Colleague has sent me a dick pic

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Well not a completely full-frontal one, he is clothed on it but it's a picture of his 'hard-on'. (Sorry this is TMI)

I vaguely knew of him before and we went on a team-building weekend activity as a group. Got on well, stayed in touch a bit over the last week via text, just talking about work and holidays mainly.
There's been no flirting or innuendos of any sort, then I opened my phone to this.
The man is 41 FFS.
He's put a caption in the picture talking about his 'tan' but I'm not stupid, I know what a lot of men are like.

If this were out of work I'd block straightaway, but I feel so awkward with working together. We aren't in the same team but have mutual friends. I just don't know what to do.

I was slightly interested before and would've been open to a date or something similar but this has shown me what he thinks of me.

If he is doing what IN work, imagine what he could be doing to female colleagues OUTSIDE of work!

Report him!!!!

Yeah this is a reasonable approach oP.

Surprising to get a model of appropriateness from someone who goes by the name BuggeryBumFlaps but there you go.

Have been rereading this post and am feeling so deflated by some of these answers. And increasingly angry by this wanky creepy behaviour by OP's colleague.
This isn't a matter to be laughed off with emojis. Dick pic this time, next victim may be physical assault. It's serious, and it needs to be reported to HR. Collectively and individually, women must call out this behaviour EVERY SINGLE TIME - and support each other when it happens. We owe it to ourselves and to our daughters. We won't see the change we desperately need unless we force it.
I know OP is worried about being the bad person here and of course I don't know her colleagues. I do know though that creepy wankface knows he's breaking employer rules and OP's colleagues will know that too. I think you have to trust your colleagues, OP. Personally I am 100% sure my entire team would have my back in this situation and I hope that'd be the case for you too.

If you're leaving, even if date not set yet, report him to HR first thing tomorrow. No reason not to. I haven't read the whole thread so can't tell if you replied or used an emoji but if you did, say you realised after that was a mistake but you were just shocked and hadn't quite got your head together. You can show them your message history to prove that you hadn't requested this or been anything other than friendly.

The devil in me would want to reply with 'OMG, why have you sent me a picture of a child's penis???' but seriously, this really needs to go to HR. What an unprofessional, tasteless, creepy and violating thing to do. I doubt this is the first time he's acted like this.

Report him tomorrow? As this thread is from last June and OP was leaving her job, I don't think she'll need to do that, that's a good enough reason not to 😜

Olivia Colman has the solution...

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RCSYBeWuDhw&pp=ygURTGV0dGVycyBsaXZlIGRpY2s%3D

Pathetic behaviour

He's wearing shorts.

Zombie thread.

This. Don’t send him a laughing emoji as a pp suggested. It isn’t funny.

I would take this to his manager and fuck him right up. Why are you worried about his career? He messed it up all by himself the filthy pervert.

THIS THREAD IS MORE THAN SIX MONTHS OLD