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109 replies

Curiousto · 01/08/2024 22:15

Would you date a guy who thinks it's great that a 19yr old he met on a plane 15 years ago gave him a blowjob in the airplane seat?

He was 40 when this happened. They ended up dating for 3 months.

He's 54 now. He thinks it's something to be proud of.

I've got an 18 yr old daughter. I'm feeling rather repulsed.

I've been on several dates with him. Getting on well. Now this has come out and I'm wanting to kick him off the sofa in my home that he's currently sitting on next to me.

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CountFucula · 01/08/2024 22:18

Yuck. Hell no.

MermaidMummy06 · 01/08/2024 22:18

Hell no. It may have been 15 years ago but he's still brags about it. 🤮

But I have high standards & this isn't the kind of person I'd want in my life. It might not bother others.

Jellytotsburnmytongue · 01/08/2024 22:18

Nope

Sublunar · 01/08/2024 22:19

No of course not. Why would you even need to ask?

IceCreamWoes · 01/08/2024 22:19

Nooooooo

pippapipps · 01/08/2024 22:20

End the relationship get rid of him now ..disgusting perv yuck 🤮

ShellSeaSand · 01/08/2024 22:20

Hideous. I am sorry OP.

HurdyGurdy19 · 01/08/2024 22:21

He's made up a lovely story for you, to try and make you think he's had an "interesting past". How on earth could anyone get into position to do that in any case - unless they were flying first class. No one else saw them, and made any kind of fuss about it?

I'd not go further with him for making up that kind of fantasy and expecting you to believe it!

MulberryBushRoundabout · 01/08/2024 22:21

Nope, gross. Additionally so as this has come out as a story he’s proud of to a potential new girlfriend, not a exaggerated tale of sexual prowess down the pub (also gross, but more contextually appropriate).

CryptoFascist · 01/08/2024 22:21

No, I'd be saying something along the lines of "Bob, that's really made me see you in a different light. Let's not see each other again"

How grim that he's still gloating about it 15 years later.
Why exactly would he think a woman that he's dating now would want to hear about his past sexual experiences? You're not one of his guy friends.

Bellatrixpure · 01/08/2024 22:21

it would a no from me.

sick

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 01/08/2024 22:21

Grim. Out he goes.

whatkatydid2014 · 01/08/2024 22:23

How did that even come up as a topic of conversation? I mean I wouldn’t blame someone for getting a bit of a thrill over sex on a plane as I’m sure it’s something lots of people like the idea of but it seems such a weird thing to have shared with you and telling you the age of the woman he was with seems even weirder. I’d definitely also find that more than a little off putting.

VeryQuaintIrene · 01/08/2024 22:24

I mean, just...how, given how tightly everyone is packed in?? Is he really rich and could afford not to be in cattle class?! Anyway, yuk, of course.

FlakyGreyEagle · 01/08/2024 22:25

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WandsOut · 01/08/2024 22:25

Disgusting - get rid of him.

Saltedbutter · 01/08/2024 22:26

Ew. But how?

MonsteraMama · 01/08/2024 22:26

For god's sake every time I think the bar can't get any lower...

No of course I wouldn't date him, I wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire.

Isthatascratchonmygrandmother · 01/08/2024 22:27

Hard pass

HowardTJMoon · 01/08/2024 22:27

Ick

Curiousto · 01/08/2024 22:28

Saltedbutter · 01/08/2024 22:26

Ew. But how?

Blanket. Overnight flight. Dark. They were on the two seats at the back of the plane.

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Bettysnow · 01/08/2024 22:28

Ugh he's vile!

UnbelievableLie · 01/08/2024 22:28

It's a weird bullshit story to make up to try and impress someone - he sounds short a few braincells

Pipecleanerrevival · 01/08/2024 22:28

Ew

CatchHimDerry · 01/08/2024 22:28

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