Boyfriends kink

[Kneebonefuture]

So kind of a rude one, so I won't go into specifics. And he's not my boyfriend, he's an old fling who has been a friend for 15 years, and we were kind of thinking of getting together, but no idea how to word that.

I've always known he had a slightly kinky side, nothing mad just a little bit more adventurous than me. However he has recently revealed a kink/hobby? That i never knew about, he seemed totally ashamed and called himself a loser, a weirdo and dirty. Its really not my thing, but I don't like to judge, so just said it wasn't anything to be ashamed of and laughed it off. Hes since seemed to take that as a green light that I'm also into it. Constantly referring to it, bringing it up and fitting it into conversations that hold no relevance. And even sending photos. Should I just call things off with him, as it doesn't appear we are a match or just tell him I'm not into it, how would I even word that? Please no nasty comments, I'm a really shy and introverted person and get confused with boundary setting occasionally. Thanks 😊

Adult baby and nappies?

Oops ignore me I am far too late to the party

It's the baby thing, isn't it? He likes wearing nappies.
I'd be more concerned as to what has led to this "kink". He might be better seeing a therapist.

They are probably referring to Sissification AKA forced feminisation. It is a hardcore humiliation fetish. It relates to AGP.

Edited to include extra info.

Right ok. So many different names for things! I feel far too old and tired to be putting that much effort into getting your rocks off.

He likes wearing skirts.

Didn’t see the reveal post till now , lol, whatever you do don’t let him piss in your mouth, or your coochie! I wish all the best for you, you gave me a good chuckle, thank you.

I still don't know what it is. Crossdressing? Cock cage? Gimp mask? Someone spell it out for me!

Whatever it is the thread made me cackle 😂

What reveal post?

OP hasn't revealed.

He sounds pretty disgusting.

It's not the kink per se,it's the pestering, the pity party about how he's low and weird, the bringing it up at inappropriate times. It's not your responsibility to make him feel good/normal about his sexuality, nor is it your responsibility to gratify his fantasies.

He really sounds like a loser and I bet this is the TIP of the iceberg. Bin, bin, bin.

You do know how to word it, you just did above..."I'm not into that thanks". Sometimes people choose those whom they feel they can ease into their kinks, if it's not your thing say so and yes move on if it's becoming a thing. You deserve a warm loving person to raise your confidence not someone who wants to manipulate your gentle soul into an area of discomfort. It's a short life, don't waste it, I wish you your best life.

It's really bothering you and you don't sound as if you want an intimate relationship with this man, OP. Best not go there.

There is always more to it than you are first told, and it always escalates.

Well done on dodging the bullet 👍

I’m on a medical gore page and I’ve recently seen someone who did this and it went very very wrong

apparrntly men want them big. Feels like a man if they do so

i remember the comments from women on the picture going but why? I don’t even look at a man and say oh big bollocks. Soooooo sexy.

it’s true? I mean if any women on here say they think big balls is the sexiest thing ever then I’ll eat my hat!

100%

I agree. Someone once told me they found something off putting. It was something about either borrowing his toothbrush and how she thought it was grim and I said. But you kiss and have sex right?

I don’t understand why people won’t talk to people about stuff

you put yourself in the more incredibly vulnerable situation of having sex with someone but can’t talk to them? I don’t get it!

It’s PVC and latex.

No. They’re not doing it for that

its control. They’re usually in high powered jobs and want someone to look after tjem

my mother was a criminal psychologist.

listen. As long is it’s not involving underage or animals and everyone involved are giving permission

then I don’t see a problem if it’s weird.

Friend of mine met a man who she had a romance with and got married

shortly after the wedding he came out as transgender and she once confided in me how she wanted to leave and how she’d never wanted to marry a woman

so I’ve known it happen. Sometimes it’s just got to be a no.

I just have to say it, i like your username. Very good! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yes I think there is a lot of confusion, I think most people into it are the one who is the "baby" they don't want their partner to be the baby. And its usually to be taken care of, so a form of regression i think.

What is the kink?

Yeah what is the kink, are you actually going to say?

I think a nice, waxed, balanced pair is important - with a nice sized appendage in front of it

You don't want the balls to be too small though 🤭🤭🤭