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Would you make a complaint about these paramedics?

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 10:30

I went to my GP the other day as I kept fainting when coughing. The GP said my HR was sky high. Then I coughed and fainted in front of the GP. Afterwards I couldn't move my legs properly. She phoned the hospital who said I need an ambulance. The GP got someone to get me in a wheelchair and take me to the nurse's room where I was put on a bed in a cubicle.

Anyway a few minutes later the ambulance crew turn up (3 of them). They did an ECG - ok but tachycardic. I said my legs were feeling ok by then. They did a lying and standing BP and checked I could feel both sides of my face, could hold both arms up, checked pupils etc. So they say they need to take me to hospital. They start heading off and so I follow them on foot. They're all walking ahead of me, chatting away, not one seeing if I'm ok. So consequently we get into the car park - I have a coughing fit and next thing I know I'm waking up on the car park floor.

I can't stop thinking about it. Were they at fault? Should they have used a wheelchair or at least someone walked with me? At the hospital they wouldn't even let me go to my scans etc in a wheelchair, I had to be taken in my bed. So if GP and nurse wouldn't let me walk was it right that the paramedics did?

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Blushingm · 16/04/2024 18:12

Parts of this you say you don't know as you were so unwell but other bits you seem to recall really clearly. You say you can't remember what was said so I'd it possible you said you could walk?

I'm not sure what putting in a complaint will achieve as your recollection sounds hazy

Perhaps put your efforts in to recovering from what sounds a frightening experience and not dwelling on this? You've no lasting damage to you from your faint in the car park

hollyivy123 · 16/04/2024 18:15

Because OP recollection seems hazy that's why I suggested asking the GP surgery their opinion on it as witnesses. If she's so sure that's what happened, then the GP will back her up.

Crazymama1980 · 16/04/2024 18:16

I would definitely make a report.

I was walked to an ambulance whilst having a heart attack. They kept telling me I wasn’t having a heart attack and it was pretty obvious I was ☹️

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 16/04/2024 18:36

pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 12:37

OP should complain for the sake of OTHER PEOPLE. Its literally the job of the EMTs to get people in poor shape safely to the hospital. Everyone saying “take some responsibility “ and “oh now the EMTs get it was not a one off when she hit the floor for the third time” ? I can’t find words to describe how moronic that is. The EMTs did not correctly evaluate this patient for the risk of collapse, snd she did collapse and was needlessly injured while in their care. There is no excuse for this! They should be reported so they can receive more training.

^The voice of reason.
👏🏻👏🏻

Hope you make a full recovery OP.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 16/04/2024 18:39

Blushingm · 16/04/2024 18:12

Parts of this you say you don't know as you were so unwell but other bits you seem to recall really clearly. You say you can't remember what was said so I'd it possible you said you could walk?

I'm not sure what putting in a complaint will achieve as your recollection sounds hazy

Perhaps put your efforts in to recovering from what sounds a frightening experience and not dwelling on this? You've no lasting damage to you from your faint in the car park

It's irrelevant really if OP remembers everything or not. Plenty of patients can't safely assess their needs for various reasons.

She was in their care. You don't walk off in front of a patient (especially one at risk of fainting) and let them walk by themselves.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 18:40

JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 16:26

Many EMTs- techs- do their paramedic training part time while working full time. So he's a qualified tech and learning extra as he goes.

If its not too personal, if you tell me your condition and meds I can tell you if I have much knowledge of them. Its worth knowing that we tend to have a little knowledge about a lot of things, apart from things that are very ambulance specific, which we are expert in.

Walking wise: again, this is just based off what I've read so please don't take is as gospel.

High BP is not an indicator not to walk and neither is tachycardia.

It's good to assess your level of mobility and what effect walking has.

It's sometimes just quicker and easier. My goal is to get the patient in the ambulance quickly.

Using our chair isn't ideal (in your case, I'd use the GP own)

Saying all that, I wasn't there and I don't know your history, didn't get a handover from the GP. And, most importantly, haven't made a visual and physical assessment of you.

