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A duvet that never has a cover on

233 replies

Ohjustbuggeroff · 06/10/2024 16:46

Is this weird?

Buying a duvet from Primark etc and not buying a duvet cover, just using this duvet as it is?

Anyone do this?

OP posts:
soupfiend · 06/10/2024 19:55

ttcat37 · 06/10/2024 19:41

Why don’t you want to use a duvet cover?
I think that beds that aren’t made to basic standards- sheet on the mattress, duvet cover, pillowcase- tend to give off a bit of a crack den vibe

This is unfortunately true.

Worse when its a childs bed, smacks of neglect, even if neglect is not part of the child's experience, but Ive seen too many children living without proper bedding (and food and shelter is usually part of it too) but thats what my mind shoots straight to

MumblesParty · 06/10/2024 19:55

OP do you (or whoever you’re talking about) throw away a perfectly good duvet every few weeks? Does that not seem wasteful to you?

Mum2jenny · 06/10/2024 19:58

If you are not using a duvet cover and washing it on a weekly basis, I’d bin the duvet after 2 weeks.
You are being utterly disgusting and the duvet even worse.
I’m not a clean freak but your approach is most definitely not normal!

soupfiend · 06/10/2024 20:02

halava · 06/10/2024 19:48

Do you think hotels and Air bnb replace their duvets every month or so? I doubt it. Most people use duvet covers and just use the duvet itself for as long as they want.

The poster is referring to the fact that the OP or whoever it is, doesnt have a cover, thats the point. Hotels have a cover over their duvets so of course they dont replace them like that.

No cover, not washed weekly, but thrown away when its too dirty? Terribly wasteful or if its not thrown away then filthy dirty?

Imbusytodaysorry · 06/10/2024 20:09

Ohjustbuggeroff · 06/10/2024 19:27

It isn’t washed, just replaced fairly regularly with a new one

Madness

ttcat37 · 06/10/2024 20:10

Chowtime · 06/10/2024 19:42

The OP is short. I'm short. That means we have shorter arms than average people. It's incredibly difficult for us to do certain things other people take for granted, such as changing a duvet cover.

I can’t see where they’ve said that they’re short and that stops them from changing the duvet cover.

biglipslittlehips · 06/10/2024 20:10

Soooo off topic but this thread piqued my interest in coverless duvets which led me to this little beauty. It's not coverless. It's a down duvet.

😶

A duvet that never has a cover on
ilovesooty · 06/10/2024 20:11

Chowtime · 06/10/2024 19:42

The OP is short. I'm short. That means we have shorter arms than average people. It's incredibly difficult for us to do certain things other people take for granted, such as changing a duvet cover.

Especially if, like me, you have a back with crumbling vertebrae as well.

Hankunamatata · 06/10/2024 20:12

We have coverless duvets for kids, I bung them in washing machine every month. Perfect for kids as they wear full PJs and they hate covers and use to take them off

farfromideal · 06/10/2024 20:13

@halava , have you got issues with reading comprehension? I'm asking if she replaces the duvet if not using covers. I've never seen a hotel where the duvet is presented without a cover

Keroppi · 06/10/2024 20:15

What? Duvet cover inside out, grab and shake. Shake it over bannister for even less exertion
I'm 5 foot 0. Never had any issues with my short arms Hmm
A normal duvet with no cover on is gross and seems like a sensory nightmare. Buy a coverless and raise your bedding standards lol

RoaryLion1 · 06/10/2024 20:16

OP are you the poster who was on here a while ago saying their house was a complete state, no bedding, hardly any furniture, only your DC’s room was ‘normal’? Because no, having a duvet with no cover and replacing it (however regularly) is not normal, and as PP have said is very wasteful. Most people would have a sheet on bed and covers on pillows and duvet, and wash the covers.

