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Would you make a complaint about these paramedics?

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 10:30

I went to my GP the other day as I kept fainting when coughing. The GP said my HR was sky high. Then I coughed and fainted in front of the GP. Afterwards I couldn't move my legs properly. She phoned the hospital who said I need an ambulance. The GP got someone to get me in a wheelchair and take me to the nurse's room where I was put on a bed in a cubicle.

Anyway a few minutes later the ambulance crew turn up (3 of them). They did an ECG - ok but tachycardic. I said my legs were feeling ok by then. They did a lying and standing BP and checked I could feel both sides of my face, could hold both arms up, checked pupils etc. So they say they need to take me to hospital. They start heading off and so I follow them on foot. They're all walking ahead of me, chatting away, not one seeing if I'm ok. So consequently we get into the car park - I have a coughing fit and next thing I know I'm waking up on the car park floor.

I can't stop thinking about it. Were they at fault? Should they have used a wheelchair or at least someone walked with me? At the hospital they wouldn't even let me go to my scans etc in a wheelchair, I had to be taken in my bed. So if GP and nurse wouldn't let me walk was it right that the paramedics did?

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Nanny0gg · 16/04/2024 16:00

BronwenTheBrave · 16/04/2024 15:09

Sue them. See if you can get them sacked.

What was the point of that? As the OP has no such wish

Or do you not think people should be held accountable for their actions?

Nanny0gg · 16/04/2024 16:01

Boomer55 · 16/04/2024 15:59

Whenever I called an ambulance for my late DH, they always bought in a trolley or chair. But, I guess they thought you were pretty much ok. And made a mistake.

I would forget suing - welcome to the NHS 2024.🙄

She doesn't want to sue

Nanny0gg · 16/04/2024 16:02

AnotherVice · 16/04/2024 13:57

OP, you were the best placed to make the decision on whether to walk or not.

Then why do sick people need to be told what is best for their condition by medical staff?

I highly doubt she was thinking straight

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 16/04/2024 16:02

Ponoka7 · 16/04/2024 11:25

I think that you should contact PALS. Sometimes policies need to be reviewed. As does training (which isn't always adequate). A fall can kill, as well as break bones.

I agree, they sound careless. I have a family member who is a paramedic and no way would they have not walked very closely by a fainter!

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 16:05

GoogleWhacking · 16/04/2024 15:37

No where does this say that they are not technicians or paramedics!! Nationally there are very few instances that a non clinical (no paramedic or technician) team can be sent to a 999 call and they must be immediately backed up by a clinical crew.

Posting random articles doesn't change this.

They don’t employ techs and don’t have many paramedics (charitable sector can’t match NHS pensions) so majority of workforce (paid and unpaid) are EACs.

Conkersinautumn · 16/04/2024 16:06

As a carer walking with anyone at risk of a fall I'd walk alongside or behind. That's fairly basic in training for working in any sort of care or health setting. I'd probably encourage you to use the wheelchair as clearly you were at risk.

pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 16:06

EnglishBluebell · 16/04/2024 13:23

My god. Complaining about Paramedics because YOU randomly fainted before you reached the ambulance?!?! JFC

Oh my god! Complaining that the surgeon didn’t operate just because you randomly chose to bleed out in front of them?! The nerve!

Ihavehadenoughalready · 16/04/2024 16:14

How did you get to GP? I hope you didn't drive.

FriedGold · 16/04/2024 16:20

Iaskedyouthrice · 16/04/2024 13:58

I've changed my mind OP I do think you should put in a complaint to PALS, there needs to be better training on communication with patients at the very least.
I can never understand why, on these types of threads, people try and catch the OP out, or gaslight about what a paramedics job actually entails. Can someone shed any light on why they jump to blame the OP?
The paramedics were wrong. Why is anyone trying to justify it? Have we come to expect nothing from people who have spent years in training?

Because “there but for the grace of god go I”. What working person on here has never made a mistake in their job? It’s horrible to go through a complaints procedure - I think people on here are recognising that a formal complaint would have real consequences for what are most probably hard working and conscientious individuals trying to feed their families.

MyDentistIsCalledCrentist · 16/04/2024 16:26

As someone who has had a reasonable number of dealings with paramedics, it does sound like they were being careless.

