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Would you make a complaint about these paramedics?

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 10:30

I went to my GP the other day as I kept fainting when coughing. The GP said my HR was sky high. Then I coughed and fainted in front of the GP. Afterwards I couldn't move my legs properly. She phoned the hospital who said I need an ambulance. The GP got someone to get me in a wheelchair and take me to the nurse's room where I was put on a bed in a cubicle.

Anyway a few minutes later the ambulance crew turn up (3 of them). They did an ECG - ok but tachycardic. I said my legs were feeling ok by then. They did a lying and standing BP and checked I could feel both sides of my face, could hold both arms up, checked pupils etc. So they say they need to take me to hospital. They start heading off and so I follow them on foot. They're all walking ahead of me, chatting away, not one seeing if I'm ok. So consequently we get into the car park - I have a coughing fit and next thing I know I'm waking up on the car park floor.

I can't stop thinking about it. Were they at fault? Should they have used a wheelchair or at least someone walked with me? At the hospital they wouldn't even let me go to my scans etc in a wheelchair, I had to be taken in my bed. So if GP and nurse wouldn't let me walk was it right that the paramedics did?

OP posts:
coldweathertherapy · 16/04/2024 19:14

Sorry you’ve had a bad experience OP.
The more you’ve explained things, the less I feel I understand.
Was the cough an acute illness or is this a chronic condition?
You have fainted on numerous occasions and I wondered how many times roughly and over what period of time?
How were you coping at home?
It must have been difficult to get to the surgery with your coughing and risk of fainting and falling.
When you say your observations were not ok, do you mean just your heart rate and blood pressure, or also your neurological observations?
Did the doctor do any other checks?
You say you had a brain bleed and I just wondered what sort of a bleed and at what point it could have happened since you’ve had severe falls.
Obv, if the doctor at the surgery who examined you wasn’t happy with your neurological observations and your had reported fainting episodes with falls when you were alone and were complaining of a headache, I absolutely think they should have ensured that you had a wheelchair to the ambulance.
Was the doctor or nurse present when the paramedics arrived? It sounds as though they weren’t around at this point to ensure that you were handed over appropriately.
Did you have surgery for the bleed and were you in hospital for long? I’d imagine it might have been tricky to take you to theatre with your cough, depending on what was causing it.
Glad you’re on the mend!

pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 19:20

The EMTS should have filed an incident report—in the US such a report is mandatory. The OP was the patient, in vulnerable state. Whether her memory is hazy or clear the fact retains the EMT’s didn’t strap her to a gurney or use the wheelchair which they absolutely should have done.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 16/04/2024 19:24

If OP died or seriously injured herself would you still say "no big deal"? Because that might be the next patient. That's what this is about. Not OP seeking compensation, or wanting their jobs or making their lives miserable.

It was a serious incident and negligence. Not malicious, not on purpose. Not an accident either. She was in their care. She was their responsibility.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:27

Londonrach1 · 16/04/2024 17:14

Were they returning to the ambulance to get a trolley and you followed, what were your ops, I wouldn't complain though in this situation.

I don't think so as they were aware I was behind them and just ignored me which surely they wouldn't have done if they felt I needed a trolley.

My BP and HR were high (particularly high for me but ambulance man not interested in baselines) Sats were a bit low. Resps were high. I had broken out in a cold sweat and had an awful headache and nausea. I had some neurological symptoms. Background was I had whooping cough and was coughing so violently I was vomiting and fainting.

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KidsandKindness · 16/04/2024 19:29

I can't help remembering a time when I had what, in those days, was referred to as a 'slipped disc'. The GP came out to see me at home, and said he would see me in a week's time. By then I was feeling much better, so made an appointment and went to the surgery. Upon walking into his office, the GP said to me 'What on earth are you doing here?' I said, 'You told me you'd see me in a week', to which he responded, 'Yes, I meant I would come and see you at home, not that you should come to me'. The story goes on, but the rest isn't relevant. The point is, that your story immediately made me think, did they actually say, follow us out to the ambulance, or were they actually going to the ambulance, to get you a wheelchair or stretcher, and you just assumed you were meant to follow them?

Purplecatshopaholic · 16/04/2024 19:29

I wouldn’t complain no. They made an assessment which arguably was wrong. They are human. These guys have a hard enough job. I hope you are feeling better now.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:30

PostItInABook · 16/04/2024 17:15

I am a Paramedic. I would have walked with you.

It sounds like they did a thorough assessment but at least one of them should still have walked with you. They should also have put in an incident form (datix) for this too and it should have been recorded on the patient report form. I hope you weren’t injured from the fall OP.

I would advise contacting the ambulance trust’s patient experience team to advise them of what happen. Technically it’s a patient safety incident so should be looked into.

