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Need a hand hold part 2

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Imbluedalale · 02/11/2024 21:41

Hi it’s Laura ,
Just wanted to add a new thread as I think my other thread is getting full xx

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Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 18:36

spoonfulofmustard · 10/11/2024 18:30

you're going to have you're own garden as well 😍 the place looks amazing! xx

Hi @spoonfulofmustard , I know a real garden , I didnt have a garden at my old home I can’t wait to sit in it in the summertime. I feel truly blessed 🥲 xx

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TealPoet · 10/11/2024 18:41

Wow, it’s lovely! How exciting! That garden is a lovely blank canvas to use however you want. Nearly there now! Did you get lunch and go to Tesco?

AdmittowearingCrocs · 10/11/2024 18:41

Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 18:11

Hi @AdmittowearingCrocs ,how’s your day been?good I hope.
Oh wow I can’t wait to see the finished pictures of your new bedroom. I bet your so excited , I’m excited for you I bet it will look absolutely beautiful and I love the colour scheme you have gone for xx

Laura your house looks amazing, colours sound fabulous and I am so very happy for you. It even has level access so you will find it easier to enter and exit the doors. Garden is a great size, especially for a new build. How lovely will it be to sit out there in the summer.
I will try and put a photo up of my room once the decorator has finished but I am going to wait until the January sales to buy my carpet and bed.xx

Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 18:53

TealPoet · 10/11/2024 18:41

Wow, it’s lovely! How exciting! That garden is a lovely blank canvas to use however you want. Nearly there now! Did you get lunch and go to Tesco?

Thank you @TealPoet , I love the garden I’m not sure if you can see but at the bottom it’s got a low wall with all pebbles in to put plants in .
I know so close now . A week tomorrow!
Yes I had a lovely lunch thank you although couldn’t eat it all , also went to Tesco and got some bits like noodles , bread cakes and breadsticks and dips . I didn’t get any colouring books though as it was closing in 10 mins so mad dash to get what I needed . Well I say mad dash but it’s was a mad dash for me with a crutch lol 😂 I was taking longer steps 🤣xx

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spoonfulofmustard · 10/11/2024 18:53

Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 18:36

Hi @spoonfulofmustard , I know a real garden , I didnt have a garden at my old home I can’t wait to sit in it in the summertime. I feel truly blessed 🥲 xx

you are just going to have the most amazing time, and has been said, that you are the first person in there will feel so much more special. just listening to Come Back Home from the Greatest Showman right now and it's making me smile of thinking of you in just in over a week!! xx

Munchyseeds2 · 10/11/2024 19:00

Laura that looks and sounds fantastic!!
Is a semi? And looks like it's got solar panels?

It will be yours for as long as you want it And you will make it lovely and homely in no time

Your ex is going to be 😡!! 😂 Xxx

Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 19:04

AdmittowearingCrocs · 10/11/2024 18:41

Laura your house looks amazing, colours sound fabulous and I am so very happy for you. It even has level access so you will find it easier to enter and exit the doors. Garden is a great size, especially for a new build. How lovely will it be to sit out there in the summer.
I will try and put a photo up of my room once the decorator has finished but I am going to wait until the January sales to buy my carpet and bed.xx

Thank you so much @AdmittowearingCrocs , I was so excited to show you all.
I really love the kitchen and can’t wait to see the rest of it . Thank you so much for being happy for me that is so nice and brought tears to my eyes. Who would have thought a month ago I’d be talking like this?I can’t believe the difference between now and then . And you’ve all been there through it all.
I’ll honestly never forget any of you! You’re all very special to me you really are.
I know the level access is great isn’t it , I’m having some adaptations made too such as bath support and things like that.
I love the garden and it’s a lovely size . Right across the road there is a 3 mile woodlands walking trail , hopefully if my leg gets better I can go on it .
I don’t blame you with waiting for sales , I’ve got to book somebody to come and measure the rooms to get flooring fitted xx

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Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 19:07

spoonfulofmustard · 10/11/2024 18:53

you are just going to have the most amazing time, and has been said, that you are the first person in there will feel so much more special. just listening to Come Back Home from the Greatest Showman right now and it's making me smile of thinking of you in just in over a week!! xx

Awww that’s so lovely thank you @spoonfulofmustard , I’m just going to put that on now on Spotify. I feel so emotional today lol 😂 xx

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Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 19:14

Munchyseeds2 · 10/11/2024 19:00

Laura that looks and sounds fantastic!!
Is a semi? And looks like it's got solar panels?

