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JKR being uncharacteristically quiet

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Jdugsgsgwyd · 17/08/2024 14:42

Anyone else noticed since the news that JKR is being sued by Imane Khelif she's been very quiet, unless I'm mistaken she's hasn't tweeted at all in about a week.

and hasn't responded at all to the legal action being taken against her. This is very unlike her, I'm thinking she's been advised by her lawyers to keep quiet. Anyone else think she might have put her foot in it this time?

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AccidentallyWesAnderson · 19/08/2024 13:57

Tandora · 19/08/2024 13:01

Gender is the process of recognising/ knowing/ giving meaning to one’s sex

What?! None of that makes any sense. At all.

Arraminta · 19/08/2024 13:58

Helleofabore · 19/08/2024 13:32

No male can ever experience life as a woman. They can only ever experience life as a male person who believes they are a woman.

Even when they 'act' like a woman, they are acting as they believe a 'woman' should act. Which is fucking misogynistic!

Even if they are treated 'as a woman' by some people, they are being treated as a 'male who presents as a woman and believes they are a woman'. Because their every reaction is based on that. Not on them being female in any way.

The only way a person can experience life as a woman, is to have a female body, formed around the production of large gametes, even if it doesn't produce those and to navigate their life based on the decisions they and society makes that revolve around them having that body.

A male can conceptualise what it might be like to be a female, but that is all it ever is. They may do it because they don't feel they fit into how they conceptualise how a male person interacts with the world (ie. their own stereotypes around being male) or they do it because they want to be seen as a female (using their own stereotypes of how a female navigates life).

How can the material reality be any different? This is why someone's gender is only based on someone's philosophical belief. And philosophical beliefs are fine for people to hold, but not one person in the UK has to comply with another's philosophical belief.

Exactly. People can believe whatever they want to believe. People believe the Earth is flat, or that there is a God in Heaven etc. That's entirely their prerogative, but they have no right to insist others must agree with their belief.

And in 100 years time, if an archeologist happens to open up the grave of a trans woman, it won't matter if the headstone says 'Here lies Mary Jennifer Smith. RIP'. Because, with just one glance the archaeologist can identify the skeleton as that of a man. Doesn't matter what the trans woman believed, or felt. Or how many dresses and earrings they wore. Their skeleton proclaims them male.

23Shadows · 19/08/2024 14:04

Tandora · 19/08/2024 13:06

gender is how you know what sex you are.

Do you ever listen to yourself?

Helleofabore · 19/08/2024 14:06

RufustheFactualReindeer · 19/08/2024 13:54

Wait…

so lets pretend i agree with this gender stuff for a minute

so i was a woman

then some men started to say they were women so the term transwoman was used

fair enough

then some people decided i couldn’t be a woman anymore I had to be a cis woman

ok

so make sure as a female woman that i wasnt confused with a male woman i had to use the term cis, so female woman= cis woman, male woman= transwomen

ok got it

so now some males ned to be referred to as women and the term cis is being used to describe them

so males = transwomen
males can also = cis woman

so there is no phrase at all i can use to say i am a woman as cis is also ‘taken’ for males

awesome…makes no fucking sense

when i was back in the ‘lets keep female and men can use women’ phase Someone said that soon the word female would be taken too…and so it came to pass…and now some transwomen and men are using cis

You nailed it Rufus.

And yes, there are plenty of male people claiming the label of 'female' too.

I am sure you remember McKinnon once declaring that they are recognised as being female by all those who use those female pronouns. And that they are 'female' and they are made of 'biological' matter so that they are a 'biological female' person as well.

AND McKinnon discussed this with the IOC in 2019 I believe as both a male athlete competing, by then, in female cycling categories, and as an academic extreme trans activist.

Note: I use extreme here because it fits the description of a group of activists that declare that some male people should be included in any or even most spaces that are designated for female people. Based on their philosophical belief that they are exactly like female people and should be treated as such.

