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Would you make a complaint about these paramedics?

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 10:30

I went to my GP the other day as I kept fainting when coughing. The GP said my HR was sky high. Then I coughed and fainted in front of the GP. Afterwards I couldn't move my legs properly. She phoned the hospital who said I need an ambulance. The GP got someone to get me in a wheelchair and take me to the nurse's room where I was put on a bed in a cubicle.

Anyway a few minutes later the ambulance crew turn up (3 of them). They did an ECG - ok but tachycardic. I said my legs were feeling ok by then. They did a lying and standing BP and checked I could feel both sides of my face, could hold both arms up, checked pupils etc. So they say they need to take me to hospital. They start heading off and so I follow them on foot. They're all walking ahead of me, chatting away, not one seeing if I'm ok. So consequently we get into the car park - I have a coughing fit and next thing I know I'm waking up on the car park floor.

I can't stop thinking about it. Were they at fault? Should they have used a wheelchair or at least someone walked with me? At the hospital they wouldn't even let me go to my scans etc in a wheelchair, I had to be taken in my bed. So if GP and nurse wouldn't let me walk was it right that the paramedics did?

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Lesterall · 16/04/2024 16:56

There are some bloody ridiculous replies on here. I've just shown the thread to my paramedic friend. He says send a 'constructive' complaint asking for measures to be put in place to make sure patients were cared for in similar circumstances. As you had been fainting repeatedly, and your obs weren't good, he wouldn't have taken your word for it that you could walk alone. You'd have been in the wheelchair, because why would they walk you when they could be sure you'd be safe in the chair. You should not have been left walking along behind the crew, this was negligent.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 16:59

ZenNudist · 16/04/2024 15:56

I don't think you can complain. The hospital has a policy of people coming in from ambulances being in a wheelchair and they have a supply of wheelchairs for this purpose. The doctors surgery doesn't have a wheelchair and the paramedics could have put you on a stretcher but they'd checked you, tests said you were fine and you said you were fine.

I have clearly stated I was put in a wheelchair at my GPs and the wheelchair was still sitting there in my cubicle.

Also I have made clear the tests weren't fine and I did not say I was fine - I said the exact opposite.

The hospital has no such policy but they did not think a wheelchair would be safe and said I had to go on a trolley.

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pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 17:03

AnotherVice · 16/04/2024 16:32

@Nanny0gg Not all people all of the time but in this case yes, the crew cannot decide how she feels on her legs, only she can.

This is simply incorrect: ill patients may need temporary extra guardianship and care. That is absolutely fundamental. She thought her kegs were eirking but a neurological problem caused her to faint/collapse. Since the problem wasn’t her legs the “observations “ that they did were incorrect.best practice would account for that.

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FriedGold · 16/04/2024 17:04

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You’re totally right. Of course she could have. They should have walked with her. All I’m saying I suppose is that everyone makes mistakes and I feel sorry for them because - well, everyone makes mistakes!! Check out the thread “what mistakes have you made (in your job)” from February this year. I appreciate some jobs are more critical than others and have higher consequences and nothing can excuse it…but I have empathy. That’s all.

AngryLikeHades · 16/04/2024 17:05

Yes they should have been observant in my view.

Nanaof1 · 16/04/2024 17:07

FriedGold · 16/04/2024 16:20

Because “there but for the grace of god go I”. What working person on here has never made a mistake in their job? It’s horrible to go through a complaints procedure - I think people on here are recognising that a formal complaint would have real consequences for what are most probably hard working and conscientious individuals trying to feed their families.

And, when the patient (OP) fainted, if she had fractured her skull, develop a brain bleed and either die or become a vegetable, the only "there for the grace of God go I", would have been all the other patients these medics treated that did NOT have the same experience and the fear that perhaps, they will be next.

So, a car mechanic makes a mistake on your car and accidentally cuts your brake lines. You have an accident and you and your children are badly injured. I am sure you'd say, "Oh well, shit happens!". That is, when you and your child were released from the hospital. FFS! facepalm

2024please · 16/04/2024 17:08

I'm amazed you got an ambulance without having to wait hours for it.

HarrietPierce · 16/04/2024 17:11

Some of these responses to the OP are batshit. This particular crew were negligent.

Livelovebehappy · 16/04/2024 17:11

Of course you should complain. Not with the expectation of compensation, but just to make the hospital aware of the incident. You had fainted several times, it’s irrelevant that you were okay in between as clearly something was happening. A wheelchair should have been used at the very least. What wth is happening with the NHS!?

Londonrach1 · 16/04/2024 17:14

Were they returning to the ambulance to get a trolley and you followed, what were your ops, I wouldn't complain though in this situation.

PostItInABook · 16/04/2024 17:15

I am a Paramedic. I would have walked with you.

It sounds like they did a thorough assessment but at least one of them should still have walked with you. They should also have put in an incident form (datix) for this too and it should have been recorded on the patient report form. I hope you weren’t injured from the fall OP.

I would advise contacting the ambulance trust’s patient experience team to advise them of what happen. Technically it’s a patient safety incident so should be looked into.

EDIT- actually, now I’ve read a bit more…..if the wheelchair was right there I’d probably have suggested to you that we wheel you out…..but would have walked with you if you declined the wheelchair.