They should have been escorting you, not ignoring you. You could have ended up with a serious head injury.

pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 16:26

@FriedGold That is a horribly childish way if looking at things—and so damaging for the health care system and the safety of patients. These are supposedly trained professionals. If they don’t know how to do their job they need more training.

JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 16:26

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:25

Thank you, that's very kind. I must admit I learnt a lot about the different roles that I didn't know from that ambulance ride.

The lead one was a 'tech' but apparently had, had paramedic training. He seemed quite proud of his lack of knowledge, proudly telling the assistant? he had no idea what my meds were. It was odd. Almost like showing off.

Would you mind telling me your reason for getting me to walk to the ambulance? I'd like to know to help me understand. GP thought I needed a wheelchair, nurse thought I needed to be lying down on a bed. So it would be interesting to know why ambulance crew think I should be walking.

I am at home and recovering now, thank you 😊

Many EMTs- techs- do their paramedic training part time while working full time. So he's a qualified tech and learning extra as he goes.

If its not too personal, if you tell me your condition and meds I can tell you if I have much knowledge of them. Its worth knowing that we tend to have a little knowledge about a lot of things, apart from things that are very ambulance specific, which we are expert in.

Walking wise: again, this is just based off what I've read so please don't take is as gospel.

High BP is not an indicator not to walk and neither is tachycardia.

It's good to assess your level of mobility and what effect walking has.

It's sometimes just quicker and easier. My goal is to get the patient in the ambulance quickly.

Using our chair isn't ideal (in your case, I'd use the GP own)

Saying all that, I wasn't there and I don't know your history, didn't get a handover from the GP. And, most importantly, haven't made a visual and physical assessment of you.

Also if you said you didn't want to walk, I wouldn't force you.

DisforDarkChocolate · 16/04/2024 16:27

I would. They knew how you fainted and that it could easily happen again but didn't act accordingly.

Greywitch2 · 16/04/2024 16:30

Laiste · 16/04/2024 15:19

Posters saying OP was lucky anyone at all turned up ect ect - do you feel ''lucky'' if a teacher turns up to teach your kids in the morning?

Or that if just anyone old person turned up - and maybe leaves the kids to go and have a chat - that we should be grateful anyway?

Why are we excusing medical staff in the face of such shite care?

As someone involved in education this is pretty much what happens, to be honest. I'm not suggesting you should be grateful - but it is the norm in many schools.

I don't think parents are aware that many academies are taking what they can get, and not able to recruit qualified teachers in that subject.

Many of your kids' lessons are being 'taught' by 'cover supervisors' who are simply babysitting kids chatting.

AnotherVice · 16/04/2024 16:32

@Nanny0gg Not all people all of the time but in this case yes, the crew cannot decide how she feels on her legs, only she can.

JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 16:34

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:47

That suggests that SJA aren't doing these calls alone but alongside other HCPs.

That is exactly what it means, yes.

MumTeacherofMany · 16/04/2024 16:34

They definitely should have put you in a wheelchair! Very dangerous!

FrogTheWarrior · 16/04/2024 16:38

Why did your GP phone the hospital before 999? Are you already under a certain dept there which they needed to speak to?

I’m guessing from the way you use medical jargon that you are suffering from a long standing condition, I know you mentioned meds that the crew hadn’t heard of. I hope there’s something they can do to help you manage any ongoing symptoms.

On a brighter note - great to hear response times are so good in your area. Let’s hope that continues. A few weeks back my neighbour was struggling to breathe and they called an ambulance at 10pm. When it didn’t arrive, they went to A and E at midnight. A and E didn’t cancel the ambulance and it arrived at 8am the next morning! The crew were about to break the door down until I came out and told them the neighbour had gone to A and E the night before.

HarrietPierce · 16/04/2024 16:38

"I think people on here are recognising that a formal complaint would have real consequences for what are most probably hard working and conscientious individuals trying to feed their families."

The OP could have fractured her skull when she fell on concrete. It would just have been common sense to accompany her rather than walk ahead.

JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 16:39

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 16:05

They don’t employ techs and don’t have many paramedics (charitable sector can’t match NHS pensions) so majority of workforce (paid and unpaid) are EACs.

No one is disputing the staffing of SJA.

You are implying that the majority of calls are answered by ECA crews. That is just not true. SJA are there as back up or to arrive first, backed up by a frontline crew. It clearly states that in the article you linked to.

The vast majority of ambulance crews on the road are NHS.