It will be yours for as long as you want it And you will make it lovely and homely in no time

Your ex is going to be 😡!! 😂 Xxx

Yes it’s a semi . I thought it was detached as per description when I applied but I don’t mind , it’s a home and it’s going to be mine. And yes it has solar panels. Thank you @Munchyseeds2 .
Oh my ex is going to be spitting feathers!xx

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Munchyseeds2 · 10/11/2024 19:26

Oh I never actually saw the description!
It's great that it's got some flooring and that you can use the loft for storage....and the downstairs loo will make life easier
So so pleased for you xxx

Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 19:41

Munchyseeds2 · 10/11/2024 19:26

Oh I never actually saw the description!
It's great that it's got some flooring and that you can use the loft for storage....and the downstairs loo will make life easier
So so pleased for you xxx

That’s ok @Munchyseeds2 , the flooring in the kitchen is lovely, I haven't seen the bathroom or toilet yet. I know having a loft will be handy but can’t use it for 12 months but I have a shed.
Having a downstairs loo will be a godsend!
Thank you for being pleased for me , it’s such a lovely feeling people being happy for me, I’ve never had that before . It’s a good feeling xx

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TealPoet · 10/11/2024 21:00

How could we not be delighted for you when you’re finally getting what you need and especially when you’re so caring about all of us despite your major, MAJOR challenges?!? I’m so so sad that you’ve never had people be happy for you before. That changes now!

CookiePookie · 10/11/2024 21:20

I have to run but had to quickly say - this is utterly gorgeous! What a perfect home, I can just see a festive wreath in that front door! Beyond delighted for you, you deserve it all!!

Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 21:21

TealPoet · 10/11/2024 21:00

How could we not be delighted for you when you’re finally getting what you need and especially when you’re so caring about all of us despite your major, MAJOR challenges?!? I’m so so sad that you’ve never had people be happy for you before. That changes now!

Awww that’s so lovely @TealPoet thank you so much. This year has been absolutely traumatic but look what’s come out of it . A new home , a fresh start and meeting all of you . So I’m thankful for that xx

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Imbluedalale · 10/11/2024 23:02

CookiePookie · 10/11/2024 21:20

I have to run but had to quickly say - this is utterly gorgeous! What a perfect home, I can just see a festive wreath in that front door! Beyond delighted for you, you deserve it all!!

Hi @CookiePookie , I hope you’ve had a nice weekend? Thank you so much I still can’t believe I get to live in it . Oh a festive wreath would look lovely on the front door. I can’t wait to get in now and start making it into a home xx

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RaspberryBeretxx · 11/11/2024 07:06

Oh wow, it looks amazing Laura! I love the sound of the kitchen and the garden looks great, a really good size! I’m so happy for you. I bet your son will love having a garden.

oh and a downstairs loo, that’ll be so handy! And a shed!

im so pleased for you 🥰. Only a week to go!

nornironlady · 11/11/2024 07:22

Good Monday morning to the Spoonies 😉One week to go @Imbluedalale that is so exciting I bet. With only 7 days, if there is anything you need help with just ask. As long as it involves helping from behind a screen I'm yours! I'm finding it a wee bit hard to get going this morning but it's a WFH day so I can get myself together for leaving the house tomorrow. I will get my hair washed later and make myself a bit more presentable for the world beyond my front door 😄

nzeire · 11/11/2024 08:33

Your house is GORGEOUS!!!! I’m so bloody happy for you! You are going to make it so beautiful and it will be such a happy home.

you deserve this, remember that

Munchyseeds2 · 11/11/2024 13:27

@Imbluedalale
Hope this week flies by for you, nice as the hotel room is!!
Are your support team going to help you get settled and get started with the bits you need?....I hope your applying for everything that may help ... don't you dare feel you shouldnt!
We are cheering you on lovely xxx

TealPoet · 11/11/2024 14:26

I hope you’re ok today, yesterday was such a big one!

