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Taylor swift fans annoy me

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MumofHennHals · 25/06/2024 18:26

Anyone else?

Something about Taylor swift and her swifties really grind my gears, I don't see the hype.

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CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 27/06/2024 11:18

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:55

They present her in a way which will appeal and gloss over not so appealing characteristics.
That's what PR does.
Her persona isn't her.

And? All music artists have PR, every single one of them regardless of how talented they are or aren’t by MN standards.

Taylor is successful and rich, she can buy the best PR (although head of her PR is well known to be Tree Paine who has been with her for donkeys years, long before she became the current phenomenon she is).

Why is it a problem that she is doing what everyone else does, just better?

Justrelax · 27/06/2024 11:31

I don't think it matters what anyone else thinks of anything as long as it's not hurting anyone.

Midge75 · 27/06/2024 11:51

I agree, these threads are a boring, and quite pointless really - everyone knows there are plenty of people who don't get the hype or don't like the music. That's fair enough. I never liked Take That or the Spice Girls, but am also not the sort to be fanatical about anything - always thought I was a bit boring that way! I'm not a Swiftie either - my daughter is, a loyal fan of 11 years, despite only being 16. I have, as a result, heard lots of her music and it really is quite varied. What annoys me is when people claim she has no talent. Such a silly comment to make. Or "She can't sing" - clearly, she can. Not everyone has to be Aretha Franklin or Celine Dion. There are many respected musicians who rate her as a songwriter and performer and will happily say so. I came across a Twitter thread recently that had compiled just some of them.
https://x.com/phillychilly2/status/1805899764560810219?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1805899764560810219%7Ctwgr%5E07ebe98a60a678f681c505a5dac8a4df8de2aa40%7Ctwcon%5Es1_&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.redditmedia.com%2Fmediaembed%2F1dp5ovt%2F%3Fresponsive%3Dtrueis_nightmode%3Dfalse

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https://x.com/phillychilly2/status/1805899764560810219?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1805899764560810219%7Ctwgr%5E07ebe98a60a678f681c505a5dac8a4df8de2aa40%7Ctwcon%5Es1_&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.redditmedia.com%2Fmediaembed%2F1dp5ovt%2F%3Fresponsive%3Dtrueis_nightmode%3Dfalse

andymary · 27/06/2024 12:09

People publicly complaining and shaming another group of people for no apparent reason annoys me.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 12:21

Youdontevengohere · 27/06/2024 10:57

This applies to the vast majority of pop stars, not just TS.

Yes, correct, but the vast majority of fans of other artists accept this.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 12:21

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 27/06/2024 11:18

And? All music artists have PR, every single one of them regardless of how talented they are or aren’t by MN standards.

Taylor is successful and rich, she can buy the best PR (although head of her PR is well known to be Tree Paine who has been with her for donkeys years, long before she became the current phenomenon she is).

Why is it a problem that she is doing what everyone else does, just better?

She's not doing it better, she's just doing it more.

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 27/06/2024 12:39

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 12:21

She's not doing it better, she's just doing it more.

okay so, to be clear, you are saying that Taylor Swifts PR is not better than anyone’s there is just more of it, so to follow from that every artist could be that successful if the just did more PR? Have you thought of sharing this wonderful insight with all of the PR agencies that celebrities pay so much money to, I’m sure they would love to know that it’s that easy.

TheSandHurtsMyFeelings · 27/06/2024 13:07

HowIrresponsible · 27/06/2024 10:49

The term grinds my gears annoys me. I've only ever seen it on here. No one speaks like that.

Agreed though swift is training bra music not appealing to anyone over 13.

It's one step above a Fisher price little people cd

Would it be helpful if all of us who enjoy Taylor Swift's music just admitted that we are shit, childish, cultish, taste-free losers, in pathetic thrall to corporatism, marketing and white feminism, and we can then end this tedious merry-go-round of pick-me threads once and for all?

pointythings · 27/06/2024 13:43

HowIrresponsible · 27/06/2024 10:49

The term grinds my gears annoys me. I've only ever seen it on here. No one speaks like that.

Agreed though swift is training bra music not appealing to anyone over 13.

It's one step above a Fisher price little people cd

From someone who hasn't listened to any TS beyond the obvious chart pop stuff...

xsquared · 27/06/2024 13:49

Do those complaining about Taylor Swift fans being annoying know any Taylor Swift fans in real life or just judge them from what they've seen on SM or mumsnet?

I know at least 4 people personally, who went to the Eras tour, some with their teens and some with friends age range between 30 to 50+. None are who I would describe as fanatical or annoying.

I've mentioned this on another thread but I was surprised and impressed by how many members of my running club knew so many of her song titles, as a result of another member- a male in his 30s if that makes a difference, announcing that he was no longer attending a race because he was going to see Taylor Swift instead over WhatsApp.

Everyone who posted afterwards were supportive and excited for him, and couldn't help posting references thatbit became quite competitive!

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 13:49

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 27/06/2024 12:39

okay so, to be clear, you are saying that Taylor Swifts PR is not better than anyone’s there is just more of it, so to follow from that every artist could be that successful if the just did more PR? Have you thought of sharing this wonderful insight with all of the PR agencies that celebrities pay so much money to, I’m sure they would love to know that it’s that easy.

No, I'm not saying that.

