@Curiossir
"It's just a joke" is it really though?🤔
Or
Is it be exposing manifesting the kind of character psyche the kind of man he is,
I was in a relationship for some time with a moody hot headed Misogynistic abusive pschological and emotionally abusive man,
He delighted and loved to crack crude belitting humilating mean jokes about women under the disguise 🥸 of humour ,
Also inflicting sharp tongue saying mean stuff
and threats of violence and once physical too,
It's quite effective weapon to disguise shitty 💩 man's emotional insecurities and issues in life,
as you can get away deflect from all sorts of things using this kind of sense of humour, you would never get away with otherwise,
as some people don't see it for what it is,
He used to do this as a tool 🔧 to deflect boost his ego,
because his mother was not maternal to him and told him he was an accident a mistake that he was born cause she was only 19 years of age,
even though she was married.
He grew up in an old school ways his father liked using his belt as a whip to displine him as a child a lot,
that's how quite often you brought up children back in that era,
he grew up in,
I can understand why being told that by your mother would screw up your mind big time,
However he should have got the right therapy to address his shit childhood issues,
Not inflict his childhood/ teen age traumas onto me or and other women he unfornately came across...