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Why do people think it’s cool?

599 replies

Emz1212 · 14/08/2024 20:15

To pretend they don’t know who trashy celebs are?

I think the whole MM news has highlighted it. But I notice it all the time on social media media when there is something about say the Kardashians and you get a comment saying “who?”

Now to be clear I don’t follow this type of celebrity and I have never watched a single episode of the Kardashians in my life - but I find it impossible that anybody under 60 doesn’t know who they are.

why do people do this?

OP posts:
SocksAndTheCity · 14/08/2024 20:34

Another one who assumed 'mainstream media' and has never seen Love Island. I've heard of the Kardashians but I don't know what they do and I wouldn't be able to pick one out of a police line up.

Is it really that odd that different people are interested in different things?

NeverEnoughPants · 14/08/2024 20:34

I know who she is - because she was in literally the only season of Love Island I watched. Had she been from any other season, I wouldn't have a clue.

I watched it because there was so much hype from people I was working with, so I thought I would give it a go. I've had no desire to watch it since.

Why do you think people are pretending not to know who she is? She's the kind of celebrity that is mostly known to a younger age group and only some of them... I doubt that even my kids know who she is, and they would be the right age group.

StormingNorman · 14/08/2024 20:35

RubberyChicken · 14/08/2024 20:16

Who or what is MM?

Edited

Meghan Markle.

Mespher · 14/08/2024 20:35

IMustDoMoreExercise · 14/08/2024 20:31

I didn't know who Molly Mae was and I think that I am up to date with celebrity affairs.

I think you didn't watch love Island you wouldn't know who Molly Mae was.

I guessed love island because anyone I haven't heard of in the 'celebrity' world that is in the news is always from Love Island

Vikina · 14/08/2024 20:36

I know who the Kardashians are but I have no idea who Mollie Mae is. So my life is carrying on as normal and I'm not devastated by her break up with Tommy, whoever he is.

LaurieFairyCake · 14/08/2024 20:36

Never heard of Molly mae or her boyfriend

And I don't know the difference between ANY of the kardashians as I've never seen any of them

I think I could pick out Kim because I saw an article where she wore and ruined Marilyn's dress

I'm a perfectly normal person who just doesn't watch any reality tv at all

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 14/08/2024 20:36

RubberyChicken · 14/08/2024 20:16

Who or what is MM?

Edited

Well I knew it as Melody Maker, but if may be something different now in these hurdy-gurdy-arty-farty-milly-molly-mandy-wishy-washy-ging-gang-gooly modern times.

Ihopeithinkiknow · 14/08/2024 20:36

How in the fuck would not knowing who a trashy celeb is make someone appear cool? I genuinely don't understand how you have managed to come to that conclusion lol

KvotheTheBloodless · 14/08/2024 20:36

The people who respond with "Who?" are ridiculous and trying to pretend they are somehow 'above' popular culture. It's snobbery of the most hilarious kind and I enjoy seeing it Grin

In real life, loads of people will have no idea who these people are, but will either not bother to click on the thread or will Google the person/people. That's the normal thing to do.

otnot · 14/08/2024 20:37

I thought MM was Meghan Markle too, not heard of the other one. I don't follow celebrity gossip at all so unless they were famous in the 90s or they're big enough to appear in The Times (where I try to avoid the MM/Meghan Markle articles), I probably don't know who they are. Promise I'm not just trying to look cool!

NeverEnoughPants · 14/08/2024 20:37

StormingNorman · 14/08/2024 20:35

Meghan Markle.

I can't tell if you are joking or not 🤣

ShamblesRock · 14/08/2024 20:37

OP I get what you mean. It is the posters who open a thread such as on MM and just say who? If you are generally posting on MN you probably will at least heard the name even if you are not sure exactly who they are, just from general osmosis.

If you really haven't heard of them, just close the thread and move on.

ItWasntMyFault · 14/08/2024 20:38

Well I recognise the names but I really couldn't identify any of them as I don't watch them on tv, don't watch love island etc. same with Big Brother, Made in Chelsea etc etc - I have no interest in any of them.

LucyLocketLovesPollyPocket · 14/08/2024 20:38

I have no fucking clue. I don't watch reality TV or read celebrity magazines. I just don't give a flying fuck.

Sethera · 14/08/2024 20:38

People don't 'think it's cool' - they genuinely don't always know who celebrities are, trashy or not.