EDIT- actually, now I’ve read a bit more…..if the wheelchair was right there I’d probably have suggested to you that we wheel you out…..but would have walked with you if you declined the wheelchair.

Edited

I assume they did a datix. And no I wouldn't have refused the wheelchair.

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PostItInABook · 16/04/2024 19:36

Well, given what else you’ve said about their attitude and behaviours, I wouldn’t assume they did a datix. You need to contact the Trust patient experience team to give your feedback. Don’t try and go through the hospital PALS team because that is completely separate. Which Trust was it?

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:42

PuddlesPityParty · 16/04/2024 17:20

OP although I do think you should complain in the sense of constructive feedback, I am also a bit skeptical of your motives. You’ve gone from saying one thing to now saying one of them was showing off their lack of knowledge (but all of while you were in no fit state and confused?). I seriously doubt they were showing off, that would be very odd indeed and I would leave out any such embellishments. Also that it took ages for them to notice but you were likely only unconscious for a few seconds?

I think the likelihood is you weren’t meant to follow, but when you did they assumed you could walk hence them holding the doors. Obviously someone should’ve walked with you or waited with you, which is what the feedback should focus on, but your other comments are assumptions and likely not helpful.

I remembering things as I write. It's strange the things your brain remembers. I started off just remembering the way they treated me going to the ambulance but now remembering other things. And yeah, I was having a brain bleed so not really with it. It was just strange the way he was stating he didn't know what my medications were like he was really proud of himself. I don't know how to explain it. It's the kind of thing some people do. Or maybe I was so doolally I'm remembering it wrong!

Not sure I said it took ages for them to notice. I just said that when I woke up I was alone, they'd not noticed at that point but I qualified that by saying I was probably only unconscious for a few seconds so therefore saying it did not take them ages to notice.

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:45

Amara123 · 16/04/2024 17:21

What's quite worrying in this thread is that most people do not understand that giving feedback to PALS for improving care quality isn't the same as suing for damages.
In healthcare we NEED to know when things go wrong so we can improve. Better protocols, equipment, training.
Yes getting poor feedback is not pleasant but it's actually factual and helps everyone.
I work in healthcare and have fed back to PALS as a patient, otherwise all these near misses pile up and serious injury occurs. A spirit of helpful feedback helps the service.

I couldn't agree more. All this 'we shouldn't say anything because they work hard' would only be agreed with by an unscrupulous member of staff. Feedback is important and to try and block it is so dangerous.

OP posts:
RawBloomers · 16/04/2024 19:46

PuddlesPityParty · 16/04/2024 18:55

Sounds more like he was stating out loud he didn’t know it and OP is getting herself wound up.

Maybe. Maybe not. That’s the point of describing the entire incident as OP saw it. If others have had a similar experience and feed that back too then there’s probably a training need whatever his intent.

StMarieforme · 16/04/2024 19:47

Yeah for all you know they'd just dealt with an horrific death.

You're ok. Just don't.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:50

PampasGrass · 16/04/2024 17:27

@WatermelonWaveclub i remember your previous thread and was one of the people urging you to go get help.

Of course you fucking report this! You had a bloody brain bleed and we’re passing out on coughing with neurological deficit which had been witnessed by your GP. Even if they wanted you to walk then one of the 3 of them should have had eyes on you. Is there any chance where the ambulance was will have CCTV from the surgery or a nearby shop? I would 100% be asking for this if there is a chance. They know they fucked up and they should have made up for it afterwards.

There is a thing that NHS workers can do no wrong. Declaration I am one. Some of the hospital staff are scarily shit but no one can say anything against say nurses who only do night shifts as they things it’s easier and de skill and don’t say fill in nursing home discharge paperwork when it’s quiet to get patients out as they want to sit and do their knitting. Whilst being loud and stopping patients sleep.

Yeah, I'm terrible for getting help for myself. I ended up phoning 111 who booked me a GP appointment within the hour.

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 19:53

gkdf · 16/04/2024 17:32

I think you should feedback your concerns op because it does sound like it could have been handled better. With 3 staff I'd certainly expect 1 to hang back with the patient incase support was needed.

How was your care once they got you up off the floor?

Well, they got me to hospital quick but can't say the technician went up in my estimation. Wouldn't shut up chatting and my head was pounding! 😂 Excellent care once I was in hospital.

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hollyivy123 · 16/04/2024 19:53

OP you still haven't answered about whether this was witnessed or not by the GP surgery staff. Why is that?

theeyeofdoe · 16/04/2024 19:56

Flopsythebunny · 16/04/2024 11:21

No. I wouldn't complain

Why - you should always feed back about substandard healthcare, otherwise standards don't improve. I'm a HCP and we're encouraged to be critical and reflective about our own standards.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 20:02

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 16/04/2024 17:38

I cannot believe the number of defenders of the indefensible. Why would we hold health care service professionals to such a low standard that merely requires them not to deliberately harm a patient (oh well, accidents happen) And, yes, wasn't the OP so unreasonable for not doing her own risk assessment and not making her requirements clear. (And let's then throw in a bit about her having an ambulance arrive far too quickly)

@WatermelonWaveclub - I hope you're on the mend

I am, thank you!

