To sleep with a 23 year old?

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Given that I am 42,he knows full well how old I am,we met on a dating site where he wanted to meet older women.ok or creepy age gap?

Speaking as 24 yr old me ,I was asked to play"gooseberry",for one evrning to acoumpsny a lady, to a function, so we indulged in just polite conversation.that was it,oh no...1 week later my fried informed mr that this Lady would like to meet me again,well it ended up Full on for 3 yrs and she was 43,,And thatd as far as i shall comment So Fuck who the hell you want to and enjoy!,

Great result. You are NOT being unreasonable 👏

Isn’t everyone a son or daughter?

This thread is really eye opening. As a 57 year old ( I have graduated to Nansnet but still hop onto topics i find interesting)
Anyway at 57, I find myself single ( long story) but not ready to mingle- been there done that.
Would love a partner for the next stage of my life but I rarely fancy men my own age,

35- 45 are the men I find attractive but as I'm nearing 60 I wouldn't dream of approaching a man of that age.
Also all.the decent ones would could with ex wives, girlfriends and kids and as I'm.no heiress or oil painting for that matter, I'm doomed 😳
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The new Anne Hathaway film , "The Idea of You "
deals with this very issue rather neatly

I say go for it, but remember, if it was the other way around you'd probably find it ick.

Not everyone is your son or daughter. My 18 year old child means my 18 year old son or daughter. Not that they are a minor.

If a 42 years old bloke wrote this post asking if it was ok to fuck as 23 years old girl, this site would go into meltdown.
So what if this young man wants to? Do you really think it' ok to screw someone young enough to be your child?
what do you think he's going to tell his mates?
Yes, it's a free world. Let him have his way with you if you think it will boost your ego. Just ask if you would be happy, and assume just a purely sex relationship was benefitting all parties, if your child was the 23 yo

Dear god, 23 year olds are not boys and girls.

And parental age gap is a stupid indicator of what's ok, for anything other than your own feelings. According to you, 30 and 46 is screwing somebody young enough to be your child, and is therefore wrong.

Don't even get me started on 'having his way with you'. Some of you are just sharing that you don't enjoy sex. Other people do, so myob

Go for it and enjoy every minute.
Life's too short not to grab every opportunity.

His old enough to decide for himself go for it if you both want it what’s it to do with anyone else? X

No op I wouldn't. I'm 42 and I get 25 year olds message me, absolutely not. I've met several 35 year olds and they were bad enough.

This is a pointless thing to say:

If a 42 years old bloke wrote this post asking if it was ok to fuck as 23 years old girl, this site would go into meltdown.

because the odds are, there would be just as much disagreement if that were the question. Or possibly fewer negative comments, in fact, because many MNetters are likely to be in relationships with older men because an age gap that way round is much more common and accepted. Why bother speculating about a different question, though, and acting as if everyone knows the responses? They don’t.

what do you think he's going to tell his mates?

Maybe she doesn’t give the shiniest of shits as long as she enjoys the sex? Personally I wouldn’t care less having done similar in the past.

Unless you’re a mind reader, which I doubt, your comment is bloody stupid.

This! And what do you think she is going to tell her mates? She is the one with the most to boast about.

An age gap hasn't done Joan Collins any harm. Her and Percy seem rock solid.

Same with Barbara Windsor and her husband.

It's not your place to dictate what others do. Your experiences are unique to you and should not be imposed on others.

Just ask if you would be happy, and assume just a purely sex relationship was benefitting all parties, if your child was the 23 yo

The adult child is 23 and doesn’t need approval from anyone whether we like it or not.

Percy looks like he's out with his grandma though.

Fair enough if that’s your experience. What’s weird, though, is people on this thread saying, basically, it’s not to their taste and therefore wrong. That’s very blinkered!

My age gap with DH is bigger than 35-42 and we're very much on the same page. Not all people are the same at the same ages. You could be missing out on great connections by being fixated on age.

Absolutely agree with you. It's nobody's business but 2 consenting ADULTS!! Age ain't nothing but a number, if you click you click!

The point is, a consenting adult doesn't need our approval. As I mentioned, our opinions don't ultimately matter.

Didn't Sarah Millican say it really helped her cope with her divorce? Lol