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Taylor swift fans annoy me

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MumofHennHals · 25/06/2024 18:26

Anyone else?

Something about Taylor swift and her swifties really grind my gears, I don't see the hype.

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brunettemic · 27/06/2024 10:25

A huge number of people on MN annoy me and yet here I am.

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:26

I mean I could start a thread about how all people who use folk as a stand in grind my gears but, hey whatever brings you joy.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:26

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:25

What a bitter cynical attitude.

Yes I'm sure you are so much cleverer than everyone else on the subject and knows in depth about the subject. You just choose to not engage with actual facts because reasons.

You get back to your folk and continue to demonstrate how cool you are

Oh dear, thanks for illustrating my point. Not once did I say any of my points were about coolness. 😵‍💫
Again, I do wish you well going forward though. Stay strong.

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:28

How is it illustration your point. People get frustrated with you because you are close minded and don't engage with the points and just spout unevidenced opinion but think it's fact.

Yes I know a lot of folk like you.

And no I'm not a super fan. I just think hating her for poor reasons is twattish.

19lottie82 · 27/06/2024 10:29

Och it doesn’t bother me. She writes her own songs, she’s strong, independent, a good business woman…….. I think young girls could have a worse role model tbh!

Dahlemma · 27/06/2024 10:31

and so taken in by the clearly see through PR moves

Taken in in what way? In the way people were taken in by Harold Shipman’s helpfulness or Jimmy Saville’s charity work?

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:35

Dahlemma · 27/06/2024 10:31

and so taken in by the clearly see through PR moves

Taken in in what way? In the way people were taken in by Harold Shipman’s helpfulness or Jimmy Saville’s charity work?

To be fair, the obvious comparisons are Michael Jackson and Gary Glitter and Ian Watkins. 😅

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:45

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:28

How is it illustration your point. People get frustrated with you because you are close minded and don't engage with the points and just spout unevidenced opinion but think it's fact.

Yes I know a lot of folk like you.

And no I'm not a super fan. I just think hating her for poor reasons is twattish.

I could say the same about TS fans.
Let's leave it at me wishing you well.

Tiredandweary1987 · 27/06/2024 10:45

My main gripe is that I semi look similar. I don’t see it at all, but I have people tell me I look like her probably once a fortnight/once a month.

At first, I laughed it off. Now it really embarrasses my children as a few children make so much of it, even joking about autographs.
I’ve had people comment at work, friends, school run people, people on the street, in pubs etc. And I don’t see it and have to smile politely.
I asked my husband what he thought of her physically and he wasn’t really bothered either way, which makes it funny, as people say to him that I apparently look like her too (I really don’t)

It’s really irritating after a while, especially as I think her music is overly breathy, without much range, and too much talking.. there’s only so much breathing I can stand.

I always get asked “what is your favourite song” and I seriously couldn’t tell you the name of more than one.

so yes, not a fan!

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:46

Dahlemma · 27/06/2024 10:31

and so taken in by the clearly see through PR moves

Taken in in what way? In the way people were taken in by Harold Shipman’s helpfulness or Jimmy Saville’s charity work?

Eh?

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:47

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:45

I could say the same about TS fans.
Let's leave it at me wishing you well.

Yes of course you would.
You don't wish me ill but wish I'd shut up right.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:47

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:35

To be fair, the obvious comparisons are Michael Jackson and Gary Glitter and Ian Watkins. 😅

You don't have to be bad/evil to not be as good as people think.

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:48

R

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:48

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:47

Yes of course you would.
You don't wish me ill but wish I'd shut up right.

No, you can speak as much as you like. I just don't think our interaction is going anywhere.

HowIrresponsible · 27/06/2024 10:49

The term grinds my gears annoys me. I've only ever seen it on here. No one speaks like that.

Agreed though swift is training bra music not appealing to anyone over 13.

It's one step above a Fisher price little people cd

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:49

Indeed although I can't imagine anyone meeting your standards for good here...

It's actually funny you can't understand people can like some of her actions and music and feel so passionately about spreading the news that she isn't perfect.

Everyone knows.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:50

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:28

How is it illustration your point. People get frustrated with you because you are close minded and don't engage with the points and just spout unevidenced opinion but think it's fact.

Yes I know a lot of folk like you.

And no I'm not a super fan. I just think hating her for poor reasons is twattish.

She's overhyped.
Apparently we're not allowed to point that out.
A bit like the England team, only we are allowed to point that out.

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:50

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:48

No, you can speak as much as you like. I just don't think our interaction is going anywhere.

That's because you don't engage with facts and keep spouting opinion as fact.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:51

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:49

Indeed although I can't imagine anyone meeting your standards for good here...

It's actually funny you can't understand people can like some of her actions and music and feel so passionately about spreading the news that she isn't perfect.

Everyone knows.

I can understand people liking her, I've said that.
I can't understand people not being allowed to not like her, I've probably said that too.

Dahlemma · 27/06/2024 10:52

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:46

Eh?

You said “Some folk just wonder why SOME of her fanbase is so cult like and so taken in by the clearly see through PR moves”

Taken in generally means to be deceived by. In what way has Taylor Swift’s PR moves taken her fanbase in?

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:54

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:50

That's because you don't engage with facts and keep spouting opinion as fact.

Again, this is subjective.

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:55

Dahlemma · 27/06/2024 10:52

You said “Some folk just wonder why SOME of her fanbase is so cult like and so taken in by the clearly see through PR moves”

Taken in generally means to be deceived by. In what way has Taylor Swift’s PR moves taken her fanbase in?

They present her in a way which will appeal and gloss over not so appealing characteristics.
That's what PR does.
Her persona isn't her.

Youdontevengohere · 27/06/2024 10:57

Alwaysthesun24 · 27/06/2024 10:55

They present her in a way which will appeal and gloss over not so appealing characteristics.
That's what PR does.
Her persona isn't her.

This applies to the vast majority of pop stars, not just TS.

ImFrightenedAuntieEm · 27/06/2024 10:57

Of course you are allowed to not like her music or actions, but arguing that she decieves people or disempowers women people are going to ask you for evidence.

It just comes across that your dislike is for things she does that every popstar does, or do worse. So people are going to ask what it is that you find so objectionable and use evidence. Facts and evidence are how people usually come to these conclusions you see.

EverythingYouDoIsaBalloon · 27/06/2024 11:02

I find the current obsession a bit bemusing, but she's popular. I don't have a problem with that. People like what they like.

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