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AGAIN! Something must be done

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Singersong · 07/06/2024 12:22

Yes I know, another XL bulky thread. But seriously, this breed is like a mine field, randomly killing owners all over. You never know when/where it will happen next.

I truly can't wrap my head around people like this woman - may she rest in peace - who are all over the internet defending these KILLERS. They all think theirs is different, theirs would never kill, theirs is a big softy.

Is it time to do something more serious? The legislation brought in doesn't seem to have stopped deaths, although at least it does appear to be the owners (who are stupid enough to keep them) who are dying now instead of innocent members of the public.

https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/xl-bully-owner-celebrating-birthday-mauled-death-videos-defending-breed/

XL Bully owner was celebrating birthday when she was mauled to death - as videos emerge of her defending breed

An XL Bully owner killed by her dog had just come home from celebrating her birthday when she was mauled to death.

https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/xl-bully-owner-celebrating-birthday-mauled-death-videos-defending-breed

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IhateSPSS · 07/06/2024 16:17

@lawnseed I completely agree. It's the whole 'I am entitled to do anything I want, even if I am unskilled/untrained/my circumstances don't suit it. Anyone challenging that can piss off because I need this to fulfil an unmet emotional need in me that I've not developed enough to cope with and anyone standing in my way...I just don't care about'.

It's becoming a very emotion led and reactive society with very little self reflection or checks and balances. You see it generally with lots of dog owners on walks, they laugh and titter if their ANIMAL jumps up or barks or growls at by passers and say 'Oh don't mind him, he's friendly'. Not even an apology. Well I don't want your dog to be 'friendly' towards me because I'm scared, so get it away from me, get it under control and put it on a lead because I don't want to interact with it, I'm out for a quiet walk ffs. If someone 100 years ago had said 'I want to keep a lion at home and it will be my fur baby and it is my family, love me, love my lion and fuck all the haters' society would have said 'Nope, maybe you need an assessment to see if you are capable of functioning in society actually' - nowadays nobody can be arsed to govern, police, or take some self responsibility to adhere to the social contract properly at all and people die a horrible, traumatic, painful death and other people have to attend to that ripped up person clinically, police officers have deal with the out of control animal and literally clean up the mess because of that failure. Ridiculous situation.

TheFormidableMrsC · 07/06/2024 16:18

As I said on the other thread about this, my neighbour has one. It's aggressive. He's an experienced dog owner and has registered it and it is muzzled outside. It's still aggressive. It will go for you if you so much as look at it. I think they should be wiped out. Neighbour is disabled and would stand no chance if the dog turned on him. I have made it very clear that he keeps it well away from me and my child.

Theredjellybean · 07/06/2024 16:19

Where I live there are quite a few being walked off lead, no muzzle and not neutered.
No sign of any police, wardens etc...and this is regular walking...so sure it is well known these dogs are about.
This is central London btw...so always plenty of traffic wardens and police about

DoubIeLeopardy · 07/06/2024 16:19

Tempnametoday · 07/06/2024 16:15

Ear/tail docking isn’t always shit ownership though.

Yeah yeah working dogs blah blah. These weren't working dogs though.

It's shit ownership when done for looks and status which are the main reasons it's done these days.

Megifer · 07/06/2024 16:21

Yea, that showed her didn't it?

Tempnametoday · 07/06/2024 16:22

DoubIeLeopardy · 07/06/2024 16:19

Yeah yeah working dogs blah blah. These weren't working dogs though.

It's shit ownership when done for looks and status which are the main reasons it's done these days.

I didn’t say working dogs though. Some vets, mine included, have recommended tail docking for specific reasons.

JammyJellyfish · 07/06/2024 16:24

And this is why dog ownership needs to be managed and licensed. Dogs are not fur babies and each have their own breed characteristics. Collies herd things, rotties used to be herding dogs as well. German shepherds guard, goldens retrieve, newfies are water rescue dogs, Bully’s were bred for fighting.

this woman came home from a night out, something clearly had wound up the dog in her absence and it showed it’s true nature.

TheRosesAreInBloom · 07/06/2024 16:25

Seems to have a somewhat Darwinian twist to me…

DoubIeLeopardy · 07/06/2024 16:29

Tempnametoday · 07/06/2024 16:22

I didn’t say working dogs though. Some vets, mine included, have recommended tail docking for specific reasons.

Such as? Because in the UK it's illegal unless done under very specific circumstances relating to certain working breeds and has to be done when the dog is less than 5 days old.

Tail amputation, as opposed to docking, can be done for medical reasons at any point though.

lawnseed · 07/06/2024 16:31

DoubIeLeopardy · 07/06/2024 16:09

I just think it can be both - bad dog owners have created a monstrous and dangerous 'breed'.