Anniegetyourgun · 27/06/2024 13:52

OK, fans can be deluded and believe their idol can do no wrong, which is not terribly healthy. But TS seems to have more than her fair share of anti-fans, who are strongly invested in her not being amazing, and that's something I don't really understand. I mean, following a pop star is a hobby, not one I've ever been into, can cost a fair bit of money, but mainly harmless unless it goes with a heavy drug scene or they have particularly nasty lyrics, violent or paedophilic tendencies (if anyone would like to accuse Swift of any of these, evidence please). Slagging off the pop star and anyone who likes them is cheaper, but otherwise a bit of a negative hobby if you ask me. Have you tried crochet? You could make a sampler with "I HATE TAYLOR SWIFT" perhaps... or some kittens.

Anniegetyourgun · 27/06/2024 13:54

Btw whoever linked Ronan on a similar thread a few weeks ago, I hate you. I cried buckets.

beguilingeyes · 27/06/2024 14:14

a) nobody cares what you think

b) see answer a

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 14:56

Anniegetyourgun · 27/06/2024 13:52

OK, fans can be deluded and believe their idol can do no wrong, which is not terribly healthy. But TS seems to have more than her fair share of anti-fans, who are strongly invested in her not being amazing, and that's something I don't really understand. I mean, following a pop star is a hobby, not one I've ever been into, can cost a fair bit of money, but mainly harmless unless it goes with a heavy drug scene or they have particularly nasty lyrics, violent or paedophilic tendencies (if anyone would like to accuse Swift of any of these, evidence please). Slagging off the pop star and anyone who likes them is cheaper, but otherwise a bit of a negative hobby if you ask me. Have you tried crochet? You could make a sampler with "I HATE TAYLOR SWIFT" perhaps... or some kittens.

It's not about hating TS.
It's about how crazy SOME of her fans get.
Anyway, listen to who you like.

xsquared · 27/06/2024 15:04

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 14:56

It's not about hating TS.
It's about how crazy SOME of her fans get.
Anyway, listen to who you like.

I can't stand anything about TS. posted by you earlier.

Do you know any Taylor Swift fans in real life who are like how you describe them?

I don't disagree that some can be fanatical about her, but the ones I know are most definitely not. It is no different to other artists and their fandom.

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 15:06

Crazy
Yes yes seen those news reports of wild Taylor swift fans wearing cowboy hats on the rampage at every city. Causing damage to property, fights, locking people in bars whilst they perform bad versions of Love Story on Karaoke. And of course they're mostly girls and women. Out on their own, unchaperoned. The mind boggles.

Absolutely terrible, no idea why it's not first priority in the election really.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 15:29

xsquared · 27/06/2024 15:04

I can't stand anything about TS. posted by you earlier.

Do you know any Taylor Swift fans in real life who are like how you describe them?

I don't disagree that some can be fanatical about her, but the ones I know are most definitely not. It is no different to other artists and their fandom.

Yep, I can't stand her, but that's not my issue. My issue is those who idolise her to the point of cult status, and jump on anyone who dares express a different view.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 15:29

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 15:06

Crazy
Yes yes seen those news reports of wild Taylor swift fans wearing cowboy hats on the rampage at every city. Causing damage to property, fights, locking people in bars whilst they perform bad versions of Love Story on Karaoke. And of course they're mostly girls and women. Out on their own, unchaperoned. The mind boggles.

Absolutely terrible, no idea why it's not first priority in the election really.

Do you always take comments completely out of context?

HandsDown84 · 27/06/2024 15:38

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 13:49

No, I'm not saying that.

What are you saying?
Let's have some more of your opinions, based on absolutely nothing, stated as facts.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 15:41

HandsDown84 · 27/06/2024 15:38

What are you saying?
Let's have some more of your opinions, based on absolutely nothing, stated as facts.

Edited

This thread keeps exemplifying my point. 🫣🫣🫣🫣🫣

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 15:42

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 15:29

Do you always take comments completely out of context?

Yes it's a joke.

They're quite popular in the Taylor Swift cult. You should try one

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 27/06/2024 15:48

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 13:49

No, I'm not saying that.

So please do clarify your point as I am interested in how stating that an artist is successful not because they have better PR than those less successful they just have more of it does not equate to saying that other artists could also be more successful if they just had more PR (irrespective of the quality of it).

TheTwirlyPoos · 27/06/2024 15:53

The name calling, the obtuseness, the relentless arguing, all over an artist you don't like.

Every single TS thread at the moment is 'shout if you don't get the hype'. It's so fucking tedious. I cannot get my head around spending this much time arguing about someone I don't like

How many threads do we have to have on this? This is the second in 24 hours.

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 15:56

To be fair the joke was based on a real point. With football games and some artists comes antisocial behaviour etc and I can understand why that would make someone feel passionate about it. The sex pistols for example I'm sure got a lot of people saying they hated them and everything they stood for. I'm happy to listen to someone's points and could imagine some good reasons why someone might hate them, but hating Taylor Swift when you've got the Kardashians buying babies and encouraging plastic surgery, Will Smith Assaulting people on stage, Tom Cruise and his actual cult, Kayne's crazyness and Brad Pitts abuse is quite baffling to me.
It's odd to expend this much time on hating someone because they have a pop persona and a real life and keep them somewhat separate. Which seems to be your main gripe, that and she is not carrying out humanitarian work on top of full time pop star.