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Don't vote reform

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Crispynoodle · 02/07/2024 11:20

Obviously I can't tell you who to vote for but then there is this:

news.sky.com/story/second-reform-candidate-quits-and-backs-tories-over-racism-and-misogyny-13162247

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LadyCrumpet · 02/07/2024 16:48

Thumbelinatinylittlething · 02/07/2024 16:45

The trouble is that "right wing" has been conflated to mean anything from a belief in choice regarding education to a belief in an ultra nationalistic dictatorship. "Facist" is used by the left to describe most things right of centre so has lost its real scary meaning. Which means we have lost the language to describe and therefore be able to judge things that are actually really scary. How can you now describe a real "facist" if you meet one if you are called a facist for thinking Winston Churchill was a good guy.

Thats easy. 'Leftie'.

Auvergne63 · 02/07/2024 16:48

cupcaske123 · 02/07/2024 15:53

Given some of the rhetoric I've heard from Austria and the AfD, never mind what's going on in France, your poor mother must be so worried. People can't seem to see that Le Pen has simply sanitised the party; they're still fascists. Macron is taking a big gamble.

I know. Her parents were Italians who fled Italy because of Mussolini.
My late father hated Le Pen senior because he was a torturer in the Algerian war of Independence. My father was a conscript in the same regiment. He also abhorred racism.
I am hoping that all the parties unite against these fascists in the second round. Farage is of the same ilk and an hypocrite to boot, having tried to obtain a German passport a few weeks after the Brexit referendum. Two of his children enjoy the freedom of movement (thanks to their German passport) denied to so many. I guess getting a blue passport ( made in Europe) was worth it.

Anonym00se · 02/07/2024 16:49

RainbowBrightz · 02/07/2024 14:49

Let's not forget Diane Abbot was overtly racist in a newspaper article last year, and yet she's just been welcomed back into Starmer's Labour 🌈

Overtly racist? She was suspended for saying “It is true that many types of white people with points of difference, such as redheads, can experience this prejudice. But they are not all their lives subject to racism”. Which let’s face it is a fairly innocuous comment.

There is a world of difference between saying that, and saying black people should be shot.

Thumbelinatinylittlething · 02/07/2024 16:50

LadyCrumpet · 02/07/2024 16:48

Thats easy. 'Leftie'.

Ha! I suppose the further right you travel you end up meeting the left anyway.

cupcaske123 · 02/07/2024 16:51

Auvergne63 · 02/07/2024 16:48

I know. Her parents were Italians who fled Italy because of Mussolini.
My late father hated Le Pen senior because he was a torturer in the Algerian war of Independence. My father was a conscript in the same regiment. He also abhorred racism.
I am hoping that all the parties unite against these fascists in the second round. Farage is of the same ilk and an hypocrite to boot, having tried to obtain a German passport a few weeks after the Brexit referendum. Two of his children enjoy the freedom of movement (thanks to their German passport) denied to so many. I guess getting a blue passport ( made in Europe) was worth it.

Let's hope France does the right thing. I'll be thinking of you all during this time.

LadyCrumpet · 02/07/2024 16:52

PelicanPopcorn
Migration is fundamentally relieving pressure on public services because a very large portion is going into the NHS and care sector. Migrants are majority working age so use less free education, healthcare, pensions and pay more taxes than the general population. UK has a falling birthrate and increased older population - this again is increasing pressure on public services. These are just facts.

People are not concerned about the people that come here through legal and official channels. They are concerned about the illegal immigration, the boats, the people that destroy their papers and therefore their criminal history, on the way. The hoardes of men - where are the women and children? - that are taking over villages and whole areas.

To confuse the two now is just willfull obtusiveness, and it is not racist to be concerned about this.

Look at Switzerland.

schloss · 02/07/2024 16:56

Their policies are far right policies.

So allowing people to earn £20k before they pay tax is far right? Not wanting to interfere in peoples lives (i.e having a small state) is far right?

You could go through every parties manifesto and come up with something which someone would deem, far right, far left, racist etc.

Too many people make find their opinions from soundbites and by following the majority "correct" opinion.

On this, or another thread, I have said I asked every local candidate the same set of questions, then went and discussed any concerns or further clarification I needed, before making an informed choice as to who I woud vote for on Thursday. There are 3 parties locally who I will choose from, one of which is Reform. My decision will predominantly lie with their responses to local issues and at the moment they all slightly differ in their approaches.

