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To be so disappointed in people - Trump voters especially

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notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 06:43

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster.

I am afraid for a future so full of anger and hate.

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Onley · 06/11/2024 12:51

Maybe we should bloody listen to the people that felt compelled to vote for Trump instead of sneering at them? What are they afraid of? What do they think Trump can do that Kamala cannot?

It’s very easy to act superior and look down on those with alternative views. It gets us nowhere.

C152 · 06/11/2024 12:52

casepoint · 06/11/2024 07:04

I'm not a trump supporter, but isn't it best that we stay out of the Ukraine conflict now ? We are just asking for trouble by staying in it. I don't want to get nuked.

No, it isn't best. What would have been best is if we had all backed Ukraine the second Russia invaded - well, actually, well before that, when they were testing the waters. That is all Russia (under Putin) will do - push, push, push. He won't stop until he is forced to stop. With Trump in power, we're all a significant step closer to another world war.

Laptoppie · 06/11/2024 12:54

I don't believe Kamala lost entirely because she was a woman.

Me neither, but it's a good way for some to shut down sensible discussions about why she's not next into the white house.

Alexandra2001 · 06/11/2024 12:54

BIossomtoes · 06/11/2024 12:46

Sadly I think you’re right. I don’t expect to see a female president in my lifetime.

She had 4 months of campaigning, Trump had 4 years.... i hope she stands again.

It'll be interesting to see how Trump gets on in the mid term elections, he cannot do the things he has promised to do, just as he couldn't in 2016/20, so will his supporters keep the faith?

One pundit was saying the Bidens comment that Trump supporters are "Garbage" made sure that Trump supporters came and voted.... too many gaffs, a great pity Biden hung on for so long, by the time he stood aside, the democrats had no time to pick anyone but Harris (who btw i think was their best hope)

aCatCalledFawkes · 06/11/2024 12:55

Bunnygirl1902 · 06/11/2024 12:28

I can see I touched a nerve there.Yes of course you were and I'm sure you're were also one of those individuals that likes to go around telling people how 'proud you are to have had to contribute more to an "honest society"'. That honest society doesn't exist and no amount of tax will change that. The society we live in is very much the less work you do the more hand outs you get. Handouts that come straight out of working people's pockets. That to me is not my idea of an "honest society".

I know perfectly well what communism is. Thank you for inquiring. It seems perhaps being retired you seemed to have lost touch with the working world around you.

If the money did go the public services such as the NHS I would feel much better about paying my taxes to but the fact is the NHS don't see half as much as they should because a majority of taxes go to benefits so people don't have to work.
Thank you for inquiring about my education. I am in fact a very well rounded privately educated young woman.

Losing your job doesn't mean you can't get another one. Being disabled does not mean you cannot work, there is a plethora of jobs out there that doesn't require much physical exertion. There is a role for everyone.

Have you been on benefits? I have as a single parent and now I'm a high rate tax payer working in IT.
A large proportion of people who claim benefits are working but are not paid a living wage ie lots of NHS staff. I also give my time up to volunteer for a domestic violence charity where some of the women have nothing.
I don't begrudge anyone who needs help, I do begrudge your attitude though and your attack on those that need help.

Lentilweaver · 06/11/2024 12:58

Onley · 06/11/2024 12:51

Maybe we should bloody listen to the people that felt compelled to vote for Trump instead of sneering at them? What are they afraid of? What do they think Trump can do that Kamala cannot?

It’s very easy to act superior and look down on those with alternative views. It gets us nowhere.

Well, as I said I have a lot of Asian American immigrant family and friends there. I have had many discussions. Most are staunchly Dem though they also think the Dems have flubbed many issues.

Of those that possibly have voted Trump, I think it's because:
They want lower taxes and control of inflation
Border control and fewer illegal immigrants because as a pp said, they came in legally and jumped through hoops.
A strong leader in the world arena, whatever that means.
They are all working class- worked their way up the ladder having entered as students- and therefore don't care about celeb endorsements. Trump seems more down to earth.

They are by no means anti-abortion but that is of secondary importance given the options.

However, I do not think Trump will be able to do these things any more than Harris will. I just think he gives the appearance of doing so.

70sShmeventies · 06/11/2024 12:58

I’m so disappointed but not at all surprised. I thought the people saying Kamala would win were so out of touch. Everything has changed and most Western countries are divided with a stark difference in views. The extreme is now mainstream in many places and honestly it feels like anything can happen these days.