Imbluedalale · 11/11/2024 15:58

RaspberryBeretxx · 11/11/2024 07:06

Oh wow, it looks amazing Laura! I love the sound of the kitchen and the garden looks great, a really good size! I’m so happy for you. I bet your son will love having a garden.

oh and a downstairs loo, that’ll be so handy! And a shed!

im so pleased for you 🥰. Only a week to go!

Hi @RaspberryBeretxx , sorry I didn’t respond sooner my internet is playing up today so I’m stood outside where there seems to be the only signal 😂
Thank you so much it’s lovely isn’t it . I literally cannot wait now. I’ve shown my children the pictures and they said they love it. I love that it has a downstairs loo and a shed 😂
This time next week hopefully I’ll be in it . I hope you’re having a good day?xx

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Imbluedalale · 11/11/2024 16:02

nornironlady · 11/11/2024 07:22

Good Monday morning to the Spoonies 😉One week to go @Imbluedalale that is so exciting I bet. With only 7 days, if there is anything you need help with just ask. As long as it involves helping from behind a screen I'm yours! I'm finding it a wee bit hard to get going this morning but it's a WFH day so I can get myself together for leaving the house tomorrow. I will get my hair washed later and make myself a bit more presentable for the world beyond my front door 😄

Hi @nornironlady , how’s your WFH day going so far? Good I hope . One week to go Eeekkkk. Oh I cannot wait. Thank you so much for your offer of help that’s so kind, I have to see my support worker to see what I’m able to apply for , I was meant to see her today but her little one isn’t well and she had to go pick her up from school. Hope you enjoy washing your hair, I hate doing mine it’s too thick even after loads has fell out . I’ve got all tufty bits at the front and sides and haven’t any hairspray so I’ve been using my face spray to seal them all down 😂I look like I’ve had a mini electric shock on my hair xx

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Imbluedalale · 11/11/2024 16:04

nzeire · 11/11/2024 08:33

Your house is GORGEOUS!!!! I’m so bloody happy for you! You are going to make it so beautiful and it will be such a happy home.

you deserve this, remember that

Hi @nzeire , how are you?It’s lovely to hear from you . I hope you had a good weekend?
Thank you so much I really do love it . I cannot wait now , I can’t wait to make it homely and be able to relax and do housework and make proper meals xx

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Imbluedalale · 11/11/2024 16:08

Munchyseeds2 · 11/11/2024 13:27

@Imbluedalale
Hope this week flies by for you, nice as the hotel room is!!
Are your support team going to help you get settled and get started with the bits you need?....I hope your applying for everything that may help ... don't you dare feel you shouldnt!
We are cheering you on lovely xxx

Hi @Munchyseeds2 , How’s your Monday going so far?
I really hope it does too, I’m not going to be staying in a hotel room for a while that’s for sure 😂, however I am very thankful I’m here but having a home means I can have my children with me again that’s the main thing . My support worker is going to help me apply for furniture I think it’s called white goods so kitchen stuff like fridge , cooker and washing machine. I’m not sure yet but she did mention about grants so hopefully I may be able to get some more furniture with that if not I can manage without for time being and get it as and when I can .
Thank you so much for cheering me on , I’m so glad you’re all here with me xx

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Imbluedalale · 11/11/2024 16:12

TealPoet · 11/11/2024 14:26

I hope you’re ok today, yesterday was such a big one!

Hi @TealPoet , How are you today?Im ok thank you just having internet problems 😂. I actually managed to get a few hours sleep last night only a few but better than nothing. Sorry if I’ve sent you a lot of wattsapp messages I was trying to see if they would send 😂xx

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