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Would you make a complaint about these paramedics?

547 replies

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 10:30

I went to my GP the other day as I kept fainting when coughing. The GP said my HR was sky high. Then I coughed and fainted in front of the GP. Afterwards I couldn't move my legs properly. She phoned the hospital who said I need an ambulance. The GP got someone to get me in a wheelchair and take me to the nurse's room where I was put on a bed in a cubicle.

Anyway a few minutes later the ambulance crew turn up (3 of them). They did an ECG - ok but tachycardic. I said my legs were feeling ok by then. They did a lying and standing BP and checked I could feel both sides of my face, could hold both arms up, checked pupils etc. So they say they need to take me to hospital. They start heading off and so I follow them on foot. They're all walking ahead of me, chatting away, not one seeing if I'm ok. So consequently we get into the car park - I have a coughing fit and next thing I know I'm waking up on the car park floor.

I can't stop thinking about it. Were they at fault? Should they have used a wheelchair or at least someone walked with me? At the hospital they wouldn't even let me go to my scans etc in a wheelchair, I had to be taken in my bed. So if GP and nurse wouldn't let me walk was it right that the paramedics did?

OP posts:
hollyivy123 · 16/04/2024 15:22

Why not contact the GP surgery if you are unsure whether to make a complaint - they may have witnessed the incident and be able to provide further advice

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 15:22

Nonsense, is it?

Would you make a complaint about these paramedics?
JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 15:24

Yes. If they have the relevant crew on board. Same as an NHS ambulance. And SJA crews are MINIMAL compared to the NHS crews working each day.

One more thing- you said earlier paramedics have to have a degree. That's not true either.

You clearly only have half the facts so please stop telling people that in an emergency they won't be getting a qualified crew.

neilyoungismyhero · 16/04/2024 15:24

Seeline · 16/04/2024 11:22

Did they actually tell you to walk?
To just follow along?

Could they have expected for you to wait and they would have come back after stowing equipment etc?
Did you query it at the time - if you still felt unwell surely you told them?

They were aware when she had a coughing fit, which comes on randomly, that she faints. Even with a common garden cold often a change in atmosphere brings on a coughing fit. They should have been mindful of this despite her obs being okay. They were neglectful and yes I would complain. It was their job to look after the OP and they didn't, as a PP said.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:25

JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 14:59

Hi OP

I'm absolutely not making excuses for the crew, just taking you through my thought process.

Without having been there, from what I've read it's not how I personally would have acted. I think I'd have let you walk (few reasons for this) but I absolutely would have been beside you.

Third person was very probably a student. The PP earlier is talking about non emergency transport. All front line 999 ambulances have at least an EMT on board. Most have a paramedic these days

I'm very sorry you felt dismissed. That's not up to standard at all. I really hope you're doing better, please feel free to ask me anything.

Thank you, that's very kind. I must admit I learnt a lot about the different roles that I didn't know from that ambulance ride.

The lead one was a 'tech' but apparently had, had paramedic training. He seemed quite proud of his lack of knowledge, proudly telling the assistant? he had no idea what my meds were. It was odd. Almost like showing off.

Would you mind telling me your reason for getting me to walk to the ambulance? I'd like to know to help me understand. GP thought I needed a wheelchair, nurse thought I needed to be lying down on a bed. So it would be interesting to know why ambulance crew think I should be walking.

I am at home and recovering now, thank you 😊

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JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 15:25

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 15:22

Nonsense, is it?

As highlighted, it clearly states that the DJA crew is responding WITH a frontline crew to back them up or possibly get there first with a defib and an NHS crew en route.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:29

Greywitch2 · 16/04/2024 15:08

I can't get over the fact that they were there within 'a few minutes'.

When my DH had a stroke it took the ambulance crew 1hr 40 minutes to arrive. I think you were incredibly lucky someone came to be honest.

And my 94 year old aunt waited over 4 hours lying outside on the pavement with a broken shoulder for an ambulance to arrive.