A non emergency crew will never be sent alone to a cat 1 2 or 3 call, whether its an SJA crew or an NHS one.

Your username is very apt.

AnotherVice · 16/04/2024 16:43

For those surprised by the quick ambulance response. Unfortunately, GPs have the ability to bypass all the triage questions when they call 999 and just request a Category 1 ambulance response. They always do this as it gets the patient out of their door faster even (usually) when it's not life threatening. In all my years with the ambulance service I have attended GP surgeries many, many, many times, ALL have come in a C1s and NONE have been life-threatening. GPs are not usually great with emergencies (or fainting). It figures they would keep OP laying down but she has to get up at some point, whether that is to walk out or just to transfer to the wheelchair. This decision would have been made considering various factors. It's not perfect.
Also, not saying this is the case with the OP but you would be amazed at the number of patients who put themselves on the floor when they think nobody is watching. Unsurprisingly they are usually uninjured. That is not to say we would 'test' somebody in this way but when it does happen it is clinically relevant as it can help to form a differential diagnosis.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 16:47

WiddlinDiddlin · 16/04/2024 15:33

I'd make a constructive complaint via PALS.

If they were going to get a chair/trolley, that doesn't take three people and a clear 'wait there don't move we'll be back' would have been given even if it HAD required the whole crew to fetch it.

I have done this (once, in all the times I have had to call an ambulance, which with a dodgy ticker and lots of co-morbidities, is a fair bit)...

In my case, a paramedic took it upon himself to berate me, at length, for not taking a medication regularly that he had decided I ought to take daily, and had mistaken what that medication was.

So there I am, in severe pain (gallstones), naked in bed with a strange man in my room shouting at me, because he thinks I've not been taking a steroid I should have every day.

In fact he'd mistaken a diuretic I am to take 'as and when' (How I do not know and I am not on any steroids!) which I of course have not been taking every day as I only need to take it occasionally.

He was pretty dismissive and unpleasant, which got worse when I refused the gas and air (makes me spew, particularly when already feeling rough, particularly when travelling backwards in a fucking ambulance) - he kept making nasty comments about people not taking medication being a drain on the NHS! I had the gas and air, threw up (all the medication I'd swallowed half an hour ago when it was due) and this displeased him even more!

PALS took it to the ambulance lot who sent a decent letter of apology and told me more training had been given. Such an event has never happened since!

Oh, that sounds awful! I don't think they know much about medications based on the lot I had so why that particular one thought he knew more about your own medications than you?

That was a good result, though.

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Bubblybits · 16/04/2024 16:49

OP, your responses to this thread suggest you are already secure in your decision that you’re not being unreasonable. It looks a bit like you were just hoping for everyone to agree and start a pile-on for the paramedics. I can’t imagine getting and remaining worked up about this, days later and when you’re recovering. I’d just be focussing on getting better, personally.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 16:51

Fairysteps11 · 16/04/2024 15:39

Are you saying the op shouldn't have had an ambulance turn up to care for her?
Or that she was lucky she had one there so tough luck that she wasn't treated properly?

Ambulances are called because someone needs emergency help. It doesn't matter who or what the situation is, if it is an emergency, it is an emergency.

Crews, regardless of whether they are a trained paramedic or not should be fully looking after their patient. The patient should never be blamed for an emergency that needs attention and that all staff involved in the care should be making sure it is as safe as possible for the patient.

I hope you're feeling so much better op, I imagine it has been very scary for you. I would complain, not on the grounds for monetary gain but for future trainjng so that others aren't put in the same situation you were put in.

Tbh, it was the scariest day of my life. I was so vulnerable and did not feel looked after atall. I've had contact with ambulance crew in the past and they've always been amazing so not sure exactly what went wrong this time.

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 16:53

Everythinggreen · 16/04/2024 15:48

I think like most fields, some are great and some absolutely couldn't care less. The ones who took my sis to hospital as she was in the process of dying behaved appallingly really (and we did raise concerns, not in a get them in trouble way, but that maybe some procedures needed looking at, and it may make them reassess their attitude towards people) yet the ones who came for my elderly mum after a fall that broke her hip couldn't have been nicer or more professional, really lovely ladies.

From what you have said I would raise the concerns yes, otherwise who knows what the complacency could do to someone else in the future.

I'm sorry to hear about your sister 😞

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