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To be so disappointed in people - Trump voters especially

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notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 06:43

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster.

I am afraid for a future so full of anger and hate.

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ChallahPlaiter · 06/11/2024 13:23

AnonymousBleep · 06/11/2024 13:18

The poster wants to reduce the election to a single issue so that they can 'claim victory' by positioning you as anti-women.

Yes! And nothing could be further from the truth.

It’s so inane, it actually offends me.

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 06/11/2024 13:24

I work in climate change and trump not believing in climate change just echoes a lot of what is actually happening in countries. They can make the right noises but no one at all is moving fast enough on it. The flood is Spain, we have talked for years that flash flooding will happen. Where were the purpose built defences to mitigate what they saw last week. If we are so concerned about climate change then start making the action don’t just blame trump, this to me just feels like an excuse well trump doesn’t believe in it so we may aswell not do anything .

Pineapplesandthegovernmentandpunkrock · 06/11/2024 13:24

It's a pity Kamala Harris didn't have the grace to come out and speak to her thousands of supporters waiting for her at Howard University. Content of her character right there.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/11/2024 13:26

ChallahPlaiter · 06/11/2024 13:22

Again, assumptions. Are people really that incapable of reading, comprehending and asking probing questions or do they just mindlessly jump to their own prejudices?

Oh you're quite funny, so you get to be incapable of reading, comprehending, answering questions and jumping to your own prejudices when it comes to putting the rights of men who identify as trans above women?

But women who point out that you are wrong don't?

I see, this is very typical of believers of your ideology which is not based in reality. You think that refusing to answer straight questions makes you look intelligent when the reality is that it just makes you look like a liar who doesn't think women should have any rights independent from men who claim to 'identify' as women.

Momtotwokids · 06/11/2024 13:26

Toomanysquishmallows · 06/11/2024 07:06

@Rollonsummerplease , I agree, I think Biden made a dreadful decision, thinking he could run again.

I don't think Biden made the decision, his wife did.

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 13:26

ChallahPlaiter · 06/11/2024 13:23

Yes! And nothing could be further from the truth.

It’s so inane, it actually offends me.

That post isn't correct btw

I don't think Trump's win or Harris' defeat were based on a single issue. I found your description of women who don't believe in gender ideology a bit inane, and offensive since you mention it.

rainingsnoring · 06/11/2024 13:26

Alexandra2001 · 06/11/2024 13:22

Hang on, Trump isn't exactly sane either, i do not recall the Republicans being so open about Trumps abilities!

Trump seems to be a vehicle for others to get into positions of power.

No one should talk down to anyone.

but TBH the whole tone of your post is somewhat sneering of anyone left of centre.

Trump does not have obvious cognitive decline and Parkinsons disease. You may not like his opinions, I find a lot of them appalling too, but there is a difference here.
My post is not sneering at all. If you see the other post I wrote recently, you will see that I am not partisan at all, Unfortunately, instead of thinking about the point being made, you have decided to blame me and decide I support the right and Trump. I do not! As I said, the left need to learn to accept their own mistakes and take some responsibility for them.

AliasGrace47 · 06/11/2024 13:27

Anonymous, yeah I get what you mean about the nanny element. Look at women like Marine Le Pen, Giorgia Meloni. Do you feel that a left leaning woman would have a different sort of authority? Or that it's more 'nanny' type views, ie. conservative?

Lentilweaver · 06/11/2024 13:27

I wonder what happens if we have another pandemic when the probably new health chief believes the US vaccine mandates are akin to Nazi laws.
I mean, pp on here accuse the left of being dramatic but RFK JR takes the cake.

ThatRareUmberJoker · 06/11/2024 13:27

GoodGollyMsMolly · 06/11/2024 12:26

This is too funny. I don't think Americans care about your hurty feeling. And you're missing out.

Thank fuck for that. I love the idea that I can leave my house without fear that a gun could be pointed at my head. Thank fuck my children can live and go to school safely 🙏

AnonymousBleep · 06/11/2024 13:27

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 13:20

See pp

The election was not a single issue.

Harris lost and Trump won due to a whole range of reasons

This intent in this comment from you is pretty clear:
This sounds like you prefer gender ideology over sex based spaces? Do you mean you are happy with men in women's sports?

A question for you: Are you happy that rights for lesbians (including protection against discrimination at work) will be rolled back and support removed under Trump's administration?

duc748 · 06/11/2024 13:28

YankSplaining · 06/11/2024 13:16

(points to username)

As James Carville said about a different election, “It’s the economy, stupid.”