Edited

I was lucky someone came? That suggests I didn't deserve anyone to come. Did your DH deserve anyone to come?

They clearly felt it was an emergency hence coming so quickly (and it was.)

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:32

Laiste · 16/04/2024 15:12

Wow - so many would be grateful to be left by ambulance crew to bash their head on a car park floor. What fantastic standards we hold them to ay?

I guess OP was lucky she was allowed IN the ambulance? And that she didn't have to run behind it?

That made me laugh 😂 I mean after I'd deliberately passed out, thereby inconveniencing them further I'm surprised too!

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WiddlinDiddlin · 16/04/2024 15:33

I'd make a constructive complaint via PALS.

If they were going to get a chair/trolley, that doesn't take three people and a clear 'wait there don't move we'll be back' would have been given even if it HAD required the whole crew to fetch it.

I have done this (once, in all the times I have had to call an ambulance, which with a dodgy ticker and lots of co-morbidities, is a fair bit)...

In my case, a paramedic took it upon himself to berate me, at length, for not taking a medication regularly that he had decided I ought to take daily, and had mistaken what that medication was.

So there I am, in severe pain (gallstones), naked in bed with a strange man in my room shouting at me, because he thinks I've not been taking a steroid I should have every day.

In fact he'd mistaken a diuretic I am to take 'as and when' (How I do not know and I am not on any steroids!) which I of course have not been taking every day as I only need to take it occasionally.

He was pretty dismissive and unpleasant, which got worse when I refused the gas and air (makes me spew, particularly when already feeling rough, particularly when travelling backwards in a fucking ambulance) - he kept making nasty comments about people not taking medication being a drain on the NHS! I had the gas and air, threw up (all the medication I'd swallowed half an hour ago when it was due) and this displeased him even more!

PALS took it to the ambulance lot who sent a decent letter of apology and told me more training had been given. Such an event has never happened since!

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:35

Smokeysgirl · 16/04/2024 15:14

My dh collapsed in similar circumstances. He was wheeled to the ambulance. I definitely would have expected someone to have at least walked at the side of you, no disrespect but are you sure they just expected you to follow them and they weren't going back to the ambulance to get a wheelchair and going to come back for you? I hope you are OK now.

I definitely could have misunderstood what I was meant to do. However there was a wheelchair in my cubicle and they were aware I was following them and didn't guide me back to the cubicle.

I'm recovering, thank you.

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GoogleWhacking · 16/04/2024 15:37

No where does this say that they are not technicians or paramedics!! Nationally there are very few instances that a non clinical (no paramedic or technician) team can be sent to a 999 call and they must be immediately backed up by a clinical crew.

Posting random articles doesn't change this.

Fairysteps11 · 16/04/2024 15:39

Greywitch2 · 16/04/2024 15:08

I can't get over the fact that they were there within 'a few minutes'.

When my DH had a stroke it took the ambulance crew 1hr 40 minutes to arrive. I think you were incredibly lucky someone came to be honest.

And my 94 year old aunt waited over 4 hours lying outside on the pavement with a broken shoulder for an ambulance to arrive.

Edited

Are you saying the op shouldn't have had an ambulance turn up to care for her?
Or that she was lucky she had one there so tough luck that she wasn't treated properly?

Ambulances are called because someone needs emergency help. It doesn't matter who or what the situation is, if it is an emergency, it is an emergency.

Crews, regardless of whether they are a trained paramedic or not should be fully looking after their patient. The patient should never be blamed for an emergency that needs attention and that all staff involved in the care should be making sure it is as safe as possible for the patient.

I hope you're feeling so much better op, I imagine it has been very scary for you. I would complain, not on the grounds for monetary gain but for future trainjng so that others aren't put in the same situation you were put in.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:40

GoogleWhacking · 16/04/2024 15:18

I don't agree with this as I we are taught not to catch people as they fall, as you can end up injured. If a patient says their legs are OK then I'd let them walk, but I would walk beside them.

