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Can't help thinking King Charles is selfish

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Eieiom · 09/05/2024 11:12

Standing back, looking at the Harry situation, I can't help thinking that Charles is the root of all the family toxicity.

He had an affair while married to Diana, which led to their divorce and much unhappiness on her side. After her early death, his children were obviously in a lot of pain. The remote parenting style of the RF probably did little to soften this.
He's managed to marry his affair partner and now he's cutting off one of his sons.
Harry just looks like a really hurt person acting out to me. In most families, they would just be tolerated and forgiven.
I think the RF look very cold.

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pikkumyy77 · 10/05/2024 12:59

Jesus the toxic family behavior that H and M complained about is really on full display here. No wonder they left.

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 13:01

pikkumyy77 · 10/05/2024 12:59

Jesus the toxic family behavior that H and M complained about is really on full display here. No wonder they left.

I don’t think any of us are family members of H&M?

I can’t bear these kind of comments. Should we be fawning and scraping over two lists who have done quite serious damage to the reputation of Britain abroad?

Josette77 · 10/05/2024 13:01

potato57 · 10/05/2024 12:49

She sneers at people all the time, and she outright laughed at Lindsay Hoyle's accent at the coronation.

it's a well-known fact among journalists that they can do deals with her, why do you think there was never anything negative in the media despite how much people loved diana? because she gave them other negative stories and quotes on people like harry to stop them publishing ones about her.

if you don't think it's a very well engineered media campaign spanning many decades you're deluded. there's a reason why people hate harry for doing nothing but don't hate camilla despite her affair and the problems she caused with charles and diana, when diana was one of the most loved and popular people in the uk.

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People mocked her for years. The reason she is liked and respected now is because she put head down and got on with it.

Also Diana wasn't loved by the media at the end of her life. They did a huge turn around after she died.

EasternStandard · 10/05/2024 13:02

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 13:01

I don’t think any of us are family members of H&M?

I can’t bear these kind of comments. Should we be fawning and scraping over two lists who have done quite serious damage to the reputation of Britain abroad?

I don’t think any of us are family members of H&M?

Ha that’s what I thought

potato57 · 10/05/2024 13:04

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 12:56

People don’t hate Camilla?

are you taking the piss?

Also do you have any proof of this other than the serial liar Harry’s word?

I didn't hear anything from Harry, don't know the guy...I worked with a woman who used to be involved in royal press photography, it's an open secret in that part of the journalism world. It wasn't just Harry, it was lots of people...

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 13:06

Josette77 · 10/05/2024 13:01

People mocked her for years. The reason she is liked and respected now is because she put head down and got on with it.

Also Diana wasn't loved by the media at the end of her life. They did a huge turn around after she died.

Yes the media really gaslighted us didn’t they into thinking they adored her when the tide was turning on her before her death.

Catsmere · 10/05/2024 13:07

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 10:48

Same. I’ve lived in a number of countries snd IME the rest of the world get very excited about the RF and whenever they go to London they seek out BP, changing of the Guard etc

Same - my mum and I travelled twice to Britain in the 90s for the sake of the royal history. Which on a long-haul flight from Australia, was quite an undertaking.

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 13:07

potato57 · 10/05/2024 13:04

I didn't hear anything from Harry, don't know the guy...I worked with a woman who used to be involved in royal press photography, it's an open secret in that part of the journalism world. It wasn't just Harry, it was lots of people...

Funny that, I also work in the media and I’ve never heard that Camilla sells stories. Why would she do that? And is it just about Harry? Which stories?

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:09

Josette77 · 10/05/2024 13:01

People mocked her for years. The reason she is liked and respected now is because she put head down and got on with it.

Also Diana wasn't loved by the media at the end of her life. They did a huge turn around after she died.

This is not true about Diana.
What the media used to do was print lovely photos of Diana and then every so often turn it around and sell nasty stories. It sold newspapers. They did it with all famous women. Even Queen Elizabeth had negative stories published about her.

Diana though was very popular. She wore trendy clothes and showcased British fashion designers. She was also respected for her work with HIV and landmines. Both were political issues that most celebrities would not touch, and in both she made a difference.

I was not a "fan" and I think if I had met Diana we would not have had much in common. But Diana was very popular.

Livingtothefull · 10/05/2024 13:12

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 13:01

I don’t think any of us are family members of H&M?

I can’t bear these kind of comments. Should we be fawning and scraping over two lists who have done quite serious damage to the reputation of Britain abroad?