Is your frame of reference so limited that you can't imagine others might have different frames of reference?

Your acquaintances who don't know the Kardashians might have an encyclopaedic knowledge of well-known figures in a field or era that interests them - say, they might know numerous top golfers, past and present. Would you expect them to sneer if you said you didn't know who Scottie Scheffler was?

LilBowWow · 14/08/2024 20:39

It’s not the fact they don’t know who the people are, it’s the “am I supposed to know who that is?” type comments. Just hang around until you put two and two together or read a thread that’s highbrow enough for you.

SweetBirdsong · 14/08/2024 20:39

Yeah it annoys me too

Same kind of numpty who posts..........

'There have been nearly 300 episodes of 'Keeping Up With The Kardshians' in 20 years, and I am proud to say that I am intelligent enough to have never watched a single episode ever.'

Big fucking whoop-dee-doo for you! 🙄

Ditto Love Island.

You're not superior or smarter or more clever than those who watch these shows, so just bore off. nb, I have tried watching the Kardashians and really don't like it, and used to Watch Love Island, but have been bored with it this past few years. Last decent series was the one with Ekin-Su. But I don't judge and deride people who watch these shows and enjoy them. Also, I like Big Brother.

Like you @Emz1212 I find it very hard to believe that anyone who uses the internet (and everyone on Mumsnet does!) has never heard of Molly-Mae.

Please! 🙄

Mespher · 14/08/2024 20:39

MM used to be Madeleine McCann on here

BobbyBiscuits · 14/08/2024 20:40

Because they're indicating that they feel the person is pointless and not worthy of the infamy they clearly crave. Of course people know who they are, it's just they'd rather not!
It's a bit tedious though. I'd rather either say what I think about them or not bother comment. Rather than writing 'who?'
But the idea is she'd probably hate it that Linda from Shropshire has no interest in her life?!

Kangarude · 14/08/2024 20:41

I have watched the last 2 Love Island series but I had never heard of these 2 people until I clicked on a thread on here earlier. I don’t for minute think that makes me ‘cool’ 😂

Everlore · 14/08/2024 20:41

I'm always amused by the people who leave comments such as "Who?" or "Never heard of them." under online articles. These are obviously disingenuous comments since, presumably, anyone commenting on online fora has access to internet search engines and, if genuinely curious about the subject of the piece, could look them up in seconds. Alternatively, they could choose not to click on an article about someone they'd never heard of.
When people go out of their way to leave these sort of comments on articles they are demonstrating their intellectual superiority to being aware of such frivolous celebrity nonsense, which can surely be the only reason for leaving this kind of glib pointless comment which suggests they've actually taken the time to read a whole piece about someone they supposedly have never heard of and care nothing about.

jammiel · 14/08/2024 20:41

I have no idea who Molly-Mae is! My teenager doesn't know either as I've just asked. I have heard of the Kardashians but don't know individual names or what they're famous for. My teenager told me they were reality stars, if I recall correctly.

KvotheTheBloodless · 14/08/2024 20:41

Ihopeithinkiknow · 14/08/2024 20:36

How in the fuck would not knowing who a trashy celeb is make someone appear cool? I genuinely don't understand how you have managed to come to that conclusion lol

See, this is a perfect example of what I mean - use of the word "trashy" to demonstrate that the poster is somehow above such oiks, and simultaneously pretending they don't know which celebrity us being referred to.

If you don't know the celeb, how do you 'know' he/she is trashy?

I love Mumsnet sometimes, especially the class wars 😂

Highonthehillsisalonelygoatherd · 14/08/2024 20:43

I'd honestly never heard of these people until the thread popped up on 'trending'. I genuinely expected a baby name thread for twins 😂
I am quite a bit younger than 60 but have no interest in celebs, so hadn't heard of them.

MzHz · 14/08/2024 20:44

Tulip8 · 14/08/2024 20:21

But I don't watch Love Island so how would I know who she is? I know from reading sky news breaking news alert!

Ditto!

id not be able to pick any of these people out of a lineup!

a LOT of people don’t bother with this vacuous shite @Emz1212

I mean I know intellectuality isn’t required in any way shape or form for this “influencer” z list celebs Cult and I get that so many are so delusional as they get their news from Tik tok etc, but surely you can appreciate that many people do live lives where reality tv isn’t a feature, and their news comes from actual news sites/channels?