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Why does his Google history show he was at an industrial estate at night

632 replies

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:00

Last night I was on Dh’s phone-not snooping…initially at least. I was turning lullaby music off that he and our dc had fallen asleep to.
It showed the travel history of where he’d been/been driving etc. I just thought it was quite interesting at first, don’t think I have it on my phone or if I do, no idea how to access it! I started looking and it was all pretty boring-travel to work, certain shops, cafes etc, a friends house. One entry from last Sunday shows him going out in the evening driving for 30 minutes, it says here no location/location not shown. Then from around 10.30-11.30 pm, it shows a location and when I looked at it, it’s an industrial estate. This is really strange isn’t it?! Making me so paranoid, what would you make of it?

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justabigdisco · 06/07/2024 17:01

Where did he say he was at that time?

TraumaSalt · 06/07/2024 17:02

Yes, surely you didn’t think he was sat on the loo for two hours on a Sunday night?!

Sunsetcocktail · 06/07/2024 17:02

I mean, we’re all thinking dogging right? But in fact it’s probably something really boring, like he was practicing hand brake turns. Men can be weird

Sunsetcocktail · 06/07/2024 17:03

You really should just ask him

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:04

I haven’t asked him where he was. We do alternate nights taking Dd to bed and often fall
asleep, he sometimes nips out to his friends house for a chat/drink (both friends with his friend and wife etc, kids) so I assumed he’d gone there for an hour or two

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RomanRoysSearchHistory · 06/07/2024 17:04

Is there a drive thru or something? If not, there's only two other explanations. Hookers or drugs.

AstonMartha · 06/07/2024 17:04

Drugs?
Furries?
Special friend?

Crinklycrisp · 06/07/2024 17:04

Where did you think he was?

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:05

@AstonMartha Furries?

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MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 17:05

Where did you think he was at that time? Can you go back and look at your messages from that day?

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:06

@RomanRoysSearchHistory Hookers as in you’d take a hooker there? Drugs as in to do drugs there or meet someone?

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Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:06

No drive thru there and no other entries for this place, just really weird

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Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:06

Well you know him better than us OP.

What is it likely to be? Drugs/gambling/women/men/
Furries 😂

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:07

I don’t want to mention it yet as I want to try to keep checking it somehow to see if anything else comes up

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MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 17:07

I would have to drive there myself and see what's there.

RandomUser82 · 06/07/2024 17:07

Dogging?

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:08

@Sunnydiary Please don’t find it funny, I have a young child and am obviously anxious about it

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Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:08

I would drive over myself next time he falls asleep with DC and check it out.

Don’t get out of car obviously…

AhBiscuits · 06/07/2024 17:09

My first thought was dogging or a prostitute. It's always sex stuff with men, they're gross.

Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:09

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:08

@Sunnydiary Please don’t find it funny, I have a young child and am obviously anxious about it

Sorry, just couldn’t help laughing at the Furries suggestion.

I hope you get to put your mind at rest.

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:09

I know it in the daytime, just a large industrial estate with offices, buildings, small factories etc

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MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 17:10

Obviously I don't know you or your husband, OP, so have no idea what kind of guy he is, but these are the things I might suspect in general:

Prostitutes
Dogging
Drug deals
Sex with random men

Does any of that match his personality type and history?

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:10

@AhBiscuits So to take a prostitute there?

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mnahmnah · 06/07/2024 17:10

Well industrial estates are known for dogging activity late at night, so that was my first thought. Sorry. Hope it’s innocent!

Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:10

Yes but you might have a clearer understanding from visiting at the same time he did. Maybe not, but it’s a start.