It's funny because one thought I have is that the ambulance man thought I was putting it on (not sure how you'd reach that conclusion) and then it also seems posters think I was putting it on and the ambulance came far too quickly for a faker. I'm sure they don't mean that but it's how it comes across.

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 16/04/2024 20:07

StMarieforme · 16/04/2024 19:47

Yeah for all you know they'd just dealt with an horrific death.

You're ok. Just don't.

I used to be a nurse, and I know that a healthcare professional needs to be able to compartmentalise. I have worked in Theatre, trying to save the life of a person who had been beaten up so badly they were unrecognisable - a very upsetting and difficult case - but once they went out to recovery, we all had to focus on the next patient, because they deserved our absolute best too.

If a healthcare professional is so badly affected by a death/patient, then they should go straight to their manager and ask to be sent home, so you can take the time you need before coming back to give all your patients your best.

If you are working, every patient deserves a high standard of care - and what happened to @WatermelonWaveclub was not high standard care. A patient who has passed out several times, whenever they stand up and cough, should be escorted to the ambulance. Instead of walking ahead of her and not noticing when she passed out, if they had been walking with her, they could have seen that she was about to pass out, and caught her.

She could have hit her head - and as she said she subsequently went on to be diagnosed with a brain bleed, a head injury could have made this worse.

Would you be happy for your sick relative to pass out in a car park while the three paramedics/ambulance staff charged with their care walked away from them and didn’t even notice they had passed out? Really?

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 20:09

WiddlinDiddlin · 16/04/2024 17:57

@WatermelonWaveclub I reckon the guy had had a bad day, it was 4 in the morning and I don't think he had a clue how aggressive he came off or how vulnerable that might make someone feel, alone, naked (I mean I had the duvet on me but still...) in a room being yelled at (yep he did raise his voice at one point).

Hopefully he did recieve extra training and won't behave like that again, I've never had an experience like it since with WMAS, they are normally incredible, but humans make human mistakes. If we don't feedback on what happens, things cannot be addressed.

I think some people leap to the instant conclusion that a complaint = sue = compensation. It doesn't mean that at all, in my case I just wanted to ensure this didn't happen to someone else and this paramedic didn't fuck up even worse in future.

Exactly my feelings too.

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 20:11

BKE · 16/04/2024 17:58

How on earth can it be their fault?!

Your first line talks about how you keep fainting.

You clearly have an issue and they were with you when it inevitably happened again. They can't instantly prevent these things by being present.

Did you hold the GP responsible when it happened in the office?

Of course they can prevent me falling - by using a wheelchair. The GP dealt with the situation well - no complaints atall.

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OrchardBlack · 16/04/2024 20:15

If this was police I guarantee everyone would be saying to complain.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 20:17

Blushingm · 16/04/2024 18:12

Parts of this you say you don't know as you were so unwell but other bits you seem to recall really clearly. You say you can't remember what was said so I'd it possible you said you could walk?

I'm not sure what putting in a complaint will achieve as your recollection sounds hazy

Perhaps put your efforts in to recovering from what sounds a frightening experience and not dwelling on this? You've no lasting damage to you from your faint in the car park

It's very strange at certain points I could just hear things very securely and other points I think I just felt pain and nausea.

You are correct it is possible I said I could walk.

I don't think it matters what I said. They knew I was likely to faint again so whether I could walk or not is irrelevant.

I am finding it hard not to dwell on it.

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 20:19

hollyivy123 · 16/04/2024 18:15

Because OP recollection seems hazy that's why I suggested asking the GP surgery their opinion on it as witnesses. If she's so sure that's what happened, then the GP will back her up.

Yes, the nurses would have seen them walking off ahead of me. Not sure if there is CCTV in the car park.

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Frances0911 · 16/04/2024 20:19

It sounds as though they weren't taking you seriously.

It's unusual for anyone to faint from coughing, so what was the outcome of the tests and diagnosis at the hospital?

Rattatoille · 16/04/2024 20:20

Concannon88 · 16/04/2024 11:59

Ditto. They put their arms under my arms and walked very slowly out to the street in my pyjamas whilst I felt like dying.

@Concannon88 & @gestroopd

I hope you are both better now. I've had to walk to the ambulance too, but I wasn't dizzy or unsteady on my feet, severe abdo pain which resulted in major surgery. I think in OP's case there should have been a paramedic each side to support the patient.