Jumpingthruhoops · 19/08/2024 14:17

Tandora · 19/08/2024 10:54

Firstly, unless you have actual direct knowledge of someone's gender identity, describing them as "cis" makes unwarranted assumptions about their gender that are at best presumptuous and stereotyping, and at worst downright offensive. Don't do it.

I have never done this to anyone.

Hilarious that you are accusing me of misgendering people. The hypocrisy knows no bounds…

But you are potentially misgendering people by calling them cis.

You know these things work both ways, right!?

Helleofabore · 19/08/2024 14:28

Jdugsgsgwyd · 18/08/2024 17:11

To be fair, she has gone after trans people online.

one example of the top of my head (and I can't remember names) but there was a football coach who transitioned from male to trans woman. There was a news article basically just saying this person was the new football coach and JKR made a tweet basically denying this person was trans and is a man etc. that I would class as bullying, there was no need for it, she wasn't protecting women or girls, there was no threat, this person just got a job and JKR felt the need to go after them online. That wasn't using her voice for good, idk what to call it other than needless cruelty.

So, you are supporting a male person who has been JK Rowling's abuser and you are telling us that she should show respect to her abuser? You are saying that she has shown 'needless cruelty' against a male person who had a history of abusing her.

And that her needless cruelty, was denying that male person's philosophical belief that they were a 'woman'.

By saying:

"When I was young all the football managers were straight, white, middle-
aged blokes, so it's fantastic to see how much things have changed.
"

https://archive.is/zRJ6m

Do you really have the depth of knowledge about what JK Rowling has said and done to be making judgements against her?

Do you understand the point that she was even making? That this male person had all the experience gained by opportunities open to them as a 'male person', and is now using that experience to claim renown as a male person who is now managing a female team.

Why is this something female people should celebrate? And why should any person support an abusive male person who is now managing a female team?

Can you explain why you support an abusive male person in this way, @Jdugsgsgwyd ?

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:30

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/08/2024 13:34

You can choose to disagree that the earth is spherical if you like.

No wonder you're not willing to debate your position, it's utter nonsense.

As I said, we'll have to differ.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/08/2024 14:32

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:30

As I said, we'll have to differ.

OK, so how can someone contemplating having their penis removed not know they are male?

Can you talk us through the thought process here?

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:32

Jumpingthruhoops · 19/08/2024 13:25

Stand a naked man and a naked transgender woman side by side. What differentiates them?

Not sure why you wouldn't want to 'debate' such a simple question.

I guess it depends on surgery. The transwoman I worked with had the 'Full Monty' including 'downstairs'.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/08/2024 14:33

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:32

I guess it depends on surgery. The transwoman I worked with had the 'Full Monty' including 'downstairs'.

Did they also have their pelvis widened so it could fit a baby's head through it?

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:34

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/08/2024 14:33

Did they also have their pelvis widened so it could fit a baby's head through it?

There are plenty of women who can't manage the head through pelvis bit.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/08/2024 14:35

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:34

There are plenty of women who can't manage the head through pelvis bit.

They still have a female pelvis and not a male one.

Having your penis removed might make you look less male but it doesn't make you look female.

Helleofabore · 19/08/2024 14:36

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:32

I guess it depends on surgery. The transwoman I worked with had the 'Full Monty' including 'downstairs'.

Can you then explain exactly what made that male person any different to another male person who has had their penis and testicles removed due to disease or injury?

What specifically happens to the male body, when they have surgery 'downstairs' that makes them a 'woman'?

Or is your position that they are only ever a male person who has had extreme cosmetic modification to their body and that they are 'transwomen' but not women?

FrippEnos · 19/08/2024 14:37

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:32

I guess it depends on surgery. The transwoman I worked with had the 'Full Monty' including 'downstairs'.

And then we are back to Chromosomes.

Helleofabore · 19/08/2024 14:37

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:34

There are plenty of women who can't manage the head through pelvis bit.

Yes.

I am one of those women. Still a woman, still a female and nothing like a male who has declared that they are a woman or declared that they are a female.

Your point is irrelevant.