FeralNun · 06/10/2024 20:17

Ohjustbuggeroff · 06/10/2024 19:27

It isn’t washed, just replaced fairly regularly with a new one

This isn’t ideal, OP. For several reasons.
I’m wondering whether you didn’t have a particularly straightforward childhood? Ignore me if I’m totally off here.
You’re not being grim or any of the other names some people have used, but it would be cleaner and less wasteful to get a cover and wash it every week/every other week. It would be cheaper as well.

Tillygan60 · 06/10/2024 20:20

If this is true, it's grim. The amount of sweat and skin your body sheds each night will just build up on the actual duvet, yuck.
Duvet covers are cheap and easy to find in charity shops.

halava · 06/10/2024 20:22

farfromideal · 06/10/2024 20:13

@halava , have you got issues with reading comprehension? I'm asking if she replaces the duvet if not using covers. I've never seen a hotel where the duvet is presented without a cover

OK, OK, cool the jets and ease the tone!

Message received.

snoopsy · 06/10/2024 20:26

Ohjustbuggeroff · 06/10/2024 16:46

Is this weird?

Buying a duvet from Primark etc and not buying a duvet cover, just using this duvet as it is?

Anyone do this?

my husband never puts a duvet cover on the duvet when he makes up the guest bed. he changes all the other duvet covers in the house (there are 5 of us). I discovered that its because he said the "guest" duvet looks like a blanket. It has a sort of embroidered pattern on it so he assumed it wouldn't have a cover as its pretty.

BirthdayRainbow · 06/10/2024 20:28

Ohjustbuggeroff · 06/10/2024 19:27

It isn’t washed, just replaced fairly regularly with a new one

What a waste. Ridiculous

BreadMachine · 06/10/2024 20:31

It's wasteful and unhygienic. Why exactly can't you have a normal quilt with a cover on it?

seven201 · 06/10/2024 20:33

Gross. I lived in a shared uni house with a bloke who slept inside his duvet cover. The actual duvet was brown and stank. He was quite the ladies man. I wish I'd asked him if they both slept inside the duvet cover.

babasaclover · 06/10/2024 20:36

Unless you replace is weekly then it's pure gross

VictoriaEra2 · 06/10/2024 20:38

soupfiend · 06/10/2024 19:00

By the way, you know the easiest way to put the duvet cover on, cover inside out, put your arms in like you're pretending to be a ghost, grab the top corners of the duvet, shake it shake it shake it like a Polaroid picture, and you're virtually there, a little bit of pulling down and its all done

I learnt this from Anthea Turner on Celebrity Big Brother when they had actual celebrities in it.

I actually saw that advice televised many years before that. It was Nerys Hughes who demonstrated it. I’ve followed it ever since.

Isseywith2witchycats · 06/10/2024 20:39

i remember back in the 1980s when duvets first became popular in UK they had lovely nylon covers on them you just bunged the whole thing in the washing machine i hope todays coverless duvets have better material than they did then

itwasnevermine · 06/10/2024 20:40

So gross and so wasteful.

Buy a duvet cover.

tealandteal · 06/10/2024 20:42

If you or whoever this post is about doesn’t want a duvet cover or a cover less duvet, why don’t they buy two of these Primark duvets or even three? Then you can wash them every week and they can dry over the bannister over the week.

ChocolateTurtle · 06/10/2024 20:42

MayaPinion · 06/10/2024 17:01

Is it a coverless one? There are some excellent ones that can be thrown in the washing machine and dried easily like these (I covet one)

www.finebedding.co.uk/products/night-lark-linen-print-coverless-duvet?variant=39791832760382

If so, carry on. If it's a regular duvet they're not designed to be washed and dried easily and would likely get fairly gross fairly quickly. Read the laundry instructions carefully.

I have a coverless duvet from the above people. I have cancer related chronic fatigue and pain in my hands (also probably caused by one of my cancer drugs - Avastin). The combination make it difficult for me to change a duvet cover. The coverless duvet is easier for me. I don't wash it every week but I wash it more often than I washed the duvet cover I used to have!

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