Another2Cats · 06/11/2024 13:00

budgetday · 06/11/2024 11:21

@Another2Cats Really? I had to go and ask ChatGPT whether abortions were available up until birth in America and this was the response I got:

No, abortions up until birth are not broadly available or legal across the United States. Abortion laws vary significantly by state, and most states have restrictions on when an abortion can be performed, with many states restricting access after fetal viability (typically around 24 weeks, though this can vary). Here’s a general breakdown of how U.S. abortion laws handle late-term abortion:
1. Fetal Viability Limits: Most states restrict abortions after the point at which a fetus is considered viable, which generally occurs around 24 weeks of pregnancy. In many states, abortions after this point are only allowed if the mother’s life or health is at serious risk or if there are severe fetal abnormalities.
2. Exceptions for Health and Life: In states where abortions are restricted after viability, exceptions are typically made if the pregnant person’s life or health is at risk. Health exceptions often consider both physical and mental health but can vary in definition by state.
3. Bans on Specific Gestational Ages: Some states have more restrictive gestational limits, like 20-week bans. In recent years, some states have moved to restrict abortions even earlier, at around 6-12 weeks.
4. “Late-Term” Abortions: The term “late-term abortion” is not a medical term but is sometimes used politically. Medically, abortions performed later in pregnancy are rare and often occur due to severe fetal anomalies or serious risks to the mother’s health. These abortions are typically only available in cases of severe medical need.
5. Federal Law and State Differences: Since the U.S. Supreme Court’s 2022 decision in Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization, which overturned Roe v. Wade, states have more power to set their own abortion laws. As a result, there is a patchwork of laws across the country. Some states have significantly restricted or banned abortion altogether, while others, like California, New York, and Illinois, have more permissive laws.

In summary, while some states have less restrictive laws on later-term abortions, these are generally only available in medically necessary situations, not as elective procedures up until birth.

"Really? I had to go and ask ChatGPT..."

Yes, really. I'm not too sure about ChatGPT but what it said isn't actually wrong in any way, but doesn't go into detail:

"Abortion laws vary significantly by state, and most states have restrictions on when an abortion can be performed, with many states restricting access after fetal viability"

This is entirely correct, most states do have restrictions. But the thing is, that doesn't apply to all states.

The seven states I mentioned have laws that specifically say that a woman has a fundamental right to have an abortion at any time without limits.

They also say that a public authority cannot interfere in any way with a woman's right to have an abortion at any time.
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"In summary, while some states have less restrictive laws on later-term abortions, these are generally only available in medically necessary situations, not as elective procedures up until birth."

Again, this is true as far as it goes, but there is a big difference between

"these are generally only available in..."

and

"these are only available in..."

Those seven states are the reason why the article uses the words "most" and "generally". But "most" doesn't mean all.

Applesandcream · 06/11/2024 13:01

Lentilweaver · 06/11/2024 07:39

The UK better learn from this or Farage will be in office in 4 years. He's already gloating at Mar-A-Lago. The Dems ran a terrible campaign,:IMO.

Right wing fascists winning everywhere from the US and Russia to India and Europe. So depressing.

"Fascists" this demonisation is a big reason why people vote right wing.

You can't persuade people by insulting them.

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 13:03

ChallahPlaiter · 06/11/2024 12:50

If you could expand a bit on what you think I mean and why you think I mean it, I might be able to give you an appropriate response.

Your phrasing in that post is why I ask

Do you think men should be in women's sports?

Gloriia · 06/11/2024 13:04

Applesandcream · 06/11/2024 13:01

"Fascists" this demonisation is a big reason why people vote right wing.

You can't persuade people by insulting them.

This.

I've no idea why people don't realise that insulting and belittling people isn't helfpul.

Lentilweaver · 06/11/2024 13:04

Applesandcream · 06/11/2024 13:01

"Fascists" this demonisation is a big reason why people vote right wing.

You can't persuade people by insulting them.

I don't think everyone that has voted for Trump or Modi is a fascist or racist or stupid. But I do think Trump, Modi, Putin et al are certainly fascists. See the difference?

RedToothBrush · 06/11/2024 13:04

70sShmeventies · 06/11/2024 12:58

I’m so disappointed but not at all surprised. I thought the people saying Kamala would win were so out of touch. Everything has changed and most Western countries are divided with a stark difference in views. The extreme is now mainstream in many places and honestly it feels like anything can happen these days.

Listening to the BBC coverage last night I felt this every time a democrat supporter was on.

I felt that the Trump supporters were on a different planet, but that's America.

There was naive and clueless versus out of touch and slightly self righteous.

Neither are particularly appealing. But I did feel that the Trump supporters were more self aware though even if I fundamentally think they are fruitloops.

ChallahPlaiter · 06/11/2024 13:04

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 13:03

Your phrasing in that post is why I ask

Do you think men should be in women's sports?

I’m really unclear why you’re asking me that. Do you want to say something about your reasoning?

LadyGabriella · 06/11/2024 13:06

DoraGray · 06/11/2024 10:16

I'm confused that so many posters are calling America a racist misogynist country and that that is a factor in why Harris didn't win.

How can this be so? America has had a black female vice president and of the two people on the ticket to become the next president,, one of them was a black woman.

If the country hates women and blacks, how was this allowed to happen?

Harris lost because she is incompetent and not up to the job, not because she’s black and female. It was obvious for the American public to see. Between her hysterical laughing and odd speech and bad campaigning, aswell as the fact that she achieved absolutely nothing whilst in office the past 4 years.