I'm not saying XL bullies are safe for good owners. They're not. They're dangerous because they're inbred and overbred into walking genetic mutations.

But that didn't just happen. Bad dog owners bred their dogs for status and profit and then sold them to more bad owners and so on and so on. Bad owners are entirely responsible for the shitshow that is now the XL bully.

It's not as simple as "ban them" or as "deed not breed". Yeah sure let's ban them, because they're a fucking liability now, but what do we then do to prevent the next dangerously overbred dogs from being the XL bullies of 2030? How do we change the culture of dog breeding and dog ownership so it doesn't keep happening?

Restrict the sizes/breeds/weights of dogs that the public are permitted to keep.

Of course it won't happen, because..... money. So, enjoy the shitshow carnage.

It's quite unfair how cat owners can't keep a puma. If I had one I'd called it Miss Daisy Bloodbath and put a diamante collar on it. It would sleep in my bed and I'd feed it on terriers and the local bird population. It would leave poo the size of rice puddings all over the neighbourhood. You see, cat owners could be as equally thick and perverse as bully owners.

DysonSphere · 07/06/2024 16:32

DoubIeLeopardy · 07/06/2024 16:09

I just think it can be both - bad dog owners have created a monstrous and dangerous 'breed'.

I'm not saying XL bullies are safe for good owners. They're not. They're dangerous because they're inbred and overbred into walking genetic mutations.

But that didn't just happen. Bad dog owners bred their dogs for status and profit and then sold them to more bad owners and so on and so on. Bad owners are entirely responsible for the shitshow that is now the XL bully.

It's not as simple as "ban them" or as "deed not breed". Yeah sure let's ban them, because they're a fucking liability now, but what do we then do to prevent the next dangerously overbred dogs from being the XL bullies of 2030? How do we change the culture of dog breeding and dog ownership so it doesn't keep happening?

Make keeping a dog a privilege.

Breeding licences
Mandatory training subject to review and paid for in advance of/simultaneously with pet purchase
Mandatory living space - garden etc

Currently you have ridiculous situations of people breeding staffies and other dog breeds solely for cash. You've got inbreeding amongst relative pups in tiny flats, or dog owners of huge dogs in well populated estates with children and elderly, in tiny living quarters leaving the dog sitting idle all day with maybe a brief walk in the afternoon/evening. The unexercised dog is full of aggressive energy and is let lose on the newly planted trees in the parks as compensation.

I was cutting down the back alleyways of some flats close to me, to get to the post office before it closed and as I passed a worn-down, wood fence, heard sudden frantic barking. I looked between the quite wide gaps. TWO XL bullies' chained TOGETHER in a 'garden' you couldn't swing a bat and ball in with any force without it sailing over the fence.

That's the sort of dangerous situations and dumb owners that need to be clamped down on.

Fines and licences for dog ownership. Make it a mostly MC privilege as it used to be in the past to be honest. Even there you see people treating their animals like another child that said.

Megifer · 07/06/2024 16:47

"Make it a mostly MC privilege as it used to be in the past to be honest."

No thanks most of the MC people I know (which is just WC with a Michael Kors bag) I wouldn't trust to look after a goldfish. Too busy stuffing coke up their noses and spending far more than they earn to keep up appearances.

TVD2103 · 07/06/2024 16:51

Unfortunately, even if all of this breeds gets PTS, give it a few months and the breeders would have another monster creation. There will always be certain people trying to breed the next scariest dog to maintain their status, dog fighting, etc. It’s never going to end.

IncompleteSenten · 07/06/2024 16:55

I don't think animals are good or bad, they're animals. They are what they are.

Pit bulls aren't 'bad' as such. Bad sort of implies human like thinking and decision making.

They're just dogs that have been bred for aggression and they shouldn't be pets. I think the breed should die out tbh. It is so badly damaged by selective breeding, inbreeding and defective genes that there's simply no recovery and the safest and kindest thing to do is let the breed die out.

But they shouldn't be demonised either, like somehow they are little people making reasoned choices to attack because they enjoy being 'evil.' You don't say a lion is bad for ripping the throat out of a zebra for example.

They should never have been bred to be what they are, but they were and now the breed needs to go imo.

LordPercyPercy · 07/06/2024 17:01

As long as these dogs are only killing the owners - what's the problem?

They could escape, or the owner could not comply with the lead/muzzle requirements and they could then kill someone else or their pet.
Or the owner might have children in the home.