So not only you would make someone walk who is highly likely to fall you wouldn't even try to catch their fall. There's more to walking than just legs!

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:43

PickledPurplePickle · 16/04/2024 15:22

Are you sure they didn’t go to get a stretcher and turned round to see that you have followed them?

No because they held the door open for me when coming out the nurses clinic so knew I was there. They didn't at that point guide me back to my cubicle.

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HarrietPierce · 16/04/2024 15:44

BronwenTheBrave · Today 15:09
"Sue them. See if you can get them sacked."

As you well know the OP is not asking for any such thing. Why make such a ridiculous comment,

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 15:47

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 15:22

Nonsense, is it?

That suggests that SJA aren't doing these calls alone but alongside other HCPs.

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Mischance · 16/04/2024 15:48

It was not unreasonable for you to walk - but to leave you walking on your own is not acceptable.

Everythinggreen · 16/04/2024 15:48

I think like most fields, some are great and some absolutely couldn't care less. The ones who took my sis to hospital as she was in the process of dying behaved appallingly really (and we did raise concerns, not in a get them in trouble way, but that maybe some procedures needed looking at, and it may make them reassess their attitude towards people) yet the ones who came for my elderly mum after a fall that broke her hip couldn't have been nicer or more professional, really lovely ladies.

From what you have said I would raise the concerns yes, otherwise who knows what the complacency could do to someone else in the future.

Nanny0gg · 16/04/2024 15:51

Spirallingdownwards · 16/04/2024 11:19

I wouldn't. They had just carried out a series of comprehensive checks on you and whilst it was unfortunate that you had a further coughing fit they were there to tend to you.

But they didn't.

At least one of them should have walked with her

Nanny0gg · 16/04/2024 15:52

ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 16/04/2024 11:22

Personally I would not complain. I'd ask myself why I followed them on foot and did not say I cannot make it I need to use a wheelchair to be honest.

You said your legs were OK and so was your BP so I assume they thought you were OK to walk. If they were polite and respectful when treating you I would assume no malice.

Not the point

Someone should have walked with her

Nanny0gg · 16/04/2024 15:56

DragonGypsyDoris · 16/04/2024 12:52

What would a complaint achieve? It wouldn't guarantee better future care for other patients, because every case is treated on what they see at the time. You can't blame them for what happened.

Of course you can!

What do you think the repercussions might have been if the OP had been seriously hurt when she fell on their 'watch'?

ZenNudist · 16/04/2024 15:56

I don't think you can complain. The hospital has a policy of people coming in from ambulances being in a wheelchair and they have a supply of wheelchairs for this purpose. The doctors surgery doesn't have a wheelchair and the paramedics could have put you on a stretcher but they'd checked you, tests said you were fine and you said you were fine.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 16/04/2024 15:57

Allowing you to walk was ok.

Walking so far ahead of you, talking to each other and not paying attention to you wasn't. It's that simple.

It could be they need further training, a reminding of protocols or it's a wider/trust issue a change of protocols.

It's not the end of the world if you complain as it's an easy fix and it will prevent other patients getting seriously injured in a similar situation.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 16/04/2024 15:59

ZenNudist · 16/04/2024 15:56

I don't think you can complain. The hospital has a policy of people coming in from ambulances being in a wheelchair and they have a supply of wheelchairs for this purpose. The doctors surgery doesn't have a wheelchair and the paramedics could have put you on a stretcher but they'd checked you, tests said you were fine and you said you were fine.

Of course she can. You watch the patient. As soon as they arrived on the premises, OP was in their care. At least one of them should've walked with her.

Boomer55 · 16/04/2024 15:59

Whenever I called an ambulance for my late DH, they always bought in a trolley or chair. But, I guess they thought you were pretty much ok. And made a mistake.

I would forget suing - welcome to the NHS 2024.🙄