To think this is disgusting?

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Adult male takes a shower over the bath with the plug in. Gets out and tops the water up to make a bath for the children.

Aibu - yes you're being unreasonable as this saves water.

No - it's disgusting to have your children bathing in their dad's shower water.

Nb: at least four public hairs were spotted floating around in the water.

Vile just bloody vile

But you shower afterwards to wash off chemicals and anything else?

Not at all the same as sitting in pubey bath water (with no rinsing off in shower after).

I’m with you. How disgusting! We have fresh, separate baths and I rinse the bath out in between. I think this man is revolting expecting his children to bath in his dirty water.

I agree.

Also, all these people bathing with their kids, WTF is that about.

It’s a “shower bath” in our house and our son loves the one on one time with his dad after work! Dad showers with little one in the bath, then he pops the plug in once he’s cleaner and it’s his turn. No mummy allowed. They listen to music and dance etc and gross as that may be to
some, it’s lovely to sit and listen to!!!

• from another room, with a very large glass of wine, some cheese cubes and 10 mins to myself!!!! 😂😂😂

There's obviously much much deeper issues going on, and you have taken agin shower man, op...

OMG. NOOO!
That's one way of passing on unwanted germs, not to mention pubes and crusty bits 😨 and to do that to children is down right wrong. They play in the bath, they swallow water. That thought makes me cringe. 🤑

Eh?

....and yet people aspire to garden hot-tubs and invite friends too !

Why don’t the kids go in first?

Except you’re not scrubbing off the dirt in a hot tub, and likely will shower before and after using it, especially if sharing with others!

Yeah but you're not washing your bum crack and genitals and expecting people to wash their face in your pubes after. You aren't usually naked in hot tubs with friends unless it's a specific type of party.

Absolutely disgusting.

It's disgusting.
He should let the kids bath first then use the water himself if money is tight and it's about the cost of heating it.

It’s gross, however, there are two exceptions for me:

1. The family is extremely poor and literally cannot afford to run more than one bath.

2.The boiler broke just after the dads bath was filled.

Exactly- smallest/weakest goes first. TBH though a wash at the sink would be preferable to thrice used bath with pubes.