OP- I won’t repeat the rest of the comments here, but I thought I’d give you some perspective.
I have also been dating someone for a similar time. These dates have included pub trips and some activities. We have had some “deeper chats” but certainly no trauma dumping or anything along those lines. The ‘relationship’ so far has basically been getting to know each other and enjoying spending time together. I don’t know his home address, and he doesn’t know mine (although obviously discussed vague area!). It’s been really fun and I like him a lot. This, imo, is normal (although I do appreciate that everyone works at different paces to a certain extent and there’s no judgement there).
Declaring love to this extent, discussing the fact that he “wants to get you pregnant” and oversharing quickly about previous traumas is not normal. These are tactics used by unstable, often controlling people to draw you in quickly and fast. If you have told him you want children, I’ll bet he’ll be using the pregnancy thing to draw you in as a sign of ‘commitment’. He will be telling you his traumas, because he wants you to open up so he can see where your weaknesses are.
This man is not emotionally healthy, he is not emotionally stable; you will never have an emotionally stable or healthy relationship with him.
Run now, because the longer it goes on, the more manipulative he will get.