H&M are no longer our concern, they have left. I think it is the RF remaining who have done 'serious damage' to our reputation, when they very publicly supported and bailed out an accused sex offender (Andrew).

BIossomtoes · 10/05/2024 13:28

Josette77 · 10/05/2024 13:01

People mocked her for years. The reason she is liked and respected now is because she put head down and got on with it.

Also Diana wasn't loved by the media at the end of her life. They did a huge turn around after she died.

Exactly. She literally had stuff thrown at her in Waitrose at one point and earned herself the epithet “the most hated woman in Britain”. It took years for her to prove that she was just a decent human who’s not perfect. They’re very lucky to have each other, the love between them is palpable.

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:30

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 11:02

Oh we were actually in Spain and the locals watched the funeral on big screens in local bars and tavernas. It was very odd watching her funeral whilst also sunbathing!

I was on holiday abroad when Diana died. Coverage about her death and the funeral was all over the media.

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:35

potato57 · 10/05/2024 12:49

She sneers at people all the time, and she outright laughed at Lindsay Hoyle's accent at the coronation.

it's a well-known fact among journalists that they can do deals with her, why do you think there was never anything negative in the media despite how much people loved diana? because she gave them other negative stories and quotes on people like harry to stop them publishing ones about her.

if you don't think it's a very well engineered media campaign spanning many decades you're deluded. there's a reason why people hate harry for doing nothing but don't hate camilla despite her affair and the problems she caused with charles and diana, when diana was one of the most loved and popular people in the uk.

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This does not surprise me about Camilla. She is friends with Jeremy Clarkson and Piers Morgan after all.

BIossomtoes · 10/05/2024 13:36

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:30

I was on holiday abroad when Diana died. Coverage about her death and the funeral was all over the media.

And your point is? We all know the world went mad when Diana died.

KimberleyClark · 10/05/2024 13:50

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:30

I was on holiday abroad when Diana died. Coverage about her death and the funeral was all over the media.

The tragic death of a younger, controversial, former member of the British RF, who with the son of an equally controversial figure that she had been dating, would be all over the news wouldn’t it, regardless of how people felt about it.

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:52

A poster claimed the world loved the Queen because when she was abroad when she died and locals were keen to watch her funeral.
So Diana must have been adored by the world.
I don't really thinks he was, I just think the posters claim about the Queen was a bit silly.

derxa · 10/05/2024 13:55

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:35

This does not surprise me about Camilla. She is friends with Jeremy Clarkson and Piers Morgan after all.

I love Jeremy Clarkson

BIossomtoes · 10/05/2024 13:58

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:52

A poster claimed the world loved the Queen because when she was abroad when she died and locals were keen to watch her funeral.
So Diana must have been adored by the world.
I don't really thinks he was, I just think the posters claim about the Queen was a bit silly.

It wasn’t remotely silly. QEll was highly respected and loved globally. She was an institution that anyone under about 75 in the western world couldn’t imagine life without. The global viewing figures for her funeral speak for themselves.

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 14:01

Lots of people watched the Queen's funeral as a historical event.
And plenty of people could imagine life without the Queen. For the vast majority of the population the Queen dying changed nothing in their lives.

CurlewKate · 10/05/2024 14:03

@derxa "I love Jeremy Clarkson"

Surely, however you feel about Meghan, you can't possibly approve what Clarkson said about her?

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 14:03

@CurlewKate Jeremy Clarkson and Camilla are friends.

BIossomtoes · 10/05/2024 14:04

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 14:01

Lots of people watched the Queen's funeral as a historical event.
And plenty of people could imagine life without the Queen. For the vast majority of the population the Queen dying changed nothing in their lives.

Of course it changed nothing in anyone’s life aside from her family. I still immediately see her face when anyone refers to The Queen and it takes a second for my brain to catch up. Most people are the same. Anyway you’re just arguing for the sake of it now.

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 14:06

@blossomtoes You said that anyone under 75 could not imagine life without the Queen before she died. I was saying that was not true.

derxa · 10/05/2024 14:08

CurlewKate · 10/05/2024 14:03

@derxa "I love Jeremy Clarkson"

Surely, however you feel about Meghan, you can't possibly approve what Clarkson said about her?

It was an ill judged article but I don't approve of people being 'cancelled' because they sneer at Meghan. Thankfully he still has his farm series and WWTBAM

YaMuvva · 10/05/2024 14:10

SluggyMuggy · 10/05/2024 13:35

This does not surprise me about Camilla. She is friends with Jeremy Clarkson and Piers Morgan after all.

Is she? Why do you think that?

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