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It's only 3pm and the doors already knocking

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Sillysausage76 · 31/10/2024 15:07

It's 3pm and already we've had people trick n treating. I've now brought pumpkins inside until 5ish. Anyone else?

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AlmostCutMyHairToday · 31/10/2024 19:20

We've been having a great time! Though there was an elderly man stalking around the streets shouting "Be gone you pagans and devil worshippers! Shame on you celebrating Satan's way. Praise be to Jesus!"
Scariest thing we've seen all evening lol

BarbaraHoward · 31/10/2024 19:20

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Care to elaborate? Because if you're a genuine poster I don't think you would speak about other cultures in that way.

Marcipex · 31/10/2024 19:20

5.30 start here, and we’ve had about 50 or 55 and run out of sweets, bubble wands and satsumas with faces drawn on them.

RayeCyst · 31/10/2024 19:21

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BarbaraHoward · 31/10/2024 19:22

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Sorry, genuinely can't parse that sentence.

Trick or treating has been around for centuries under one name or another.

NoisyDenimShaker · 31/10/2024 19:23

AddictedToBooks · 31/10/2024 17:40

I'm disabled and one of my main symptoms is severe chronic pain, so I've made treat bags (stickers, a ruler, a pencil, an ink stamp, an eraser and a large rainbow lolly in each bag) and at about 3pm, I hung them outside on my fence and on the curls of our wrought iron gate - this way, the kids get their fun but I don't have to keep getting up and aggravating my illness and the pain.
Had a couple of children before 4pm - but most will come around now until 8ish.

That's so sweet of you! How thoughtful. 💖

WickedGoodDoge · 31/10/2024 19:23

Modranihtandtomtens · 31/10/2024 19:09

😂😂😂 noone has commented on my Skeleton costume yet!

I keep freaking them out by knocking on the door before I open it. Have had a few shrieks!

That’s an absolutely brilliant idea! I am going to shamelessly steal it!

RayeCyst · 31/10/2024 19:23

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SilverChampagne · 31/10/2024 19:26

Fat kids 😳

Neurodiversitydoctor · 31/10/2024 19:27

StMarieforme · 31/10/2024 15:53

If there's a pumpkin outside it's a go where we live! 🎃

This surely

ByMerryKoala · 31/10/2024 19:27

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Awww, look at you being all edgy and try hard being a dick about kids. Who have you come dressed as this year, Katie Hopkins?

AliasGrape · 31/10/2024 19:29

TheSnugHare · 31/10/2024 19:03

I only went trick or treating a few times when I was a child. But now that I think about it, why is trick or treating even a thing? Who thought of it and what’s the point? I’ve always thought you can just go and get whatever sweets you want at the shop. Too much sugar is bad for kids. I’m not some kind of grinch, but it’s sad that Halloween traditions have been lost and it’s all been turned into a meaningless thing for children.

Feels pretty traditional to me, as others have said ‘guising’ goes back to the 16th century. There was also ‘souling’ in medieval England, when poor people would go door to door on November 1, receiving food and soul cakes in return for prayers for the dead.

But more recently, I’m 45 and went trick or treating as a child and don’t get the impression it was a new thing even then? I had a carved swede rather than a pumpkin though.

Anyway; we’ve had a fabulous time with my 4 year old - only going to decorated houses of which there are absolutely loads round here and everyone seemed happy and having fun with this tradition, however/ wherever it came from.

AliasGrape · 31/10/2024 19:30

NoisyDenimShaker · 31/10/2024 19:23

That's so sweet of you! How thoughtful. 💖

That’s so lovely!

Neurodiversitydoctor · 31/10/2024 19:30

WhereAreWeNow · 31/10/2024 18:51

I'm another one who hates Halloween. It's such a weird imported custom - kids dressing up as ghouls and monsters and knock on strangers' doors at night asking for sweets. I don't get it.
I don't have any decorations up but have had a few bangs on the door. I find it quite threatening. Might put ear plugs in!

It's not imported it's celtic.

BarbaraHoward · 31/10/2024 19:30

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I wouldn't try that in my corner of the UK if I were you...

TroysMammy · 31/10/2024 19:31

As soon as I put the outside light on I had 3 young teens ring the doorbell. They weren't dressed up and I asked where were their costumes. One said "we can do a trick". I told them no and to come back when they had put their Halloween costumes on. I did point behind them and say "what's that?" as they all turned to look at my cctv. Can't be too careful.

Hazeby · 31/10/2024 19:33

I had a carved swede rather than a pumpkin though

Bloody Nora, that must have been hard going. Did you need a hammer and chisel?!

NippyCrab · 31/10/2024 19:34

Funkyslippers · 31/10/2024 19:05

There is no harm in knocking on strangers' doors if the house is decorated. What do you think is going to happen? And please don't say anything about how kids should be wary of strangers

Yes if the house is decorated absolutely. I wasn't going to say anything of the sort but you never truly know who lives next door... 😂

purplebeansprouts · 31/10/2024 19:34

Marcipex · 31/10/2024 19:20

5.30 start here, and we’ve had about 50 or 55 and run out of sweets, bubble wands and satsumas with faces drawn on them.

Oh!!!! There's an idea. Next year I'm doing satsumas with faces on. No one will nick them

purplebeansprouts · 31/10/2024 19:34

purplebeansprouts · 31/10/2024 19:34

Oh!!!! There's an idea. Next year I'm doing satsumas with faces on. No one will nick them

I'd need lots though

NoisyDenimShaker · 31/10/2024 19:34

purplebeansprouts · 31/10/2024 18:16

Is that it??

@purplebeansprouts I'm up to 37 so far!

doodleschnoodle · 31/10/2024 19:34

We had lots of kids, all pretty polite and most of them had a joke or some other 'turn' (in Scotland where this is expected!). DDs got a good haul visiting decorated houses and telling their jokes.

We've run out of sweets now so took decorations in and turned lights off and no further knocks.

IVFmumoftwo · 31/10/2024 19:36

I see a lot about Ireland but I would presume the entirety of what is Britain as well would have celebrated this in the Celtic age. It isn't a new thing.

Neurodiversitydoctor · 31/10/2024 19:39

Cattery · 31/10/2024 17:28

That’s what I meant in my post. Piss off to where you live. When did this shit become a thing?? I didn’t knock on strangers doors begging when I was a kid

I did 40 years ago my DM did it 65 years ago ( London and Cardiff respectively if it matters) then as now a lit pumkin or other decoration = fair game. No pumpkin = don't knock. It isn't difficult or complicated and as far as I am aware the rules have been the same for 50 years.

NoisyDenimShaker · 31/10/2024 19:39

wonkylegs · 31/10/2024 18:18

We have a display of lit carved pumpkins out but apparently our house is too spooky
We have a big classic victorian House down longish driveway lined with trees, it is lit but only subtly , I just glimpsed a group of about 15, 10-12yo in costume get half way down the drive and then run back to the pavement shrieking 🤣🤣

Haha, that's funny!