What I do know is on Thursday if I decide Reform is the party I vote for it is not because I am stupid, thick and a racist, but because I have done myy homework to what they will bring as a local MP inconjunction with their manifesto for the population country wide.

I have to question though, how many people who vote will have completed the same process? Many sadly not.

KenAdams · 02/07/2024 16:58

Aww go out and vote Reform. There aren't enough of you to make a difference but it does helpfully split the Tory vote.

MrsAllYours · 02/07/2024 17:02

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Can I just thank you - all my posts are probably overly long winded and trying to be in a reasonable tone so as to not call people names or insult them, but then along comes your post which I so wish I could have posted!! Said everything very well!

LostTheMarble · 02/07/2024 17:07

LadyCrumpet · 02/07/2024 16:52

PelicanPopcorn
Migration is fundamentally relieving pressure on public services because a very large portion is going into the NHS and care sector. Migrants are majority working age so use less free education, healthcare, pensions and pay more taxes than the general population. UK has a falling birthrate and increased older population - this again is increasing pressure on public services. These are just facts.

People are not concerned about the people that come here through legal and official channels. They are concerned about the illegal immigration, the boats, the people that destroy their papers and therefore their criminal history, on the way. The hoardes of men - where are the women and children? - that are taking over villages and whole areas.

To confuse the two now is just willfull obtusiveness, and it is not racist to be concerned about this.

Look at Switzerland.

I always hear about these ‘hoards of single male immigrants’ coming over but as someone who lives in a high immigration area, I’ve yet to see it. It seems to be one of these lines thrown out, that those staunchly against refugee immigration won’t be happy until they see another picture of a drowned toddler on a beach to show it’s not just the men coming over on boats…

LostTheMarble · 02/07/2024 17:10

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Sex vs gender is a whole other policy. I’m not voting Labour because of it but Reform is a whole other side of reducing women’s right. That again is another conflation, what women’s rights are actually about and it goes well beyond transgender ideology.

Swingingvvoter · 02/07/2024 17:12

@MrsAllYours I don't think many people who vote reform are racists but of course, like momentum and labour, racists and extremists attach themselves.

The difference between many labour voters is that they really don't get the whole trans thing unfortunately. So they are sleep walking into it all.

Dontknowwhattodo2024 · 02/07/2024 17:13

@LostTheMarble to be fair it’s massively noticeable where I live (all the men that have arrived). I personally don’t care a jot about immigration but it’s honestly very noticeable. I often get stopped a few times out and about by men looking for directions to the home office and there are crowds of men always milling about in certain areas (cafe Nero, certain hotels and service centres. This is new over the past few years.

Shortfatsuit · 02/07/2024 17:15

schloss · 02/07/2024 16:38

I do believe that there are many people who just cannot accept there are people who have right wing opinions. Just as the left have far left to centre left and everything in between, so do the right but the lead up to this election is very much cementing the view that anything right is wrong. The way to deal with those opinions is to insult and label.

There could be a party with a very similar manifesto to Reform, but not having Farage involved - what would the response be from the non-right people? Would it be the same response because the opinions are right, or would it be different because Farage would not be involved? The same could be said of Le Pen in France, and Trump in America.

Farage is just a figurehead. You're right that my objection is to the far right views and not to any particular individual.

To clarify, it isn't the case that I can't accept that some people have right wing views. I do accept it. Sadly, it is a fact that some people hold such views, and I have to accept it, whether I like it or not.

What I don't have to do is respect such views or the people who hold them. I accept that they have a legal right within a democracy to hold those views, but that doesn't mean that I have to pretend that their views are worthy of respect. I absolutely think far right voters are wrong and lacking in morals, and I make no apology for that - I despise racists and everything that they stand for. But I absolutely accept that such people exist and that the rest of us have to put up with them.

schloss · 02/07/2024 17:18

Shortfatsuit · 02/07/2024 17:15

Farage is just a figurehead. You're right that my objection is to the far right views and not to any particular individual.

To clarify, it isn't the case that I can't accept that some people have right wing views. I do accept it. Sadly, it is a fact that some people hold such views, and I have to accept it, whether I like it or not.

What I don't have to do is respect such views or the people who hold them. I accept that they have a legal right within a democracy to hold those views, but that doesn't mean that I have to pretend that their views are worthy of respect. I absolutely think far right voters are wrong and lacking in morals, and I make no apology for that - I despise racists and everything that they stand for. But I absolutely accept that such people exist and that the rest of us have to put up with them.

