Is it reasonable to ask a woman to change her profile picture?

[NewmanintownRob]

I have someone I am seeing and she has a picture of her and her deceased husband as her main profile picture on Facebook. I keep in touch with a lot of family and friends through Facebook, but I’m not obsessed by it. However, she has been a widow for four years and I am fully supportive of her sons and family and her deceased husband’s family. However, trying to friend her on Facebook and get her starting to learn more about my family is challenging. if she just simply had a picture of herself, it would be easier - her family and friends know about me and her, most of my family and friends know about me and her. I have a picture of her in my apartment and on my phone - she has no pictures of me in-home or on her phone. I’m trying to advance this to the next level and I’m starting to get worried that she isn’t wanting that. I am giving a time but it does make me a little uncomfortable. AIBU ?

You really are a strange little chap. Simple as.

..wait…does laughing at Vic n Bob references make me a middle class woman of a certain age…?

Shitinabucket. Someone fetch the chives, shoo me out of this room.

WTF.

Your posts get weirder and weirder @NewmanintownRob

No, stay! We're up to count 7357536546 on "widow watch" !!

The main vibe I get is "ego" and "conquest" and "marking territory".

And wanting to "call all the shots".

And you're STILL going ON and ON about this lady being a widow.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I beg to differ.
I've counted 8,367,844,092 mentions so far.

I lost count now lol

I’m trying to think of famous widows, to try and get a picture of it all. So far I’ve got Victoria (queen), twanky and that lassie with the big hood who wants me to buy insurance. To be fair, they would all seem the type to have slack Facebook admin.

I've got "Wido-ow, wido-ow" going round in my head like a football chant now..

Yabu

"Unalive" is a word with which I am familiar.

It is an adjective.

"Unalived" is not, however.

Is he dating Christopher Biggins - it is panto season....?

So OP.

Your lady friend still has her late husband's ATV?

And you don't like that?

😂

And the unalive husband is"behiiind you...." apparently....

(Disclaimer - I'm a widow and macabre humour is all that keeps me sane, and prwvents me screamind eternally out loud, but apologies to anyone who finds it distasteful xxx)

https://widow411.com/popular-widowed-women/

Are you thinking of making a move on The Widow yourself there @TheShellBeach? I mean, no snark from me, a date on that ATV could be a cracking afternoon.

Did someone say widow?

I'd love to see the unalive husband's "toys" yes.

Not on here.

Tbh this sounds all very immature.

Instead of subbing dead with unalive. Try and omit widow completely. Just leave a gap.

I've got a small size black penny farthing beloved by my late DP with a goats skull on the front with an attachment for a parasol in storage.

If I ever have room for it in a house, I shall use it as a test for any future suitors.

Have you really, because that sounds like the most amazing thing!!!!

You are all hilarious - but songs like Widowmaker and widow widow my little widow sound like a good rock song ! ))

Oh bloody hell, you need to crash @TheShellBeach and The Widow’s date on the ATV with that lot. I am frantically thinking about what the hell I could contribute, this could be an EVENT. @MildredSauce might even bring Christopher Biggins.

We think you are off your rocker.