To ask for the positives of only having one child?

[uhohala]

I know I’m lucky to have one. I always wanted at least two, so they each had a sibling. Sadly separated from DP when ds was 1 and he’s 2.5 now. No new relationship on the horizon and I’m 38 so it’s possible it’s already too late. I feel really down about it tonight. Anyone truly made peace with it or can see any plus points to just having one? I have the money to go it alone but it feels too much when I already have ds.

That's embarrassing for you.

Re read it a few times until you understand it.

the only one embarrassing themselves here is you @StopInhalingRevels . I’m glad you think your life is what other people aspire to be least though.

Oh, you're the one who only listens to "scientific research".

Except from anyone who agrees with you. Then it's whatever they say.

Oh dear, you did, didn't you? Oh bless!

I don’t mind people sharing their experiences. I do mind people making broad generalisations without backing them up in any way. Which you have done several times on this thread.

Quote my own text instead of repeat it to the hard of thinking, again? Yes indeed.

How embarrassing for you.

Jesus. Are we going to have to do this for a tenth time.

I'll go find where I've explained this to your already. And quote it again.

Then the other poster can get all excited that I've quoted myself instead of typing out the exact same information to the exact same response again...

There we go.

No wonder the poor OP hasn’t been back.