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Wedding

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MumofHennHals · 15/05/2024 17:59

We are getting married next August,

We are going to do a rehearsal dinner - people don't need to attend, but happy for people to attend, AIBU if I ask people to contribute £50 to pay for their set menu / unlimited 2 hours worth of drinks if they decide to come to it?

How also could I word this to say it's an 'option' and it'll cost them £50

OP posts:
Dennerfold · 16/05/2024 22:54

Kimmeridge · 16/05/2024 19:14

Not slating other posterS plural. Most have sensible & appropriate. There's only been one that was cringeworthy

By all means be pedantic in an attempt to deflect from the main point that you have not made any appropriate contributions to this thread.

semideponent · 16/05/2024 23:14

Thank God I didn't even contemplate this before my wedding in the very early 2000s.

My SIL had one. I'm hazy on memories Who paid (maybe her?maybe joint? Maybe DH?). I'm glad she did.

cherish123 · 16/05/2024 23:35

A rehearsal dinner???

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