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AIBU to hope that able bodied people will support disabled people against the tory attack on PIP?

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Blackcats7 · 02/05/2024 10:13

I have just been reading posts from many terrified disabled people on a facebook group I belong to.
People are afraid for their lives after the government's recent announcement to stop huge numbers of people with mental health issues qualifying for PIP anymore.
This attempt to scapegoat disabled people has a long history in the tory party and is popular with their traditional core but the attack on PIP is a new low.
Even those claiming PIP for other reasons think they will be the next target and that the tory aim is to pretty much eradicate any support for us with the half hearted usual disguise of "concentrating help on those who need it most" when they know they can't get away with saying what they actually are doing.
Disabled people have votes too (being housebound I thank goodness for postal votes) and I think this current tactic will have a big influence on how those votes are used but my question is how many able bodied people will take this attack on us into account when it comes to the election?
Should this nightmare come to pass there will be blood on government hands because I have no doubt people will die bearing in mind the targets are people with mental health problems and the tory propaganda that they are removing a right to benefit from those who feel a little bit depressed and anxious about life as most people will at some point or another is utter nonsense. Claiming PIP is extremely hard and requires a very high bar to succeed, especially for mental health. Popping to your gp for some anti depressants would not cut it.
So we need your support.
YABU we aren't that bothered or think the govenment is quite right to stop you scrounging bastards
YANBU this is disgusting ableism and we have your back

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coastalhawk · 02/05/2024 21:29

YANBU. What can we do?

Samlewis96 · 02/05/2024 21:29

Ratfinkstinkypink · 02/05/2024 16:27

DH claimed PIP when he got his cancer diagnosis, for a few months it enabled him to continue to work. It helped pay, among other things, for the days he needed off work for chemo as his company only paid SSP, it helped with the miles backwards and forwards to hospital for chemo/scans/appointments, it helped cover the costs of keeping the house warmer than we'd previously needed it. It helped cover the hidden costs of illness/disability. Without it he would've needed to stop work and go onto out of employment benefits and how would that help an already broken system?

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Oh didn't know you could do this. No one mentioned it to me when I had cancer and couldn't work and was self employed

Poorlymumma · 02/05/2024 21:30

Yabu if attitudes during the pandemic are anything to go by.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 02/05/2024 21:30

Babyroobs · 02/05/2024 20:46

Agree with this. In my work I see people often on the old ESA with severe disability premiums, all rent paid, council tax paid and full PIP which they neither need nor use. Had one young man with a mental health issue who rarely left the house, but equally he didn't spent anything to the point where the money just kept building up in his bank account to over 16k and he would then lose his housing benefit and esa and have to pay his rent again until it dropped then he could claim housing benefit again. We were in a constant spiral of repeatedly helping him to re-claim or claim different benefits as the system changes . All he spent was money on a couple of takeaways a week. He actually didn't need over £700 extra PIP money , he didn't pay for carers,. Even without the PIP money he had all rent and council tax paid and £200 a week to live off. It's madness. Now I'm not saying that's the same for everyone with severe MH issues as some will maybe want to go on holidays, have expensive hobbies which help them etc. I appreciate no easy answers but I think we need to acknowledge that not everyone has huge additional costs as a result of their disability.

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Really? REALLY? He didn't have utilities or Internet? He genuinely was left with 200.00 a week after all costs that he didn't need to the point he regularly crossed the 16000 threshold? Goodness.

Scurryfunge12 · 02/05/2024 21:32

SublimeLemonHead · 02/05/2024 21:26

I can’t see why people begrudge a bit of extra money because they don’t ‘need’ every single penny. Get a grip. Are they not allowed any life above their needs? The jealousy is astounding

You is just jealous, innit.

Strong argument.

Well, when it comes down to it, that’s what it is, it’s spitefully minded because people don’t like others getting things they can’t have. They don’t like having to work while others get things for free, it’s a sense of unfairness, that’s the top and bottom of it.

I see it all the time, people who live comfortable, lovely lives yet keep ranting about disabled people scrounging or commiting fraud even though they’ve themselves are doing well in life. it’s a strange mind set. Punching down.

If disabled people could wake up tomorrow, work and live like an average person, they would.

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 02/05/2024 21:34

WishIMite · 02/05/2024 17:41

My disability 'costs' me about £500 a month I suppose (I forgot needing cleaners in the above!). But I work to pay for those costs. And in some ways, I feel as though it's not acceptable for me to feel that way?

Bearing in mind that the tax/benefit ratio has to come down, and playing devil's advocate a bit here, why should disabled people have their cars paid for to get to work, when non-disabled people don't (both often rely on their own transport)?

Do you have any idea how much a wheelchair accessible vehicle costs? It must be so nice to only need a normal car.