Also if you said you didn't want to walk, I wouldn't force you.

It wasn't so much that they didn't know about my meds or condition or acute illness - I wouldn't necessarily expect them to. It was the way he proudly just went through my meds declaring he had no idea what they were. I was a bit surprised they didn't know there is a whooping cough outbreak currently. But apparently only children get it. My GP couldn't have diagnosed me with it, maybe they were just thinking about it. This was what the assistant? was being taught. I ended up showing them the messages from Public health. He literally dismissed everything I said. Actually, the more I write the more cross I am. I started by just wanting to raise the issue of fainting on the way to the ambulance but the more I think about it the more comes back and I feel angry!

The thing is - is it really quicker and easier to get a patient who most likely will faint into an ambulance on foot or by using the available wheelchair?

The high BP/HR needs to be looked at alongside the entire history including the neurological assessment. Because what was happening to me was beyond just the fainting. But even if that was beyond the scope of the technician. The history that this patient keeps fainting due to coughing fits that happen when she moves, this was observed by the GP as soon as she moved into the surgery she had a coughing fit and fainted. Most likely if she walks to the ambulance she will have a coughing fit and faint. Do we want to have to try and hold her up or should we use the wheelchair (or shall we just let her make her own way with no support atall?) It seems an easy choice to me. I'm trying to understand why they did what they did but so far I'm still in the dark. I can't see any good reason for it.

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 18:43

Greywitch2 · 16/04/2024 16:30

As someone involved in education this is pretty much what happens, to be honest. I'm not suggesting you should be grateful - but it is the norm in many schools.

I don't think parents are aware that many academies are taking what they can get, and not able to recruit qualified teachers in that subject.

Many of your kids' lessons are being 'taught' by 'cover supervisors' who are simply babysitting kids chatting.

Not at my DD's school, tbf.

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Thriving30 · 16/04/2024 18:44

How do they know the brain bleed wasn't from when you fell and banged your head?

PuddlesPityParty · 16/04/2024 18:46

RawBloomers · 16/04/2024 17:33

Your analysis here is at least as much assumption as the OP’s. We have no idea if they wanted her to stay or to follow. And a few seconds is ages if she is in their care. There is a reason ambulances aren’t single crewed, it’s so there is always someone focused on the patient.

OP should make a complaint and tell everything that happened not simply emphasize the bit you find important, so that the ambulance service can assess the extent to which protocols were or weren’t followed at each stage (or whether there is a gap in protocols) and provide feedback, training or discipline as appropriate.

Yes, as I did say she should complain 🙄 but seriously you think someone was showing off their lack of knowledge?

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 18:46

AnotherVice · 16/04/2024 16:32

@Nanny0gg Not all people all of the time but in this case yes, the crew cannot decide how she feels on her legs, only she can.

It's nothing to do with how I 'felt on my legs'. Ignoring the neurological situation (which I've not gone into), the point is I was fainting. I could feel as strong as anything on my legs - it's not going to stop me fainting.

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RawBloomers · 16/04/2024 18:50

PuddlesPityParty · 16/04/2024 18:46

Yes, as I did say she should complain 🙄 but seriously you think someone was showing off their lack of knowledge?

I don’t know. And I’m not going to assume one way or another. I’ve worked in emergency services and while most people are doing their best there are a few arseholes.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 18:53

FrogTheWarrior · 16/04/2024 16:38

Why did your GP phone the hospital before 999? Are you already under a certain dept there which they needed to speak to?

I’m guessing from the way you use medical jargon that you are suffering from a long standing condition, I know you mentioned meds that the crew hadn’t heard of. I hope there’s something they can do to help you manage any ongoing symptoms.

On a brighter note - great to hear response times are so good in your area. Let’s hope that continues. A few weeks back my neighbour was struggling to breathe and they called an ambulance at 10pm. When it didn’t arrive, they went to A and E at midnight. A and E didn’t cancel the ambulance and it arrived at 8am the next morning! The crew were about to break the door down until I came out and told them the neighbour had gone to A and E the night before.