So from your post would you accept that people can hold the same views about far left? I would probably think you do, however there are too many people who think any left political views are good, but any right views are wrong when imo that is incorrect.

RishiIsACuntWaffle · 02/07/2024 17:19

caringcarer · 02/07/2024 11:32

I'm voting Reform UK. I don't tell others who to vote for or who not to vote for. We live in a democracy.

Ironic username.

TipsyNewt · 02/07/2024 17:20

LostTheMarble · 02/07/2024 17:10

Sex vs gender is a whole other policy. I’m not voting Labour because of it but Reform is a whole other side of reducing women’s right. That again is another conflation, what women’s rights are actually about and it goes well beyond transgender ideology.

Yup.

Reform probably are the only party that could deliver on excluding transwomen from all of women's single sex spaces (due to their commitment to leaving the European Convention on Human Rights).

But is giving up our cornerstone human rights protections and the Equality Act (which Reform want to repeal) a price that anyone wants to pay?

fliptopbin · 02/07/2024 17:22

schloss · 02/07/2024 11:27

Obviously I can't tell you who to vote for but then there is this:

But you are are doing exactly that by saying, vote Labour, Tories, Lib Dems etc but not Reform.

We live in a democracy where people choose who to vote for. The decision is made on either a postal vote or on 04th July when you put an X in a box - it is not for you or anyone else to say.

Well if you wanted a postal vote you are less likely to be voting now, since a lot weren't sent out in time...

Shortfatsuit · 02/07/2024 17:22

schloss · 02/07/2024 16:56

Their policies are far right policies.

So allowing people to earn £20k before they pay tax is far right? Not wanting to interfere in peoples lives (i.e having a small state) is far right?

You could go through every parties manifesto and come up with something which someone would deem, far right, far left, racist etc.

Too many people make find their opinions from soundbites and by following the majority "correct" opinion.

On this, or another thread, I have said I asked every local candidate the same set of questions, then went and discussed any concerns or further clarification I needed, before making an informed choice as to who I woud vote for on Thursday. There are 3 parties locally who I will choose from, one of which is Reform. My decision will predominantly lie with their responses to local issues and at the moment they all slightly differ in their approaches.

What I do know is on Thursday if I decide Reform is the party I vote for it is not because I am stupid, thick and a racist, but because I have done myy homework to what they will bring as a local MP inconjunction with their manifesto for the population country wide.

I have to question though, how many people who vote will have completed the same process? Many sadly not.

Reform's proposed tax policies...apart from being completely unaffordable are actually incredibly regressive. Designed to overwhelmingly benefit the highest earners while offering very little for the lowest earners. Yes, I'd say that that's pretty right wing as tax policies go.

I'm a higher earner so would do very nicely under their tax regime thank you, but I prefer a more progressive approach.

LadyCrumpet · 02/07/2024 17:27

TipsyNewt · 02/07/2024 17:20

Yup.

Reform probably are the only party that could deliver on excluding transwomen from all of women's single sex spaces (due to their commitment to leaving the European Convention on Human Rights).

But is giving up our cornerstone human rights protections and the Equality Act (which Reform want to repeal) a price that anyone wants to pay?

Why do you think we as a country are incapable of creating our own rights bill?

Just because we would leave the ECHR etc doesn't mean there will be no rights or that they will be worse than before 🙄

We'd probably be better off.

TheShellBeach · 02/07/2024 17:28

RainbowBrightz · 02/07/2024 14:49

Let's not forget Diane Abbot was overtly racist in a newspaper article last year, and yet she's just been welcomed back into Starmer's Labour 🌈

Ms. Abbott is a superb constituency MP and will easily be re-elected.

Boomer55 · 02/07/2024 17:29

I think that it’s more important that people actually get out and vote, rather than who they vote for.

We've always had nutty protest parties such as Reform, Greens, Raving loonies etc but it’s important to vote. They never win much. Each to their own.👍

TheShellBeach · 02/07/2024 17:32

caringcarer · 02/07/2024 11:32

I'm voting Reform UK. I don't tell others who to vote for or who not to vote for. We live in a democracy.

Why are you prepared to vote for an openly racist, bigoted and misogynistic Party?
A Party whose leader thinks that Andrew Tate is a good egg?