Overthebow · 02/05/2024 21:38

Scurryfunge12 · 02/05/2024 21:18

It’s not a disabled person’s fault they are disabled, they’ve already been dealt a bad hand and even if some do work, many can’t, or can’t do the jobs/ hours that that they enjoy and would enable them to earn more money and live comfortably. I can’t see why people begrudge a bit of extra money because they don’t ‘need’ every single penny. Get a grip. Are they not allowed any life above their needs? The jealousy is astounding. Would those people rather be disabled so they could claim all these ‘advantages?’ 🤣

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In an ideal world everyone would have enough money for everything, including all luxuries. But we’re not in an ideal world. There isn’t enough money to cover everything, there’s not enough people working and there’s the col crisis. There are lots of people going without, services needing more funding, NHS and education overstretched. We cannot afford to be giving out benefits for luxuries at the moment. We cannot afford for this amount to be off work, or in part time work and claiming, and the number rising. Not without other services getting more stretched and being cut, or people who are already stretched paying higher taxes. It’s not jealousy, it’s just being realistic.

Livelovebehappy · 02/05/2024 21:38

PassingStranger · 02/05/2024 21:09

There aren't enough jobs for everyone that wants them. Where do they think these jobs are going to magically appear from.
Perhaps the government themselves need to create more jobs.
As for the vouchers thing, don't worry about that it will never happy.
It's unworkable how would you implement that, and at what cost.
They just like to trot it out from time to time.

Of course there are enough jobs for everyone. Go on job sites such as Indeed and there are pages of jobs ranging from unskilled to skilled.

LadyKenya · 02/05/2024 21:38

Babyroobs · 02/05/2024 19:52

I honestly think these assessments need to be scrapped. Anyone could say anything and most of them are telephone assessments . they just cause people stress, then they can't get their point over. It should be based on medical evidence .

I agree with you.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 02/05/2024 21:41

Well, PIP is truly Schroedingers benefit isn't it?

Apparently simultaneously extremely difficult to get, and being dished out like smarties to the undeserving (disabled) rich. Wonder how much of it is being off-shored and spent on designer handbags?

Honestly the attempts to justify its withdrawal are getting more ludicrous by the minute.

Bibnle636 · 02/05/2024 21:43

Overthebow · 02/05/2024 21:38

In an ideal world everyone would have enough money for everything, including all luxuries. But we’re not in an ideal world. There isn’t enough money to cover everything, there’s not enough people working and there’s the col crisis. There are lots of people going without, services needing more funding, NHS and education overstretched. We cannot afford to be giving out benefits for luxuries at the moment. We cannot afford for this amount to be off work, or in part time work and claiming, and the number rising. Not without other services getting more stretched and being cut, or people who are already stretched paying higher taxes. It’s not jealousy, it’s just being realistic.

My daughter can’t work and her pip doesn’t go on luxuries.

Scurryfunge12 · 02/05/2024 21:43

Overthebow · 02/05/2024 21:38

In an ideal world everyone would have enough money for everything, including all luxuries. But we’re not in an ideal world. There isn’t enough money to cover everything, there’s not enough people working and there’s the col crisis. There are lots of people going without, services needing more funding, NHS and education overstretched. We cannot afford to be giving out benefits for luxuries at the moment. We cannot afford for this amount to be off work, or in part time work and claiming, and the number rising. Not without other services getting more stretched and being cut, or people who are already stretched paying higher taxes. It’s not jealousy, it’s just being realistic.

But the government can afford to be pissing money up the wall to pay their already rich donors? Can you not see where the blame lies here? It’s the government stoking hate towards minority groups so they can carry on ripping the country off. There is, or was, enough money, until they raided it and will keep doing so.

Should all disabled people just fuck off and stop being a drain on society, living on gruel and never having any kind of life because it’s a luxury while they live the high life?

MistressoftheDarkSide · 02/05/2024 21:44

Livelovebehappy · 02/05/2024 21:38

Of course there are enough jobs for everyone. Go on job sites such as Indeed and there are pages of jobs ranging from unskilled to skilled.

Zero hour contracts. Jobs demanding flexibility that few, especially the disabled can accommodate. Insecure low paid positions. MLMs masquerading as "self employment opportunities" make up a sizeable proportion.

I'm surprised nobody's suggested Only Fans......

lavenderlou · 02/05/2024 21:49

Some vile responses here from people who clearly cannot open their minds enough to imagine how others actually have to live. Makes you realise why the Tory party actually still gets some votes. I wondered who could possibly still support them but I see they're on this thread.

Livelovebehappy · 02/05/2024 21:52

MistressoftheDarkSide · 02/05/2024 21:44

Zero hour contracts. Jobs demanding flexibility that few, especially the disabled can accommodate. Insecure low paid positions. MLMs masquerading as "self employment opportunities" make up a sizeable proportion.

