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Husband thinks boob job using inheritance is dumb

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Uhjo · 19/07/2024 12:32

I received a small inheritance from my grandmother. Dh and I have agreed a couple things it will go on ( mutually beneficial). With the remainder I said I will look into getting a breast lift. Dh has stated how much a waste he thinks this is but equally said it’s your money.

For context, I like my boobs but ONLY when they are in a bra (so that’s why dh considers it a waste). I’m 130 pounds but wear a 32 e. I just hate the way they hang. But it is easily solved by wearing bras. So I do kind of see the point. With the size of my boobs it’s not like I could wear a tight top and go braless. That’s not the goal.

I’m 31 and just want to love my entire body I guess. DH suggested I go to Turkey but I would rather stick to a UK surgeon.

We are not in debt and own our house. Of course there are loads of things that the money could go on.

Is it silly? I guess I am concerned my judgement is clouded and I am being controlled to a certain extent by an insecurity.

OP posts:
Bunchymcbunchface · 23/07/2024 20:04

Had my boobs done.
best thing I ever did for myself, wish I’d done it years ago

jrc1071 · 29/07/2024 15:44

As someone who is encumbered with 34HH, that are BEYOND saggy now as near 60, I say GO FOR IT.

If this is what will make you feel better in your own body and better appreciate the boobies (you are very lucky, although I can imagine at times it does not feel lucky), then do it.

Happy ta ta's, happy mama.

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