Quick. Please help.

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Would you date a guy who thinks it's great that a 19yr old he met on a plane 15 years ago gave him a blowjob in the airplane seat?

He was 40 when this happened. They ended up dating for 3 months.

He's 54 now. He thinks it's something to be proud of.

I've got an 18 yr old daughter. I'm feeling rather repulsed.

I've been on several dates with him. Getting on well. Now this has come out and I'm wanting to kick him off the sofa in my home that he's currently sitting on next to me.

He told me because we are getting to that stage of getting to know you better...we were talking about "I can't believe this actually happened" moments. Started off quite innocent, then got fruitier. I told him I was part of the mile high club. He then came out with that.

I definitely wouldn’t judge him for telling you then!

I’ve never done anything like that young women did but I have gone home with men I’d met at a bar and this is no different.

I definitely think it’s worse when you have a child a similar age.
I know my DD doesn’t get up to what I was doing at her age and I would hate to think that she did.
I’m sure you had your moments too.

Try not to associate this young woman with your DD.
As you say it was a different time and completely mutual.

So I am 22 and female, and if I’ve noticed anything about other women, it’s that they want men’s sexual appetites to fit into their view. So middle-age man who used to have young girls like him has that part of his life passed and all of a sudden a pretty younger girlwants him and we all clutch at our pearls. You can’t see men how you want them to be you have to see them for how they are and then adjust to that.

Why did you reopen a thread that’s so old, just to post that load of wally?

I’m new to this. And I’m gonna say it all the women in here just support each other. They don’t care about what their men sexual needs are. It’s just all about. My man doesn’t wanna have sex with me. My man wants blowjobs. Maybe it’s just because I’m younger. I love doing it. I love getting my boyfriend off. If you don’t like doing it anymore I don’t know what to tell you.

I’d suggest starting your own thread if you genuinely want to talk about women’s views of men’s sexual needs, so you can set out your premise clearly and prompt a proper debate. I’m glad you enjoy sex, but I didn’t ask you about your sex life. Nor did I ask you to imagine mine.

Fine. Run people off who have a different opinion. That’s gonna help your situation.

You do realise I’m not the person who started this thread, don’t you? I think you’d be better off on Reddit.

And I’m gonna say it all the women in here just support each other.

Yes - that's what the site fundamentally exists for.

She probably gave him a hand job under a coat or something, and over the years he's exaggerated it every time he tells the story. However, why on earth he thinks that a girlfriend with a daughter of a similar age would want to hear THAT, goodness only knows!! Bin!