ve been on this planet for 71 years and lived in a variety of places in the UK - do you not think I might have heard it at least once if it was still in contemporary use?

Garnetcherrycola · 05/12/2024 17:02

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 12:32

I'll pour giant burrowing cockroaches all over your face and see if you think it's fun!

The ants bite and hurt people.

One contrstant had a leech suck a load of blood out of her.

the whole "they signed up for it and have given consent" thing completely flew over your head didn't it? 🥱 go be batshit somewhere else x

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 17:03

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 16:56

These threads come up regularly and people from Scotland, NI and N England always come on to say things like their granny has always used it. You could do a search if you want. You’ll find British people saying it hasn’t died out in their region, I know you will.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/pedantscorner/4002174-Gotten-Why

It’s discussed here for example @Blossomtoes. A number of Scottish posters say they use it regularly.

Mearabade · 05/12/2024 17:04

I think that "gotten" is a great, descriptive word.

It sounds good. It's better than the simple "got".
In my opinion.

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