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Why does his Google history show he was at an industrial estate at night

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Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:00

Last night I was on Dh’s phone-not snooping…initially at least. I was turning lullaby music off that he and our dc had fallen asleep to.
It showed the travel history of where he’d been/been driving etc. I just thought it was quite interesting at first, don’t think I have it on my phone or if I do, no idea how to access it! I started looking and it was all pretty boring-travel to work, certain shops, cafes etc, a friends house. One entry from last Sunday shows him going out in the evening driving for 30 minutes, it says here no location/location not shown. Then from around 10.30-11.30 pm, it shows a location and when I looked at it, it’s an industrial estate. This is really strange isn’t it?! Making me so paranoid, what would you make of it?

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DogInATent · 06/07/2024 17:18

Definitely furries.

(although probably something much more mundane, either a kebab van or he plays Pokemon and there's a gym there with a rare spawn)

InterIgnis · 06/07/2024 17:18

Crushedcandy · 06/07/2024 17:16

Don’t go off the deep end just yet OP. That locations app isn’t always entirely accurate.

This. At the bottom of Google search I remember there used to be a note as to your location, and mine was often 20+ miles out.

TheShellBeach · 06/07/2024 17:19

OP it's possible that he took a sex worker there.
You know him better than we randoms on here.

Are you having sex with him still? Would you really be surprised if he had been with a sex worker?

StandingMyGround888 · 06/07/2024 17:20

OP people want to ruin your marriage!!

Location is not always accurate at all!

MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 17:21

InterIgnis · 06/07/2024 17:18

This. At the bottom of Google search I remember there used to be a note as to your location, and mine was often 20+ miles out.

Yet his other locations were accurate. Mine are always scarily accurate and state which shop I've been to on the big shopping estate. It's very unnerving!

Joylessforum · 06/07/2024 17:21

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Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:21

It’s very strange there’s only one entry there though if it was something regular and dodgy? I may drive there at night but am quite scared to, tbh
There are cafes and petrol stations around but why stay an hour it’s odd
Hope it is a mistake
Should I keep trying to check his history without him seeing, if I ask he’d obviously turn it off

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Mistymountain · 06/07/2024 17:21

Our nearby industrial estate has a kebab van open at night. Could it be something like that?

Abaracadabara · 06/07/2024 17:22

I was sat in a cafe with my daughter today and we checked life360 to see how far away my husband was. It showed my daughter who was sat right next to me, driving away in another direction. It often does this as her phone signal seems to be really unreliable. Afterwards it says she's done a trip and for how long! I know it's reaching but it isn't completely impossible that he wasn't actually anywhere!

Are there any other weird journeys late at night or any others to that place specifically? You're going to have to ask him and read his reaction. You'll know if he's hiding something when you ask.

EmilyGilmoreCardiganEnergy · 06/07/2024 17:22

Don't you have any communication with him when he returns from his nipping out trips ?
Seems odd he often just goes out at night and you never ask where he's been.
I'd be thinking he's taken a prostitute there.

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:22

@Joylessforum Please can you not. My life isn’t a joke

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Dinnerdinnerchickenwinner · 06/07/2024 17:22

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:21

It’s very strange there’s only one entry there though if it was something regular and dodgy? I may drive there at night but am quite scared to, tbh
There are cafes and petrol stations around but why stay an hour it’s odd
Hope it is a mistake
Should I keep trying to check his history without him seeing, if I ask he’d obviously turn it off

You're avoiding the sensible posts, why?

needhelpwiththisplease · 06/07/2024 17:23

Just ask him!

Joylessforum · 06/07/2024 17:23

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Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:24

@EmilyGilmoreCardiganEnergy Sometimes he goes to his friends or the petrol station for cigarettes or a drive/beach. We’re not in U.K., in a hot place, it’s summer

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Morwenscapacioussleeves · 06/07/2024 17:24

If it were my DH I would assume he went for a food van then had a nap - he can & will sleep anywhere.

I think not being able to ask him is more worrying than him going somewhere odd tbh - it wouldn't occur to me not to ask mine.

I hope you find a reassuring answer💐

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:24

@Dinnerdinnerchickenwinner Which sensible posts? Sorry

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StJulian2023 · 06/07/2024 17:25

My Google timeline says I visited Barton Stacey and Winchester last month. I’ve never been to either (or even heard of the former!)

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:25

@Morwenscapacioussleeves But to ask would mean I’d have to say I was going though his phone?

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InterIgnis · 06/07/2024 17:25

MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 17:21

Yet his other locations were accurate. Mine are always scarily accurate and state which shop I've been to on the big shopping estate. It's very unnerving!

I haven’t looked at mine in a while, it may have improved tbf. Based on how off I’ve known it to be though, I just wouldn’t jump immediately to conclusions - he may have been doing something dodgy, but it’s also possible it’s a location error.

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:25

@StJulian2023 Can it make lots of mistakes like that? 🙏

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Amicompletelyinsane · 06/07/2024 17:25

My sons location is so out sometimes. It looked like he spent an hour at a random house we have no connections to. He was in the park, I was with him. I wouldn't ruin a marriage over one dodgy location and no proof of anything

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Crushedcandy · 06/07/2024 17:25

If it was your turn to sort bedtime he maybe treated himself to a quiet nap somewhere and didn’t let on. It’s a big leap for posters to suggest he was probably with a prostitute 😆

stokessauce · 06/07/2024 17:26

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