Going back to my earlier point, one of my main criticisms with a lot of garden variety modern feminism is that it completely lacks the nuance necessary to tackle these issues. The cynical side of me speculates that it's because many aren't actually so concerned with actually helping solving it as they are with moaning about men (which is much easier to do when you lump them all together rather than focus on specific demographics of men).
When you reduce it to 'male violence' you lose the nuance by putting it on all men. The fact that is always lost is that, despite male violence always being committed by men, it's isn't always perpetrated by the same demographic.
A white accountant from Kensington likely wouldn't know where to start in tackling honour killings in insular Muslim communities in Rotherham. It's nothing to do with him despite being male. In this situation it makes more sense to somehow reach the young males (given that it's often brothers/cousins doing the killing) and it's unlikely they'll listen to some white Christian bloke. In many cases the victims are also let down by the authorities - I remember one of the more recent ones had contacted them several times before she was murdered. And I'd bet those authorities weren't solely staffed by men, probably quite the opposite being a service for vulnerable women.
But what paticularly irks me is that it's not just a case of ignoring the nuance, but in many cases being actively reductive by saying things like "honour killings, spousal murder....meh, it's all male violence". This IMO is actively damaging the process of helping these women because it takes the nuance away in cases where it's particularly vital that a strategic approach is taken.
Another case that sticks is my mind is the Land Rover employee who was fatally stabbed in an Asda not too far from me. He was a middle aged family man who had challenged some teenage lads that were pissing on the floor and banging on cubicle doors. So much for speaking up, eh. He'd probably have been less likely to have been stabbed as a female.
No doubt the above case will be lumped in with general 'male violence' that men need to tackle, but what the fuck was going on at home that these young teens were taking knives out the house and even considered stabbing an adult that told them off? Statistically, most knives carried by teens are the standard kitchen type so I think in these cases the parents are more obliged to act than the average bloke on the street like the one they killed (obv allowing for the fact that parents can't always control their teenagers).