We have a 'navigator' system at the hospital where they advise the best/quickest route for the patient. In my case they sent an ambulance.

Apologies for the jargon. I've tried to avoid it. I'm a HCP (completely different setting to A&E.)

Yes, it was a good response time and just as well considering my situation. I'm sorry to hear about your neighbour.

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JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 18:54

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 18:40

It wasn't so much that they didn't know about my meds or condition or acute illness - I wouldn't necessarily expect them to. It was the way he proudly just went through my meds declaring he had no idea what they were. I was a bit surprised they didn't know there is a whooping cough outbreak currently. But apparently only children get it. My GP couldn't have diagnosed me with it, maybe they were just thinking about it. This was what the assistant? was being taught. I ended up showing them the messages from Public health. He literally dismissed everything I said. Actually, the more I write the more cross I am. I started by just wanting to raise the issue of fainting on the way to the ambulance but the more I think about it the more comes back and I feel angry!

The thing is - is it really quicker and easier to get a patient who most likely will faint into an ambulance on foot or by using the available wheelchair?

The high BP/HR needs to be looked at alongside the entire history including the neurological assessment. Because what was happening to me was beyond just the fainting. But even if that was beyond the scope of the technician. The history that this patient keeps fainting due to coughing fits that happen when she moves, this was observed by the GP as soon as she moved into the surgery she had a coughing fit and fainted. Most likely if she walks to the ambulance she will have a coughing fit and faint. Do we want to have to try and hold her up or should we use the wheelchair (or shall we just let her make her own way with no support atall?) It seems an easy choice to me. I'm trying to understand why they did what they did but so far I'm still in the dark. I can't see any good reason for it.

I do agree with you, it sounds like I'd have put you in the GPs wheelchair.

Coming across as dismissive is never ok. I'm genuinely sorry to hear that.

The medications- I guess it depends how it was said. If they're not common ones it's likely we wouldn't have heard of them. I often look them up so I am informed and I'll be honest with the patient that I'm doing that.

If I'm 100% honest, I had no idea there was a whooping cough outbreak! Most vases of whooping cough are dealt with by GPs, not us so it's not something that's announced to us as a matter of course. (Or I missed the bulletin)

PuddlesPityParty · 16/04/2024 18:55

RawBloomers · 16/04/2024 18:50

I don’t know. And I’m not going to assume one way or another. I’ve worked in emergency services and while most people are doing their best there are a few arseholes.

Sounds more like he was stating out loud he didn’t know it and OP is getting herself wound up.

PickledMumion · 16/04/2024 18:55

How did you get yourself to the GP in the first place? It sounds like even you didn't realise how unwell you were, so it seems understandable that the paramedics also didn't realise the severity. Especially if you "happily" followed them on foot without saying that you needed a chair.

If anything, I would say that the GP/practice manager should have done a better handover if you weren't well enough or aware enough yourself.

Blushingm · 16/04/2024 18:58

@ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat what I'm saying is she can't really remember what happened - her recollection is hazy - she says she can't remember what was said - they could have said 'stay there'

We don't know exactly what has happened and she doesn't either. I'm saying concentrate on recovering

BrainFullOfSpiders · 16/04/2024 18:59

@WatermelonWaveclub I would complain and I would also ask for a conversation with the paramedics to understand their reasoning/thinking at the time.

As a nurse myself, and I speak for our team, when we get a complaint we look back, debrief and learn from it. We always appreciate this as it helps us to do better. We always want to do better.

It sounds to me like you have a lot of questions only they can answer so write everything down while it’s fresh and when you’re ready you can send it to PaLs.

I have also made a complaint before and asked the person in question to be given extra training/support.

To me this sounds like unfortunately you may have had a team with less experience and your health presentation was unusual so they could not draw upon past experiences.

