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Men can get Ovarian Cancer !

215 replies

dottiedodah · 10/06/2024 13:27

I mean WTAF? (Source Telegraph) Ovarian Cancer Action has actually stated this.Would be bad enough generally ,but I am undergoing Treatment for this ATM, and just think it sounds ludicrous .Have been in touch with them before now and they seemed quite helpful .Feel a bit affronted ! AIBU they can say what they think,YANBU They should stick to the facts and not upset people already ill?

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Persianpuss · 11/06/2024 04:21

What nonsense. Planned parenthood (which is in the US by the way) also say that doctors make a decision to assign you a sex at birth and that most people have a gender identity by the age of 2 or 3. Not going to believe anything else they say. Let alone the fact that intersex is an outdated term.

StealthSpinach · 11/06/2024 04:24

Persianpuss · 11/06/2024 04:21

What nonsense. Planned parenthood (which is in the US by the way) also say that doctors make a decision to assign you a sex at birth and that most people have a gender identity by the age of 2 or 3. Not going to believe anything else they say. Let alone the fact that intersex is an outdated term.

Exactly. That Planned Parenthood “information” should be filed right alongside the “Flat Earth Evidence” some spout….

montelbano · 11/06/2024 05:38

dottiedodah · 10/06/2024 13:47

DOBARDAN Thank you .yes it is upsetting ,as you say if they would think first it would be helpful!I thought I may be being unreasonable as only started chemo a month ago ,and its all been a shock as Hystorectomy in Feb and thought they had cleared it!.Alas some remaining

Good luck I had a hysterectomy last year followed by 'mop up' chemo. Am now in remission.
got extremely exhausted towards the end of the chemo but no other side effects.....at the time! However whilst the chemo cured the cancer, it did also cause major problems with low platelets and severe anaemia, etc so just make sure you keep asking questions about your blood results during chemo and immediately afterwards.

Mummyoflittledragon · 11/06/2024 07:08

1Week · 10/06/2024 22:59

I think it's because transactivists want to break the link between biology and sex and link it more to gender identity.
Women are much more of a pushover kinder so that's the first wall to break.
Sounds machiavellian but there are billionaire funded think tanks paying full time salaries and professional advice to strategise this!
Your daughters troubled enby friend who deserves kindness and compassion, is not the one driving this, that for sure.

This needs to be shouted from the rooftops. People are being seriously exploited.

dottiedodah · 11/06/2024 07:17

Montelbano Thank you.This is good to know.I only know of one other lady is a similar position .Her treatment is ongoing ATM. I will certainly be making some noise!Re the platelets and Anaemia .I have a notebook re guarding any questions!Glad youre OK now xx

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SoreAndTired1 · 11/06/2024 07:46

hydriotaphia · 10/06/2024 13:34

Yes, saying "anyone with ovaries" or "people with ovaries" would be a less confusing way of phrasing this. However, people do get offended even with that wording so I do feel for charities trying to get a public health message out.

No, saying women with ovaries is the least confusing way.

Of course any normal woman would be offended by your suggested wording. Charities and health depts just need to say women....with.....ovaries.

It is THAT simple!

SoreAndTired1 · 11/06/2024 07:47

smallchange · 10/06/2024 13:33

What a shame they didn't just put out a tweet saying "Transmen! Remember, if you still have your ovaries, you can still get ovarian cancer."

That would have been helpful to a minority population, some of whom might need that occasional reminder that you can't identify out of your biology.

Less virtue signalling though. Fewer brownie points. Twats.

Yes, that would be a fair compromise.

SoreAndTired1 · 11/06/2024 07:50

hydriotaphia · 10/06/2024 13:38

@TheKeatingFive Yes, of course - but my point is you do get idiots who see a post that says "people with ovaries" and get all faux-offended over it.

We are not 'idiots', @hydriotaphia , of course as women we get genuinely offended at that! Why don't you understand that?!? The idiots are the dehumanising, misogynistic lowlife arseholes who say "people with ovaries".

SoreAndTired1 · 11/06/2024 07:54

mindutopia · 10/06/2024 13:47

You can have ovaries if you were born with ambiguous genitalia (are intersex), so I can't see why someone who was raised as a boy (but who technically has ovaries) and would consider themselves a man couldn't get ovarian cancer. A surprising number of people are intersex (I think it's 1 in 1000 babies born?) so you probably know someone who this might apply to.

Differences of Sexual Development is extremely rare@mindutopia . 0.7% of the population.

And, these people usually know very early on what they have and are educated and prepared by doctors from childhood. There is never any confusion with them because they like anyone with a condition, know all about it as they live it.

SoreAndTired1 · 11/06/2024 08:07

MrsSunshine2b · 10/06/2024 16:30

Trans-men and some intersex men can get ovarian cancer. In the same way, trans-women can't get ovarian cancer and intersex women without ovaries, or women who have had their ovaries removed, can't get ovarian cancer.

Less controversial would be "people with ovaries can get ovarian cancer." I don't really see why it would concern someone going through ovarian cancer what gender other people with ovarian cancer identify as. It sounds like you have much bigger things to worry about anyway.

Transmen are WOMEN, @MrsSunshine2b .

"people with ovaries can get ovarian cancer." is the most controversial statement. ONLY WOMEN get ovarian cancer.

Saying women can get ovarian cancer is the less controversial, and most proper way.

As women, saying 'people with ovaries' is deeply dehumanising and offensive. If you can't see that, then I don't know what to tell you. OP is already going through cancer for something ONLY women can get, and she not even granted being recognised as a woman by these misogynistic organisations!

