Please go to the police. This is domestic violence - and it only gets worse, it never just stops.
You need a record of your report and a report number. What you've written here is already an excellent start to your report. You can do it online.
It can be difficult to accept - admit, even - that you're an abuse victim. I hope some of the links below will clarify this for you.
He's doing classic abuser behaviour.
He's using the well known DARVO abuser technique. Deny, attack, reverse victim and offender.
‘Now look what you made me do’ is an old, old tactic they often use to push blame on their victim.
‘If you hadn't …(insert bullshit here), I wouldn't have … (insert more bullshit here)’.
And now pretending like nothing’s happened. That abuser technique is called gaslighting.
Your daughter - ‘If a child is under 18 and sees or hears domestic abuse happening to a family member, this is also domestic abuse.’ (Citizens Advice)
And telling your daughter daddy's sorry? Please don't.
You have a duty. To your daughter and yourself, and both your physical and mental safety.
You were terrified and humiliated.
Staying in that house with that man is putting you both in danger.
It's the second most frightening thing, leaving, upheaving everything.
The most frightening thing though is that moment when you and your little girl are in fear for your lives, and what he might do to you or her next.
He doesn't want to marry you. The house is rented. Brilliant - this will make things easier, cleaner.
Please get practical help.
Your family and friends.
The police: www.police.uk/report-domestic-abuse
Citizens advice: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/gender-violence/domestic-violence-and-abuse/
Women's Aid: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/womens-aid-welcomes-2-million-fund-to-help-survivors-of-domestic-abuse/
The NHS: https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/getting-help-for-domestic-violence/