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to think that this current batch of 18 year olds are REALLY messed up?

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WishIMite · 24/05/2024 09:06

I try not to generalise about groups of people, but I can't help but think, looking at my children who span various ages, that the current batch of 18 year-olds are more of a mess than the other age groups.

So much drug-taking, unable to make eye contact, rudeness (which I think is social ineptness) and lack of socialising together. Just a total lack of social skills and resilience really. They don't even seem to have proper friendship groups and alliances.

Can't help but wonder if lockdown hit them at a really crucial age.

Do other parents of 18 yo wonder the same, or is it just that my 18 yo and friends are particularly shit?

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Maddy70 · 29/05/2024 16:41

That was the same whem i was 18 and my childrens generation when they were 18

They stop amd grow up at some point. Theyre 18!!!

bozzabollix · 29/05/2024 18:41

10kgcookies · 24/05/2024 12:18

@bozzabollix I love this insight!! I wish you could teach me to drive. There’s no availability here (south west)

Come to sunny Kent for an intensive (I say that, but I’m currently full too!)

BruFord · 29/05/2024 19:11

WayOutOfLine · 28/05/2024 21:45

I lecture at university and this is by far the worst cohort for a little while in terms of having the skills for writing essays, they also aren't good at attending, our attendance has been low since Covid, never picked up again even though students said they wanted person to person teaching, a good proportion don't show up. I do think something isn't quite right, I do have lots of great students, but more poor ones than usual, and the combination of lack of skills and then not attending is meaning many aren't doing that well. I don't think they are lacking in intelligence, they aren't engaged though.

@WayOutOfLine That’s really sad to hear. I suppose we all make assumptions according to our own experiences-my DD (19) is finishing her first year and things have gone well for her, both academically and socially. I know she’s worked harder than I did during my first year. 😂

Taxingtaxhelp · 08/06/2024 12:24

FunnysInLaJardin · 24/05/2024 22:24

assume you dont have an 18yo? No one have said they wouldn't do these things but the fact is 18yo's these days are way different to when I was 18 in the 80's, and thank god for that!

You assumed wrong

I have a current 18 year old and 2 that 18 has been and gone. Thanks

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