Bibi12 · 11/06/2024 08:07

Persianpuss · 11/06/2024 00:26

I've heard that Canada is one of the worst places for this. But at least the madness is sexually equal, in the UK this nonsense only happens when it comes to the word "women". Men's products and cancer campaigns keep the word men.

Exactly! And I think the previous poster who answered my question is right - they have women for pushovers.

T1Dmama · 11/06/2024 08:08

Let’s hope a news paper picks this up…. The charity needs challenging on the language used!

GrammarTeacher · 11/06/2024 08:09

Trans men can get ovarian cancer.

T1Dmama · 11/06/2024 08:11

GrammarTeacher · 11/06/2024 08:09

Trans men can get ovarian cancer.

Yes but they’re not actually ‘men’

FluentRubyDog · 11/06/2024 08:16

1Week · 11/06/2024 01:05

No it's not.
No one is a hermaphrodite - the definition is someone with a functional set of both gonads.

There are babies born with disorders of sexual development. They might have residual tissue of the other gonad. They might have a slight abnormality of physiology -in boys, the urethra might open slightly up the shaft rather than at the tip. There might be chromosomal disorders. But crucially, the majority these DSDs are sex dependent.
DSDs are common. That doesn't negate the categories of male and female.

Then why is hermaphroditism listed in the ICD-10 (International classification of diseases) under Q56.0?

I'm sorry, but you can't just deny a scientific fact to suit your narrative.

SoreAndTired1 · 11/06/2024 08:23

FluentRubyDog · 11/06/2024 00:40

Well, it's a medical fact that 1 in 2000 babies are born as a hermaphrodite.

Wrong. You are very misinformed, @FluentRubyDog . There is no such thing as a human Hermaphrodite. It exists in other species, but not in the human species. There has never, in human history, been a human hermaphrodite. It's not even physically possible. So where you got that rubbish from I don't know.

Chersfrozenface · 11/06/2024 08:28

FluentRubyDog · 11/06/2024 08:16

Then why is hermaphroditism listed in the ICD-10 (International classification of diseases) under Q56.0?

I'm sorry, but you can't just deny a scientific fact to suit your narrative.

It's not listed in ICD-11, dated 2024.

Instead there is
"Ovotesticular disorder of sex development, formerly called true hermaphroditism, is a rare cause of genital ambiguity characterised by the presence of ovarian and testicular tissue in an individual, leading to development of both male and female structures."

This DSD is one of the rarest, with only 500 cases recorded. Out of a current human population of 81.1 billion.

AlisonDonut · 11/06/2024 08:30

FluentRubyDog · 11/06/2024 08:16

Then why is hermaphroditism listed in the ICD-10 (International classification of diseases) under Q56.0?

I'm sorry, but you can't just deny a scientific fact to suit your narrative.

Are you saying that a human exists that is able to inseminate themselves, and gestate a baby that is born and survives, and can be both the genetic mother and father to that child?

Is there a news story about this? Can you link it? Thanks in advance.

TheKeatingFive · 11/06/2024 08:31

FluentRubyDog · 11/06/2024 08:16

Then why is hermaphroditism listed in the ICD-10 (International classification of diseases) under Q56.0?

I'm sorry, but you can't just deny a scientific fact to suit your narrative.

That's not 'scientific fact' there are no true human hermaphrodites.

I believe the term is used to describe an extremely rare condition whereby a male can have some female reproductive cells in his body, but that doesn't mean the man has ovaries and it doesn't make him a hermaphrodite.

Persianpuss · 11/06/2024 08:31

FluentRubyDog · 11/06/2024 08:16

Then why is hermaphroditism listed in the ICD-10 (International classification of diseases) under Q56.0?

I'm sorry, but you can't just deny a scientific fact to suit your narrative.

Well this is embarrassing for you. Look up the newer version - the ICD-11 - and you'll see that it's been replaced with disorders of sexual development.

TheKeatingFive · 11/06/2024 08:35

Chersfrozenface · 11/06/2024 08:28

It's not listed in ICD-11, dated 2024.

Instead there is
"Ovotesticular disorder of sex development, formerly called true hermaphroditism, is a rare cause of genital ambiguity characterised by the presence of ovarian and testicular tissue in an individual, leading to development of both male and female structures."

This DSD is one of the rarest, with only 500 cases recorded. Out of a current human population of 81.1 billion.

That's 500 cases recorded ever, just for clarity. So out of a much bigger population.

Catopia · 11/06/2024 08:46

I suspect they are doing this because trans men or those with gender difference conditions are ignoring their symptoms/not seeking advice out of embarrassment, or are being overlooked or missed when they do. I would have thought sitting in a gynae cancer waiting room full of women is awful at the best of times, without it also being very confronting to your identity and potentially very outing for you as a trans man or male-identifying person. Even if this is addressing a small minority of patients, using language which encourages people to seek treatment and to discuss accommodations with their treating team is important in making sure that they access the care and treatment that they need.

PeonySeasons · 11/06/2024 08:48

Persianpuss · 11/06/2024 08:31

Well this is embarrassing for you. Look up the newer version - the ICD-11 - and you'll see that it's been replaced with disorders of sexual development.

Which section please? Hard to navigate the site on a phone.

TheKeatingFive · 11/06/2024 08:54

I would have thought sitting in a gynae cancer waiting room full of women is awful at the best of times, without it also being very confronting to your identity and potentially very outing for you as a trans man or male-identifying person.

The reality is however, that they are female. No coerced language or dancing around the topic changes that. It's of no relevance to Mother Nature that they are 'male identifying' (whatever that means) and ultimately reality needs to be faced.