I do wonder where your GP and practice nurse had gone? Why did they also let you walk? They too should have spoke up if still with you. I would not let a patient of mine walk off if I was worried they would collapse again.

Overall I feel there’s lots to learn here for the team involved. Additionally, I feel ultimately you may need support processing everything that has happened to you.

Glad to read you are on the mend

LardoBurrows · 16/04/2024 18:59

JFC, no wonder the service standards of the NHS are so low. We obviously have the service so many on here deserve. It's not a fucking charity and it needs to be held to high standards. The ambulance crew were absolutely negligent, they either were complete imbeciles or just did not give a shit about their patient. Surely anyone with even a modicum of common sense, let alone basic medical training would not have left someone like Op walk unaided and behind them, to the ambulance.

If we don't complain and demand and expect better standards from our health service then we will be stuck indefinitely with a NHS with standards far, far below that of much of Europe. We pay for the service and it needs to be held accountable for its mistakes just like any other service provider.

Please complain Op, because the outcome of your fall could have been catastrophic and was completely unavoidable. Those medics urgently need some training and a bollocking about their conduct.

Eastcoastie · 16/04/2024 19:01

Yes definitely complain. This sounds ridiculous. If you hit your head harder then it could have been a lot worse.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:01

AnotherVice · 16/04/2024 16:43

For those surprised by the quick ambulance response. Unfortunately, GPs have the ability to bypass all the triage questions when they call 999 and just request a Category 1 ambulance response. They always do this as it gets the patient out of their door faster even (usually) when it's not life threatening. In all my years with the ambulance service I have attended GP surgeries many, many, many times, ALL have come in a C1s and NONE have been life-threatening. GPs are not usually great with emergencies (or fainting). It figures they would keep OP laying down but she has to get up at some point, whether that is to walk out or just to transfer to the wheelchair. This decision would have been made considering various factors. It's not perfect.
Also, not saying this is the case with the OP but you would be amazed at the number of patients who put themselves on the floor when they think nobody is watching. Unsurprisingly they are usually uninjured. That is not to say we would 'test' somebody in this way but when it does happen it is clinically relevant as it can help to form a differential diagnosis.

GPs here phone the hospital and they make the decision. My condition was life threatening hence the fast response. Luckily I'd sat down before I fainted. And yes, I have to get up but considering I will most likely fall, perhaps don't just walk off and ignore me. The GP had observed everything that happened so not sure they needed to watch me faint to help their differential diagnosis! And they couldn't even get that right as noone was watching when it happened! 😂

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Irridescantshimmmer · 16/04/2024 19:02

They should have wheeled you out on a chair.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:06

Bubblybits · 16/04/2024 16:49

OP, your responses to this thread suggest you are already secure in your decision that you’re not being unreasonable. It looks a bit like you were just hoping for everyone to agree and start a pile-on for the paramedics. I can’t imagine getting and remaining worked up about this, days later and when you’re recovering. I’d just be focussing on getting better, personally.

You know what I wasn't sure to start with. And I thought some ambulance crew may be able to explain why this happened. But noone has been able to. And most have said I should raise it so that has validated my upset. But it is all coming back as I talk about it. I'm still gradually piecing together things from a really traumatic experience. It's actually helping to get all those vulnerable feelings and anger out. I've only just got worked up about it - I was too unwell before. But it is good to get it all out. It is helping me move on and recover.

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Otherstories2002 · 16/04/2024 19:09

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 12:09

They weren't there they were heading off in front of me. Took them a while to notice I was on the floor, tbh!

How do you know it took them a while to notice? Had they driven off?

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:11

2024please · 16/04/2024 17:08

I'm amazed you got an ambulance without having to wait hours for it.

I had to call an ambulance for a life threatening condition a few months ago and it also arrived in a few minutes, thankfully.

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Castleview6 · 16/04/2024 19:12

I wonder if you need to complain or just raise this as an issue so it can be learnt from? It’s horrible for staff to go through a complaint procedure so maybe just sharing it would be better.