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:40

I'm not getting any further into debate over what is, or is not, a trans person.

Another place I visit has over a thousand pages and fifteen thousand posts on exactly that point. Nobody is any further forward and it's just like a hamster wheel.

I'll agree to differ with you and would ask you to extend the same courtesy to me.

AncientAndModern1 · 19/08/2024 14:42

Remember ladies, trans women are women. Males with genetic issues are women. But you cunty XX types are cis women, not women. Know your place!

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/08/2024 14:45

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:40

I'm not getting any further into debate over what is, or is not, a trans person.

Another place I visit has over a thousand pages and fifteen thousand posts on exactly that point. Nobody is any further forward and it's just like a hamster wheel.

I'll agree to differ with you and would ask you to extend the same courtesy to me.

The reason nobody is any further forward is because Team Pronoun will never accept that humans can't change sex, and humans will never be able to change sex.

Helleofabore · 19/08/2024 14:48

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:40

I'm not getting any further into debate over what is, or is not, a trans person.

Another place I visit has over a thousand pages and fifteen thousand posts on exactly that point. Nobody is any further forward and it's just like a hamster wheel.

I'll agree to differ with you and would ask you to extend the same courtesy to me.

It is a 'hamster wheel' because you are here trying to convince others of your philosophical belief (ie. your use of 'cis') by attempting to portray that belief as materially objective.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 19/08/2024 14:51

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:40

I'm not getting any further into debate over what is, or is not, a trans person.

Another place I visit has over a thousand pages and fifteen thousand posts on exactly that point. Nobody is any further forward and it's just like a hamster wheel.

I'll agree to differ with you and would ask you to extend the same courtesy to me.

Everyone knows what a trans person is.

What you appear to be having difficulty with is that transwomen are women. Which they are not. The only requirement to be a transwoman, is to be a man. The only thing. Vice versa for transmen. Your belief is not reality.

That really is the end of that debate.

SonicTheHodgeheg · 19/08/2024 14:52

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/08/2024 14:45

The reason nobody is any further forward is because Team Pronoun will never accept that humans can't change sex, and humans will never be able to change sex.

It’s like belief in God and atheism- nobody can claim that they’re in the right because it’s a binary choice between believing or not and you can’t convince people with the opposite pov that they are wrong.

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:52

SonicTheHodgeheg · 19/08/2024 14:52

It’s like belief in God and atheism- nobody can claim that they’re in the right because it’s a binary choice between believing or not and you can’t convince people with the opposite pov that they are wrong.

That.

Exactly.

Helleofabore · 19/08/2024 14:58

SonicTheHodgeheg · 19/08/2024 14:52

It’s like belief in God and atheism- nobody can claim that they’re in the right because it’s a binary choice between believing or not and you can’t convince people with the opposite pov that they are wrong.

Not really.

That is a description based on faith.

There is plenty of evidence that shows that people cannot change sex and that those who might have been incorrectly registered as female at birth but are proven to be male haven't changed sex either.

Human beings are either male or female and extreme cosmetic modifications don't change this. Neither does philosophical belief.

Unlike a belief in an omnipresent being which is never going to be provable due to the very nature of that being, being intangible and not materially objective.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 19/08/2024 15:08

Bromptotoo · 19/08/2024 14:52

That.

Exactly.

It’s not. Whether or not you believe in a mythical figurehead (faith based) isn’t the same as acknowledging biological sex, which can’t be changed no matter if you believe that to be true or not. It can be debated until you’re blue in the face. This fact remains. You can’t argue with science.

FrippEnos · 19/08/2024 15:08

SonicTheHodgeheg · 19/08/2024 14:52

It’s like belief in God and atheism- nobody can claim that they’re in the right because it’s a binary choice between believing or not and you can’t convince people with the opposite pov that they are wrong.

Except that there is proof that men and women exist.
There is proof that men and women go through puberty and this has a massive effect on the human body.
and there is proof that there is such a thing as a DSD where a person with XY can outwardly present as being female.

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