Under Biden, food prices skyrocketed. My husband and kids came home from grocery shopping yesterday having spent four hundred dollars on food that would have cost half that or less a few years ago. We have never in our lives spent that much on one trip to the grocery store. Whenever I buy five or six everyday purchases at Walmart or Target - think laundry detergent, paper towels, school shoes, cat food - it comes to over a hundred dollars. A few years ago, it was more like eighty dollars. It all adds up.

Kamala Harris was in on the lie that Biden was perfectly capable of holding office, and anyone who pointed out the truth was spreading “fake news.” All politicians lie, but this one was too egregious. What did Kamala Harris offer to the American electorate? She ticked three different diversity boxes? She inspired memes involving Charli XCX and “brat”?

Until about six months ago, Harris’s lackluster performance was one of the rare things most Americans agreed on. (Remember, this is a woman who ran for the Democratic nomination in 2019-2020 and had to drop out early because no one was voting for her.) Then Biden’s dementia couldn’t be denied any longer and the Democrats shoved in Harris as their candidate, instead of holding an open primary. They had one job: find a sane, moderate Democrat who spoke to issues ordinary Americans cared about. Generally speaking, that’s the economy, immigration, national security, and free speech. They failed. They lost.

Harris is pro-choice? Who cares - it’s a state issue now, you’ve got to vote for governors or state legislators to change abortion law. Democratic flailing about, “but how can you vote for a rapist?!” is laughable to voters who remember the Clinton years and the sexual assault allegations against Bill Clinton that popped up like mushrooms on wet grass.

Finding a candidate who could beat Trump was not difficult. If Democrats couldn’t even do that, they deserve to lose. Better luck next time.

That's all fair enough, but the US is not unique. Food prices have doubled in the UK (and most other countries too) in the last couple of years. I agree that the Dems ought to have able to find a better candidate, sooner, though. And that the 'diversity' prattle put a lot of people off.

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 13:29

Bunnygirl1902 · 06/11/2024 12:28

I can see I touched a nerve there.Yes of course you were and I'm sure you're were also one of those individuals that likes to go around telling people how 'proud you are to have had to contribute more to an "honest society"'. That honest society doesn't exist and no amount of tax will change that. The society we live in is very much the less work you do the more hand outs you get. Handouts that come straight out of working people's pockets. That to me is not my idea of an "honest society".

I know perfectly well what communism is. Thank you for inquiring. It seems perhaps being retired you seemed to have lost touch with the working world around you.

If the money did go the public services such as the NHS I would feel much better about paying my taxes to but the fact is the NHS don't see half as much as they should because a majority of taxes go to benefits so people don't have to work.
Thank you for inquiring about my education. I am in fact a very well rounded privately educated young woman.

Losing your job doesn't mean you can't get another one. Being disabled does not mean you cannot work, there is a plethora of jobs out there that doesn't require much physical exertion. There is a role for everyone.

If you know what communism is, how on earth can you call the current Labour government communist? Have they taken all means of production into state hands? Are there no private businesses any more? Have Labour got rid of elections? Is the UK now a totalitarian state?

As for your claim that you are a very well rounded privately educated young woman. As they say, self praise is no recommendation. At least your posts shatter the myth about the benefits/value of private education. Your parents should ask for their money back.

Your views on the 'undeserving' poor are positively Victorian for such a young woman. I would expect young people to be more compassionate and idealistic.

AnonymousBleep · 06/11/2024 13:30

AliasGrace47 · 06/11/2024 13:27

Anonymous, yeah I get what you mean about the nanny element. Look at women like Marine Le Pen, Giorgia Meloni. Do you feel that a left leaning woman would have a different sort of authority? Or that it's more 'nanny' type views, ie. conservative?

It's not that I don't think left-leaning women couldn't do a great job as PM - I definitely think they could - but there seems to be some kind of collective mental block against that happening, except in Scandinavia and New Zealand, but the demographics are quite different there anyway. I do think it's the nanny thing tbh! I think it appeals to something in white male voters. My dad adored Theresa May and Thatcher!

alottobedone · 06/11/2024 13:31

alottobedone · 06/11/2024 13:11

The fascists you mention are the ones who are trying to stop wars, though. That is why they are getting support because most people want to end the death and destruction. No one is saying "I am voting for them because they are a fascist".

The rise of the extreme right is a completely different subject. It is to do with lack of education and trauma in people who are being groomed to become extreme right.

And just to add, in relation to wanting to end the death and destruction, in relation to Ukraine, Trump said he wants to end the conflict. We have been told two versions of what has been going on in relation to the conflict. One side says keep the conflict going because it is all about democracy and freedom and getting a good deal for Ukraine. Whereas a senator in the US has recently said the driver for the US to keep supporting the war was to do with the US gaining indirect control the trillions worth of minerals in Ukraine, and in relation to Crimea we know that it is of huge strategic value in terms of its sea access and so wanting indirect control of that too, nothing to do with helping Ukraine and that in fact Ukraine was being sold down the river. Who do we believe?