I'm surprised nobody's suggested Only Fans......

I would say the jobs you’ve stated make up only a small proportion of advertised jobs. Obviously a number of jobs are going to ask for flexibility, like weekend working, shifts etc, but it’s not all that common to have 9 - 5 jobs these days, unless office/admin jobs.

Overthebow · 02/05/2024 21:52

Bibnle636 · 02/05/2024 21:43

My daughter can’t work and her pip doesn’t go on luxuries.

Then she’s probably got nothing to worry about. I don’t think anyone is saying here that those who genuinely can’t work or don’t genuinely need the money for reasonable costs shouldn’t get it.

Bibnle636 · 02/05/2024 21:52

Also many poorly young people are trying to get well enough to be able to study so they can work. My daughter isn’t well enough to study or work. She needs to focus on getting well so she can then study in order to build a future career. Forcing her into a job she can’t do will just make her more ill, push studying back so well paid work is pushed further away from her. I don’t get why there is a need to punish an ill young person who has gone to hell and back with the ptsd to prove it.

Pussycat22 · 02/05/2024 21:53

Fireandflames, I have all these ailments and MAKE myself go to work.

Bibnle636 · 02/05/2024 21:55

Overthebow · 02/05/2024 21:52

Then she’s probably got nothing to worry about. I don’t think anyone is saying here that those who genuinely can’t work or don’t genuinely need the money for reasonable costs shouldn’t get it.

They are. The government is saying anybody who gets pip for MH will get some generic crappy talk therapy ( which won’t treat my DD’s conditions) and must work. She can’t so she’ll have no money. Why can’t she have the treatments she needs and is waiting for and be able to focus on getting well? Forcing her into crappy jobs she won’t be able to sustain longer than a week and which will push her into crisis is just ridiculous.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 02/05/2024 21:56

Livelovebehappy · 02/05/2024 21:52

I would say the jobs you’ve stated make up only a small proportion of advertised jobs. Obviously a number of jobs are going to ask for flexibility, like weekend working, shifts etc, but it’s not all that common to have 9 - 5 jobs these days, unless office/admin jobs.

And that's part of the big problem. Lack of secure jobs across the board topped up by benefits even full time positions. The gig economy proliferates. Hard for many at the thin end of the wedge - a hundred times worse for those with disabilities.

LadyKenya · 02/05/2024 21:58

By far the most senseless part of PIP is the motability scheme imo. Being disabled in many cases, even though qualifying for the highest rate, doesn't mean you need a brand new (unadapted) car. It's a total unnecessary waste in lots of cases.

I beg your pardon, but that is such a ridiculous thing to say. Why on earth would it be a waste, if it could enable some people to access the outside world, that may be closed off to them, on the whole, otherwise? Have you struggled to walk a few meters yourself by any chance?

Livelovebehappy · 02/05/2024 22:00

MistressoftheDarkSide · 02/05/2024 21:56

And that's part of the big problem. Lack of secure jobs across the board topped up by benefits even full time positions. The gig economy proliferates. Hard for many at the thin end of the wedge - a hundred times worse for those with disabilities.

I honestly don’t see a lack of secure jobs. People keep saying how Brexit and the exit of foreign workers on the back of that have created a big void, where there’s a huge shortage of workers, and then seeing comments on here saying there’s absolutely not enough jobs. Which is it?

MistressoftheDarkSide · 02/05/2024 22:01

Livelovebehappy · 02/05/2024 22:00

I honestly don’t see a lack of secure jobs. People keep saying how Brexit and the exit of foreign workers on the back of that have created a big void, where there’s a huge shortage of workers, and then seeing comments on here saying there’s absolutely not enough jobs. Which is it?

Define secure to start with?

XenoBitch · 02/05/2024 22:02

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 02/05/2024 21:34

Do you have any idea how much a wheelchair accessible vehicle costs? It must be so nice to only need a normal car.

This.

I have a friend who uses a mobility scooter, and has to have a big car fitted with a winch so she can get it in and out, and hobble her way to the driver's seat.
But she also WFH, so I guess, according to some on MN, she didn't need her car.

Bibnle636 · 02/05/2024 22:03

Livelovebehappy · 02/05/2024 22:00

I honestly don’t see a lack of secure jobs. People keep saying how Brexit and the exit of foreign workers on the back of that have created a big void, where there’s a huge shortage of workers, and then seeing comments on here saying there’s absolutely not enough jobs. Which is it?

What jobs are you expecting all these people to do?When you have had mental illness your medical history makes it hugely difficult to get jobs. And what if like I’ve said in my daughters case it would be disastrous?