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 13:06

ChallahPlaiter · 06/11/2024 13:04

I’m really unclear why you’re asking me that. Do you want to say something about your reasoning?

so called gender critical self-styled “feminists”

You didn't post it too long ago but here you are again, your language here with 'so called' and 'self styled feminists' is why I ask

Any chance of an answer?

Cnon · 06/11/2024 13:07

NC4thread · 06/11/2024 10:56

So who has won? Or has it not been decided yet? Sorry, I’ve always struggled with following/understanding politics 🙈

Trump has with 277 electoral college votes, of which there are 538.

user1486984759 · 06/11/2024 13:07

sharpclawedkitten · 06/11/2024 12:24

I can imagine the Ukrainians are happy too. Their government was ready to sign a peace deal with Russia in April 2022. Boris Johnson flew to Ukraine to personally torpedo that peace deal. With Trump in power, perhaps the Ukrainians will have some more autonomy in negotiations with Russia

On what planet were they going to sign a peace deal in April 2022?

In the world where the following people confirmed what I said:

Davyd Arakhamia (Member of Ukrainian Parliament): https://x.com/MyLordBebo/status/1728167915524960294

Naftali Bennett (former Israel PM):

Victoria Nuland (US Under Secretary of State for Political Affairs): https://x.com/Megatron_ron/status/1833101656168280505

rainingsnoring · 06/11/2024 13:08

Christwosheds · 06/11/2024 09:17

I agree with this.
Also Biden was so clearly unfit to run, yet they let him get partway through. A elderly man, with clear signs of both Parkinson’s and cognitive decline, it was bizarre that he was in office at all. The democrats seem to suffer from the same failing that Labour have here, that they are so convinced of their righteousness that they think everything they do is automatically the right thing, and ridicule people who don’t agree.

I agree. The democrats lied and lied about Biden's abilities. The left do indeed have a very bad habit of talking down to those on the right who disagree with them. It only persuades people to move further right, rather than left. If wonder if/ when they will wake up to this and change their approach.

ChallahPlaiter · 06/11/2024 13:09

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 13:06

so called gender critical self-styled “feminists”

You didn't post it too long ago but here you are again, your language here with 'so called' and 'self styled feminists' is why I ask

Any chance of an answer?

Ok, you really are going to have to be more clear here. Are you asking about my initial wording or about an issue completely unrelated to my point? If I could fathom what it is you’re actually trying to articulate, I might be able to respond.

TheKeatingFive · 06/11/2024 13:10

rainingsnoring · 06/11/2024 13:08

I agree. The democrats lied and lied about Biden's abilities. The left do indeed have a very bad habit of talking down to those on the right who disagree with them. It only persuades people to move further right, rather than left. If wonder if/ when they will wake up to this and change their approach.

Now would be a great time for them to gain this self awareness

Marmunia10667 · 06/11/2024 13:10

It's a vote against the woke lefties!

Crikeyalmighty · 06/11/2024 13:11

@Alexandra2001 I hope she doesn't stand again - she's a poor speaker and simply didn't get policy across- don't care if she's white, black or purple-I'm sorry the only way the US in my opinion will vote for a woman is a Republican one with 'crossover views' and not particularly 'right on' that appeal to those in the middle that may vote either way.

To me it's like the Johnson/ Corbyn choice - I wouldn't pick either - I would have voted for Harris- but only because Trump is so far off the scale in terms of being suitable

alottobedone · 06/11/2024 13:11

Applesandcream · 06/11/2024 13:01

"Fascists" this demonisation is a big reason why people vote right wing.

You can't persuade people by insulting them.

The fascists you mention are the ones who are trying to stop wars, though. That is why they are getting support because most people want to end the death and destruction. No one is saying "I am voting for them because they are a fascist".

The rise of the extreme right is a completely different subject. It is to do with lack of education and trauma in people who are being groomed to become extreme right.

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 13:11

Mekumeku · 06/11/2024 11:44

Young women will be less likely to be raped and murdered under a Trump administration, given that criminals (most who already have long rap sheets before they commit greater crimes) will be more likely to be locked up and kept in prison.

With regards to abortion... It blows my mind that you lot are so obsessed with killing babies. You need help. An American woman can go to a blue state and kill her baby there, there is no need to act like she has no access to abortion at all. Perhaps don't have unprotected sex if you don't want to get pregnant, or consider getting a temporary IUD if you are at the time of the month where the emergency contraceptive pill will likely be ineffective. Left-wing women have no concept of personal responsibility.

I don't know where to start with this shit. Do you believe in any exceptions for rape/incest or are those the woman's fault too?

Do you support generous benefits and support for pregnant women/mothers, e.g. maternity leave, maternity pay, flexible working, child benefit? Or are you a typical Republican voter who is anti-abortion but couldn't give a fuck about a child once it's born? As George Carlin said, in America 'they love the pre-born. If you're pre-born you're fine, if you're pre-school you're fucked'.

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