HousedInMySoul · 07/06/2024 17:02

But they shouldn't be demonised either, like somehow they are little people making reasoned choices to attack because they enjoy being 'evil

I don't understand why it matters whether people think they are "evil" or think that they're bred to be like that and can't help it. The result is the same either way. I will be avoiding them as much as possible and advising my dc to do the same.

Escothesia · 07/06/2024 17:05

I fid theres sometihng around the eyes and exoression of these dogs. They look sad and depressed.

Thudercatsrule · 07/06/2024 17:05

is there anyway to block posts? not interested in seeing this nonsense anymore, i dont read the posts, just dont want is showing on my feed anymore.

IncompleteSenten · 07/06/2024 17:07

Thudercatsrule · 07/06/2024 17:05

is there anyway to block posts? not interested in seeing this nonsense anymore, i dont read the posts, just dont want is showing on my feed anymore.

Just hide each thread as you come across it.

lawnseed · 07/06/2024 17:08

Escothesia · 07/06/2024 17:05

I fid theres sometihng around the eyes and exoression of these dogs. They look sad and depressed.

They're malformed with dodgy genes so they're probably in chronic pain and discomfort. Some of them seem to struggle to walk and breathe. It's very sad.

DysonSphere · 07/06/2024 17:09

Megifer · 07/06/2024 16:47

"Make it a mostly MC privilege as it used to be in the past to be honest."

No thanks most of the MC people I know (which is just WC with a Michael Kors bag) I wouldn't trust to look after a goldfish. Too busy stuffing coke up their noses and spending far more than they earn to keep up appearances.

Yeah but the stereotypes unfortunately are true on this case. Reluctantly I acknowledge it is mostly the poor with these types of dangerous outsized dogs. A big dog is a status symbol inferring instant Kudos and respec' and more understandably, a deterrent against a knife attack.

As said, MC people can be bloody well annoying with the babyfication of their dogs along with zero boundaries in eating spaces (('What? You mean my dog should give way to a human/cyclist/jogger/child on the same foot path? Oh no, poor poodles has right of way' and 'of course my dog has a right to wag it's tail against your foot in the cafe and sit on the seat' What? allergies you say? Well then you should sit somewhere else))

But their dogs (generally) aren't the ones ripping people to shreds on a monthly basis. So there's that.

FrogandTrumpet · 07/06/2024 17:10

I’m sorry she lost her life but she (and many other dog owners) are prime candidates for the Darwin Award. A general culture who don’t listen to any sensible advice, do what they want regardless. That said, it’s her risk, I’m only concerned when that choice either puts innocent members of the public or kids in the household at risk.

LakeTiticaca · 07/06/2024 17:12

Boltonb · 07/06/2024 12:46

The fact that this woman posted a video dancing with her dog (with cropped ears) and saying she doesn’t give a f*ck if people think they look aggressive etc just confirms a) aggressive nature of these awful dogs and b) the stupidity of so many of the owners

She probably would give a fuck now but she can't.
She's dead

iamreallyabee · 07/06/2024 17:16

lawnseed · 07/06/2024 16:31

Restrict the sizes/breeds/weights of dogs that the public are permitted to keep.

Of course it won't happen, because..... money. So, enjoy the shitshow carnage.

It's quite unfair how cat owners can't keep a puma. If I had one I'd called it Miss Daisy Bloodbath and put a diamante collar on it. It would sleep in my bed and I'd feed it on terriers and the local bird population. It would leave poo the size of rice puddings all over the neighbourhood. You see, cat owners could be as equally thick and perverse as bully owners.

I would call mine Nancy

Megifer · 07/06/2024 17:17

DysonSphere · 07/06/2024 17:09

Yeah but the stereotypes unfortunately are true on this case. Reluctantly I acknowledge it is mostly the poor with these types of dangerous outsized dogs. A big dog is a status symbol inferring instant Kudos and respec' and more understandably, a deterrent against a knife attack.

As said, MC people can be bloody well annoying with the babyfication of their dogs along with zero boundaries in eating spaces (('What? You mean my dog should give way to a human/cyclist/jogger/child on the same foot path? Oh no, poor poodles has right of way' and 'of course my dog has a right to wag it's tail against your foot in the cafe and sit on the seat' What? allergies you say? Well then you should sit somewhere else))

But their dogs (generally) aren't the ones ripping people to shreds on a monthly basis. So there's that.

But that's no reason to price out dog ownership completely for those who probably actually benefit more from owning a dog? Loneliness, mobility issues, lack of purpose, depression....all things that can improve with having a dog (or any pet) and I imagine issues facing 'non MC' owners more?

Of course people should have the means to provide for the animal, but that's not exclusive to the upper classes.