AnonymousBleep · 06/11/2024 13:31

ChallahPlaiter · 06/11/2024 13:23

Yes! And nothing could be further from the truth.

It’s so inane, it actually offends me.

It's just about point-scoring tbh. It's not real 'debate'.

BreatheAndFocus · 06/11/2024 13:31

Onley · 06/11/2024 12:51

Maybe we should bloody listen to the people that felt compelled to vote for Trump instead of sneering at them? What are they afraid of? What do they think Trump can do that Kamala cannot?

It’s very easy to act superior and look down on those with alternative views. It gets us nowhere.

Yes, listen, but also realise that the Trump voters comprise of separate groups of people, some of whom might have voted for Harris in different circumstances. Lumping all Trump voters together as one racist, sexist, fascist mass of thuggish dumbos does absolutely nothing except entrench their determination to vote against the Democrats.

A number of the votes ‘for’ Trump will actually have been against Harris/the Dems.

Navyblue214 · 06/11/2024 13:32

hairbearbunches · 06/11/2024 12:04

@Navyblue214 I don't like this result either, but I wouldn't say Trump is Hitler. It's not that he doesn't want to be a dictator. He may want to, but there are many obstacles in the American system that he can't overcome to get there. I think today, the only person who can be compared to Hitler is Xi Jinping, the real dictator.

Hitler didn't arrive on day one in full on dictator mode, but once you've made it to the top job, it doesn't matter how many obstacles there are in your own particular country's system, you have the power to overturn all of it. Unless we learn the lesson of history, we are doomed to repeat it.

Hitler "Nazified" all political and social institutions, abolished the Weimar Republic system, dissolved the parliament, banned all other political parties and groups, and suppressed dissidents and members of these political parties. He announced the integration of the Nazi Party and Germany within a year of becoming German Chancellor, and began a one-party dictatorship. I don’t see how Trump can do all this.

I agree that we should learn lessons from history, but I think the biggest lesson now is that the United States should not be attempted by isolationism because the new axis of evil poses the greatest threat to the rest of the world, and it's dangerous to turn a blind eye.

Again, I do think they, especially Xi Jinping, are more like Hitler than Trump, and if we compare his totalitarian rule and expansionist ambitions to Hitler’s behavior, including nationalist brainwashing based on a “shameful” modern history, persecution of minorities and dissidents, and threats against neighboring countries, the similarities are striking.

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 13:32

AnonymousBleep · 06/11/2024 13:31

It's just about point-scoring tbh. It's not real 'debate'.

It's a question.. which seems to cause much angst. Not sure why

BIossomtoes · 06/11/2024 13:33

AliasGrace47 · 06/11/2024 13:27

Anonymous, yeah I get what you mean about the nanny element. Look at women like Marine Le Pen, Giorgia Meloni. Do you feel that a left leaning woman would have a different sort of authority? Or that it's more 'nanny' type views, ie. conservative?

I think Yvette Cooper has the headmistressy vibe in spades, it’s not an exclusively right wing trait.

Momtotwokids · 06/11/2024 13:33

saltinesandcoffeecups · 06/11/2024 13:21

Quoting this in case it gives people a second chance to read it… excellent analysis.

I so agree with both of you. I think the assassination attempt didn't help Democrats either.

alottobedone · 06/11/2024 13:34

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 13:29

If you know what communism is, how on earth can you call the current Labour government communist? Have they taken all means of production into state hands? Are there no private businesses any more? Have Labour got rid of elections? Is the UK now a totalitarian state?

As for your claim that you are a very well rounded privately educated young woman. As they say, self praise is no recommendation. At least your posts shatter the myth about the benefits/value of private education. Your parents should ask for their money back.

Your views on the 'undeserving' poor are positively Victorian for such a young woman. I would expect young people to be more compassionate and idealistic.

Communism is based on the ideas of Marx. What communism means varies depending on how Marx was interpreted, and how revisionist the interpretations are. Whether purges or totalitarianism is required is up for debate. Also, Marx left out huge gaps to be filled eg foreign trade practice.

hattie43 · 06/11/2024 13:34

Get over yourself. Donald didn't win this Kamala lost it . She was too weak a candidate.

AnonymousBleep · 06/11/2024 13:34

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 13:32

It's a question.. which seems to cause much angst. Not sure why

Cool. Look forward to your answer to my lesbian question!

Swivelhead · 06/11/2024 13:34

True. Most people here are honest enough to realise people didn't vote for Starmer, but against Sunak. Sadly, things are unchangingly hideous regardless.

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