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Nanaof1 · 16/04/2024 17:16

AnotherVice · 16/04/2024 16:43

For those surprised by the quick ambulance response. Unfortunately, GPs have the ability to bypass all the triage questions when they call 999 and just request a Category 1 ambulance response. They always do this as it gets the patient out of their door faster even (usually) when it's not life threatening. In all my years with the ambulance service I have attended GP surgeries many, many, many times, ALL have come in a C1s and NONE have been life-threatening. GPs are not usually great with emergencies (or fainting). It figures they would keep OP laying down but she has to get up at some point, whether that is to walk out or just to transfer to the wheelchair. This decision would have been made considering various factors. It's not perfect.
Also, not saying this is the case with the OP but you would be amazed at the number of patients who put themselves on the floor when they think nobody is watching. Unsurprisingly they are usually uninjured. That is not to say we would 'test' somebody in this way but when it does happen it is clinically relevant as it can help to form a differential diagnosis.

Thank my lucky stars that you will never be a medic in charge of me. LOL!

Testing patients? FFS! What's next? You going to decide who is really having a heart attack and who ate a bad curry? Perhaps do exploratory surgery to see if it's REALLY appendicitis or bad gas?

It's always been a problem with a few medics out there. They get a God complex and superiority complex worse than many doctors. facepalm

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 16/04/2024 17:18

FriedGold · 16/04/2024 11:46

having you faint behind them would hopefully be enough of an “oh shit” moment to prompt them to think/act differently next time. I just think a formal complaint is a bit harsh here.

I disagree. I think once OP has her health sorted/stabilised, it is certainly giving feedback to the Trust/Ambulance Service to mitigate the risk of recurrence for other patients

RawBloomers · 16/04/2024 17:19

Glad to hear you’re on the mend, OP. Absolutely make a complaint. These sorts of oversights need following up on and training given, or discipline If their record warrants it.

I can’t believe the excuses some posters come up with for poor service on some threads but to see the same sort of victim blaming nonsense trotted out for careless and dangerous practice is really disheartening. It’s no wonder there are such poor practices when people are jumping at the bit to excuse it.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 16/04/2024 17:19

easylikeasundaymorn · 16/04/2024 14:37

You're making it sound as though Op fainted just to be annoying. Why the aggression?

If you are a medical professional called to take someone who has fainted to hospital its not rocket science to take some basic precautions during transport to try and limit them from further injuring themselves in case they faint again!

Quite - it's not rocket science. A thoughtful child even would understand this

PuddlesPityParty · 16/04/2024 17:20

OP although I do think you should complain in the sense of constructive feedback, I am also a bit skeptical of your motives. You’ve gone from saying one thing to now saying one of them was showing off their lack of knowledge (but all of while you were in no fit state and confused?). I seriously doubt they were showing off, that would be very odd indeed and I would leave out any such embellishments. Also that it took ages for them to notice but you were likely only unconscious for a few seconds?

I think the likelihood is you weren’t meant to follow, but when you did they assumed you could walk hence them holding the doors. Obviously someone should’ve walked with you or waited with you, which is what the feedback should focus on, but your other comments are assumptions and likely not helpful.

Amara123 · 16/04/2024 17:21

What's quite worrying in this thread is that most people do not understand that giving feedback to PALS for improving care quality isn't the same as suing for damages.
In healthcare we NEED to know when things go wrong so we can improve. Better protocols, equipment, training.
Yes getting poor feedback is not pleasant but it's actually factual and helps everyone.
I work in healthcare and have fed back to PALS as a patient, otherwise all these near misses pile up and serious injury occurs. A spirit of helpful feedback helps the service.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 17:22

Boomer55 · 16/04/2024 15:59

Whenever I called an ambulance for my late DH, they always bought in a trolley or chair. But, I guess they thought you were pretty much ok. And made a mistake.

I would forget suing - welcome to the NHS 2024.🙄

I certainly am not planning on suing!
Seems odd they would take me to A&E if I was 'pretty much ok'. And tbh, if they thought I was 'pretty much ok' then they were more incompetent than I thought. I was seriously unwell.

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PampasGrass · 16/04/2024 17:27

@WatermelonWaveclub i remember your previous thread and was one of the people urging you to go get help.

Of course you fucking report this! You had a bloody brain bleed and we’re passing out on coughing with neurological deficit which had been witnessed by your GP. Even if they wanted you to walk then one of the 3 of them should have had eyes on you. Is there any chance where the ambulance was will have CCTV from the surgery or a nearby shop? I would 100% be asking for this if there is a chance. They know they fucked up and they should have made up for it afterwards.

There is a thing that NHS workers can do no wrong. Declaration I am one. Some of the hospital staff are scarily shit but no one can say anything against say nurses who only do night shifts as they things it’s easier and de skill and don’t say fill in nursing home discharge paperwork when it’s quiet to get patients out as they want to sit and do their knitting. Whilst being loud and stopping patients sleep.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 16/04/2024 17:28

Laiste · 16/04/2024 15:12

Wow - so many would be grateful to be left by ambulance crew to bash their head on a car park floor. What fantastic standards we hold them to ay?

I guess OP was lucky she was allowed IN the ambulance? And that she didn't have to run behind it?

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